Wedding dress and dress styles that fits your figure

What is your body shape; Are you a pear, petite, hourglass, apple or some other body shape? For finding the perfect designer wedding dress, you will need to know your body shape. If you are pear shape for instance, common to a majority of female, you may want to fit in a dress that puts emphasis on your torso and at the same time gives fewer accents on the hips. A style such as the princess cut would be just perfect.  The princess cut or A-line dress fits tight on the body and opens from the waist providing a wider hemline. It is also a very popular choice among many brides.

If your body shape is more that of an apple, this type of figure is fully rounded having the waist, the shoulders and the hips of same width; an A-line dress will also go well on such figure. You can also try the hourglass style that is characteristic to such figures with the same width on the hips and shoulder and a waist that is thin. Making the correct choice of a wedding dress is essential for the day when you most likely will be the center of attention.

Other dress styles include the mermaid, the ball gown, and the empire. Each puts accent on specific characteristic of your figure; the mermaid is for women that would like to show off her silhouette. The dress embraces all the curves of the body and is perfect for an athletic or slender body shape. It will also grace the body of a petite quite nicely.  If your wedding ceremony is that made from fairy tales or of extreme extravaganza, a ball gown would be perfect for the occasion.  The perfect designer wedding dress  does not need to be expensive. If you start shopping early, you may have your sight on a nice dress and acquire it during the sale season. Many women would start looking for the perfect dress even a year before the event date.

To have an idea of the type of dress you would like, you can surf the web and see what’s on offer. It is much better than going to the closest high street and window shop.  Online stores have many different varieties which could prove appealing. At some stores you can be directed to the closest outlet that they have so that you have the opportunity to actually try the dress for size and fit. You want this day to be perfect so you would like to be certain that every single detail has been taken care of.

Buying a perfect dress does not require that it be ready-made. If you like a particular style that is with sleeves but prefer that it to be sleeveless, you can always ask the store if they can modify the wedding dress for you. Keep any alteration to the minimal; If you make to many alterations than, it would be better if you keep shopping for a dress that will be closer to your envisaged design.

 

Find the Dream Wedding Dress for Your Wedding Day

During our life there are occasions that are very special to us and that we cherish for ever. Often we dream about the moment and want everything to be just perfect. Our wedding day for example is one of those occasions that we want to look our best. On that day, we are the center of attention; from our wedding dress, the church ceremony, and the party, we organize everything meticulously paying attention to every single detail.

As a bride, we start by looking for the perfect dress. We know that we are all alone on this one or maybe only have the assistance of a few trusted friends — it is said that the groom should not see the bridal gown until the wedding ceremony.  There are many design and styles to choose from.  Finding the perfect dress requires patience and knowing what you are looking for.  Your body shape will dictate much on the type of dress to buy.  You would want to have something that is fit for the occasion.  To find what you want, you will very much appreciate the company of a friend when you go shopping for your wedding gown. Their sincere advice will be most welcome letting you know if the dress fits perfectly with your figure.

Shopping for a dress is best started early. Many women will start nine month before the actual wedding day. It is not unusual to start a year early. If you already know your body shape and the type of dress that you desire than, you should start looking for that special dress. When searching for a dress and you have in mind the style that you desire, the only limitation could be your budget and how far you are willing to travel to find that perfect dress. You may appreciate the fact that finding what is available can be done effectively by making a search for your wedding dress online.

Many online stores have on display a range of selections of the best dresses that you can find and at reasonable price. They also have a list of locations in various countries where you may actually go and try your selection. Let’s face it; to buy a wedding gown, you need at least to be able to try it on. You may desire some last- minute fixes or actually look in the mirror and see how it fits on your body. That! Every single woman would want to do; admire themselves in their beautiful dress on the mirror.

I guess the best part about a wedding ceremony is the day of the event. It will be of no surprise that all eyes will be fixed on you. Depending on the venue that you have chosen, your beautiful dress will speak volume. A nice church wedding which most women dream of will have you walking down the isles your hand holding on to your husband to be. There is just one thing that you will hear whispered in your ears as your partner lay eyes on you in the stunning bridal gown; You look beautiful!

 

Wedding Speeches

More and more, couples are choosing to write their own wedding vows. Although many people believe that this is the best way to truly express their personal beliefs and feelings, often they are unsure about how to begin and what to include. If you would like to write your own wedding vows, here are some tips for writing vows that pledge the love you truly feel.

Inform your clergyman early

If the ceremony will be religious, let the clergyman know about your plans as soon as possible. If there are guide principles you will need to be aware of as you write your vows, the sooner you know what they are the better. This is also a good way to avoid possible conflicts between the beliefs of your house of worship and your own personal beliefs. If there is some disagreement between the two, you may need to adjust your plans or wording, or perhaps look for another clergyman.

Ask Yourselves Fundamental Questions

Once you’ve taken that first step, begin by asking yourselves questions. These may include: “What does marriage mean to us? Why are we marrying? What promises are most meaningful, and which ones are essential that we keep?

You may want to ask what words like love, honor, respect, faithfulness, forgiveness, honesty, fidelity, friendship, and trust mean to each of you. This exercise will help you to clarify your thoughts as well as express your true feelings toward each other, your expectations for the future, and your personal visions of your lives together in the future.

Focus on what’s unique

An essential element of personalizing your wedding vows is expressing what is unique about the other person. Think about how you see each other and write down as many of the reasons for loving each other as you can verbalize. If your backgrounds are different, acknowledge this and promise to respect and honor your differences as well as your commitment to building bridges that will strengthen common grounds. If this is not a first marriage for one or both of you, you may want to talk about your faith in love and the bond that marriage creates between two people.

Don’t get too personal

Keep in mind that exchanging wedding vows is as serious as it is meaningful. Your goal should not be to make your vows sound cute or amusing. Also, avoid suggestive language or phrasing.

And don’t confuse personal feelings with private affairs. Topics having to do with money, conception and child-rearing, politics, or in-laws should not be included in wedding vows to be overheard by your guests.

Incorporating traditional pledges

Although much of what you will write will be unique to your relationship and therefore highly personalized, you may want to include meaning parts from traditional vows that are a part of your culture.

While most of the wording is their own, many couples continue to incorporate the familiar love, comfort, honor (though usually leaving out the “obey” part) wording into their vows.

Rehearse before your wedding day

Since this is a special occasion, you should give it all of the time and attention it deserves. Practice reading aloud what the two of you have written. This is the true test that what appears on paper is what you really intended to say, in the way you intended to say it. Rehearsing will also allow you to determine how long exchanging your vows will take and whether adjustments are needed. If the wording sounds awkward or if it is difficult to read, change it.

Don’t rely solely on your memory

A case of nerves can strike unexpectedly, and at the most inopportune time, so make sure your precious words are written down. Once you are satisfied that your wedding vows express exactly what you wanted to say to each other, it is time to finalize your draft. The final copy, preferably two or three, should be printed using a fairly large font size, which will make it easier to read.

It is a good idea to give a copy to the clergyman, at least several days before the ceremony is to take place. If a severe case of nerves does strike, it may be he who will need to read your vows.

 

Wedding Flowers: What You Should Know

Whether your wedding will be coming up roses, daffodils, or something else, choosing the wrong flowers for that blissful day can create a scene you’ll want to soon forget. But armed with a few basics about flowers, the arrangements you choose will land you a bevy of compliments and queries.

When selecting your wedding flowers, the single most important thing to keep in mind is that all flowers have distinct characteristics. Knowing what the characteristics are of the flowers you’ll be choosing can mean the difference between crying because you’re exchanging vows with the man of your dreams and tearing up thanks to an allergic reaction to the pollen in some of those beautiful flowers in your wedding bouquet.

To avoid sniffles and sneezes at the alter, know which blooms might cause you trouble. And ask each person in your wedding party which blooms they are allergic to before ordering bouquets. Topping the list of highly allergenic blossoms are lilies and gardenias.

If you are planning a warm-weather wedding, be sure to stick with flowers that can withstand heat and high humidity. Delicate flowers, like hydrangeas, are likely to wilt and sag in warm weather. Choose hardier flowers, such as orchids, roses, or herbs.

The fragrance from flowers will be stronger during warm weather, therefore take this into consideration when making your selections. You will want your guests to feel as if they’ve just walked into a flower garden, not a perfume factory. When planning a summer wedding that will take place in a small, completely enclosed room, choose less-fragrant flowers such as orchids or asters. Freesia, tuberose, and gardenias should be avoided. Want to take your guests’ breath away (figuratively speaking, that is)? Near the entrance to the reception area, be sure to have lovely floral centerpieces, or perhaps candles, at eye level. Stringing garlands, ribbons, or some other kind of delicate ornaments above windows or doorways will also add to the effect.

Winter brides should consult a florist before settling on a particular arrangement. Below 42 degrees, some flowers may turn black. This doesn’t necessarily mean that those flowers must be excluded from your bouquet, but it does mean that they shouldn’t be taken along for an outdoor photo shoot.

Lilies will help you to put on a stunning show, but before you carry them next to your dress, be sure to have your florist remove the stamens. Left intact, they’ll stain your dress with bright yellow pollen.

Although charming to look at, some field flowers are best left out in nature. Once they are cut, most–poppies and bluebells, for example–will droop and wilt before you get to the altar. Notable exceptions to this general rule include asters, sweet peas, and daisies.

Flowers are sensitive to cigarette smoke. So, if you don’t want your bouquet to turn colors or wilt, ask your guests to smoke outside.

Some popular wedding flowers, such as euphorbia and daffodils, are hollow-stemmed, so their sap can drip onto your lovely gown. If you choose one of these varieties for your bouquet, have your florist completely wrap the stems.

Many couples begin greeting their guests well before the ceremony is scheduled to begin. If this is your plan, the groom’s boutonniere may be completely flattened by the time he has finished hugging and kissing his and your relatives and friends. Consider ordering a second boutonniere, which will be fresh for the ceremony and the photo session.

Don’t allow your centerpieces to hinder conversation between guest. Centerpieces should always be either high or low, never in between, forcing your guests to crane their necks to speak to someone on the other side of the table.

Here are a few final points to keep in mind:

Know in advance where everything is supposed to take place. In fact, it’s a good idea to write down the schedule of where everyone should be and when. Give a copy to your mom or dad, the maid-of-honor, your caterer, and your florist. Giving a copy of the schedule to the florist will help to ensure that the right floral arrangements arrive at the right location on time.

Reusing the floral arrangements from the ceremony for the reception areas will help to keep down costs. As long as you have planned in advance by making sure that the color schemes blend, there is no reason not to recycle wedding flowers.

 

First Dance Advice

I’m sure you’ve seen it … the first dance is announced and the bride and groom shuffle on to the dance floor. As the music starts, all eyes, and cameras, are on them as they sway there, looking about as graceful and entertaining, as a bag of cabbages. Cringe…

The not-so-surprising secret to avoiding such a disaster is to have a plan. Your wedding dance is your chance in the spotlight to surprise and delight your guests so your planning efforts will be well rewarded.

Your plan need not be complicated – just break your wedding dance into three stages and prepare for each. Stage one: entering the dance floor; Stage two: performing your dance; and of course, Stage three: ending your dance and exiting the floor.

How complicated you choose to make these stages is up to you. Read on, to discover the planning secrets that will ensure your first dance as a married couple is greeted with cheers and delight by your friends and family.

STAGE 1 – Entering the Dance Floor

If you have spent considerable effort learning your wedding dance the last thing you want is for your guests to enter the dance floor before you have finished your routine.

Secret Tip 1: Give your MC or DJ a written speech that will set the scene, clear the floor and keep it clear. “Ladies and gentlemen could you please clear the dance floor as the bride and groom will now perform their first dance as a married couple. I suggest you grab your cameras as they have prepared something extra special that I’m sure will surprise and delight you.”

Choreograph your entry onto the floor so you know exactly how, and from where, in the room you will enter the dance floor. You might even like to visit your reception venue and have a trial run.

Secret Tip 2: Plan to cut your cake immediately before you perform your wedding dance. After the cake has been symbolically cut and photos taken, the groom can guide the bride onto the dance floor holding his right arm high, palm down and the bride rests her left arm on top, displaying her sparkling wedding ring. If you unsure about how to enter the dance floor, ask your dance teacher to prepare something for you or use one of the dance beginnings presented on a quality wedding dance DVD.

STAGE 2 – Performing your dance

Your bridal dance will be something the two of you will probably remember forever, unlike the flowers, the cake and the table decorations. Also remember that this moment will be watched by all your friends and relatives and captured on video, so learn a choreographed routine from a professional.

Look around for a local dance studio and ask if they offer wedding dance packages.

Secret Tip 3: If you can’t afford private lessons at a studio, look around for group classes (high schools, and community centres sometimes offer courses).

Secret Tip 4: No matter how you learn your dance – practice until you know your routine well and then practice in public. Local clubs often hold dance nights. Go along and practice in public to build your confidence. It’s also fun.

STAGE 3 – End your dance in style

The ending of your wedding dance is the perfect moment for your photographer, videographer and guests to capture a stunning pose of you on film.

Secret Tip 5: Have your dance teacher choreograph a special ending for your wedding dance that lends itself to photography.

Secret Tip 4: Less is more. Don’t feel you have to dance for the entire song. Only dance for about 2 minutes and then have your DJ fade your music after you perform your ending moves. It’s better to perform five confident moves in a routine and leave your guests cheering for more.

After you have performed your first dance routine you might like to leave the dance floor arm in arm have your MC invite all your guests to join you for the next dance.

Partner dancing may be a new skill for you as a couple, however it can be something you can enjoy together for the rest of your lives. Dancing is fun, sexy, relationship building and will keep you fit. Make the effort to learn to dance for your wedding and you will reap the rewards for your first dance together as a married couple and beyond.

Wedding Checklist

Below is a wedding checklist of all the things you need to complete before the big day.  You may think you have plenty of time to prepare for the wedding but you do not.  Most weddings are plannined 12-18 months in advance which may seem a long way away.  But as you will see when you look at the checklist that many of the items on the list have to be completed at least twelve months in advance.

The reason for this is because you are likely to have a set date in mind when you want to get married and in order to get this date it is best to book well in advance to save disappointment.  Plus if you are planning on getting married in wedding season which are the months of June-September other couples may have the same dates in mind as you.

Obviously one of the first items is to prepare a wedding budget before you can decide on venues and receptions you have in mind to ensure they are within your allocated budget.

12 months before your Wedding day:

· Announce the engagement
· Set your wedding date
· Create a budget
· Hire a Wedding Coordinator (optional)
· Create your guest list
· Start brainstorming ideas and themes
· Reserve your Ceremony spot
· Book an Officiate
· Make reservations for your Reception area
· Book a Photographer and Videographer
· Book Caterer, Florist and Music (Band, DJ, etc.)
· Look for a Wedding gown and Tux, allowing time for alterations and fittings
· Register for gifts
· Select and call the bridesmaids and groomsmen.
· Agree on a date to order bridesmaids’ dresses and groomsmen’s tuxes
· Choose a destination for your Honeymoon
· Apply for passports, if required

6 months before your Wedding day:

· Finalize your guest list
· Decide on the timeline and details of Ceremony and Reception
· Order/make invitations, and thank you notes
· Make airline and hotel reservations for the Honeymoon
· Choose a caterer, a florist and place an order for the wedding cake.
· Book Transportation (Limo, Antique Car, Etc.) for wedding day
· Shop for any Party rentals

3-4 months before your Wedding day:

· Mail out/hand deliver invitations
· Confirm wedding details and contracts with all wedding vendors
· Choose gifts for your attendants
· Set a date and time for the rehearsal dinner
· Help make travel arrangements for any out-of-town guests
· Make final alterations and fittings for the Wedding Gown and Tux
· Set time with your Photographer for the Bridal Portrait or Engagement shoot

1 month before your Wedding day:

· Apply for the marriage license
· Buy your wedding bands
· Finalize music list and no-play list with band or DJ
· Attend showers
· Make insurance arrangements

1-2 weeks before your Wedding day:

· Schedule the rehearsal a day or two before your wedding day
· Make an appointment with a Beauty Salon for day of wedding
· Send a wedding announcement to the local newspapers (optional)
· Make necessary arrangements for name & address change, if any.
· Discuss final details with the reception Site and the Caterer
· Pack for honeymoon
· Write out all checks needed for wedding day
· Send reminders to the rehearsal dinner attendees about the location & time
· Discuss final details of the ceremony and reception with family and bridal party

Wedding day or day before:

· Visit your Beauty Salon for manicure and pedicure
· Host the rehearsal and dinner.
· Make sure the ushers have the final guest list.

Something New

When it comes to “something new” for their wedding day, most brides start with the all-important wedding dress. The latest news in finding the wedding dress of your dreams is to seek a look that expresses your special personality and style.

“This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to be the belle of the ball; make sure you try a variety of silhouettes in various fabrics to find a gorgeous dress that is uniquely you.

Reading bridal magazines is a great way to get a feel for the latest trends and to start thinking about the styles you like. However, just because a gown looks great on the model in the photograph, doesn’t mean it’s the best ‘fit’ for your figure or your personality.  Be open minded about trying different looks, especially those suggested by your bridal consultant.

“Affordable luxury” is a buzzword for today’s brides, who want an upscale look without the couture price tag. Try shopping at a store that has a great selection of wedding dresses in a variety of price points and that carries a wide range of sizes in stock. After all, if you’re a size 18, you don’t want to have to try to imagine what a size 8 sample dress will look like on you.

What’s New?

Dressing up and feeling fabulous is back in style, with ladylike silhouettes that are both classic and dreamy.

If you’ve been reading the bridal magazines or surfing the net, you know that sweetheart necklines and updated halters are everywhere; strapless gowns continue to be a bridal mainstay as well.

A-line silhouettes, which complement just about every body type, are a perennial favourite. Ball gowns and sheath style dresses, both in keeping with the trend toward romance, are also popular. One of the newest silhouettes is also among the most figure-flattering — side-drape dresses, which look graceful and gorgeous, while hiding any figure flaws. For more intimate or destination weddings, choose from among a great selection of tea-length dresses, in lace as well as other “packable” fabrics.

You’ll also see a bevy of elegant embellishments on bridal gowns. Traditional embellishments such as lace, pearls, appliqués and hand-beading adorn many dresses. Embroidery using metallic thread is putting an updated twist that lends a sparkling effect to the latest designs.

If you’re wondering how you’ll ever find your perfect dress among all the options out there, First, bring along a friend or relative when you shop so you have someone to help you compare the dresses you try on. Second, trust your bridal consultant. They work with brides every day and have an innate sense about what will look good on you. Plus, they know the store’s selection inside and out.

Dressing the Bridal Party

Allow your bridesmaids to showcase their individuality as well. Complete the bridal party look by accessorizing with colour-coordinated shoes, matching purses and complementing jewellery.

 

Second Time Marriages

Just as with your first marriage, your second marriage is a new beginning with your fiancé. So it makes sense that many of the traditional rituals and rules of etiquette apply. But which ones?

There is no reason why you should not register for gifts, have a shower, or wear a white, full-length gown at the altar. Whether or not you will choose any of these options is now considered strictly a matter of personal preference dictated by your style.

Charting a new course

When it comes to the ceremony, one of the questions that experienced brides-to-be frequently ask themselves is “Do I really want to do everything the same or do something completely different?” If you were married in a civil ceremony the first time, maybe it’s time to consider a church ceremony, complete with flower girls, a ring bearer, and attendants.

Because you are certainly all-grown-up now, this is your chance to plan your wedding exactly the way you want it to be, without any unnecessary consideration for the wishes of parents. However, you will want to discuss your feeling and carry out the planning with the groom.

On the other hand, if the formality and style of your first wedding did suite your taste, you should feel free to repeat those elements. Nevertheless, since this is a time to look toward the future, rather than returning to the past, don’t get bogged down with history. Using the same reception site or adding the same personal touches would be in poor taste, so should be avoided.

Large ceremony or small

The size of your wedding party, as well as the number of guests you will invite, is entirely up to you. With regard to the ceremony itself, the rules of etiquette would be the same as if you were marrying for the first time.

If you are planning to invite more than 50 guests, arrange to have attendants (groomsmen or ushers) on hand. If at all possible, you will want to have one attendant for every 50 guests.

And Jenny makes three

Children of the bride and/or groom are often a part of second marriages. If either of you has children, invite them to participate in the ceremony.

Teens make nice junior ushers and junior bridesmaids. Very young daughters can, of course, be flower girls, and little boys, ring bearers or pages. Conversely, if the ceremony is to be small or the ages of the children would make them unsuitable for these roles, you might simply ask them to accompany you down the aisle, or meet you at the altar.

Children do not always welcome the opportunity to participate in wedding ceremonies. If you children seem unwilling to play a role in the ceremony, you should respect their feelings.

Incidentally, if you share custody with your ex-husband, let him know about plans to include your children in the ceremony.

Inviting your ex-husband and former in-laws

If you and your former in-laws are still on good terms, you may want to invite them. However, you are under no obligation to do so. Consider this as nothing more than a formality since they would not be expected to accept.

Rarely would an ex-spouse be invited to the ceremony, even if the two of you have remained friends. Think about it. Inviting your ex-spouse to the ceremony leaves him with only two choices, neither of which would be welcomed: accepting and feeling bad or declining and looking bad.

A more sensible and considerate approach would be to invite him to a private dinner, perhaps at your home, after the ceremony and honeymoon.

 

First Dance

The dancing is usually a much anticipated and enjoyable part of a wedding reception where people get a chance to let their hair down and enjoy themselves after the formalities. It is also a lovely way for the newly married couple to display their love for each other and surprise and entertain their guests with a beautiful choreographed dance routine. It’s also a chance for some beautiful photo opportunities.

There are various traditional wedding dance formalities you may wish to consider. The order of the dancing is something the bride and groom may like to pre-arrange with the wedding party or leave open.

The traditional order of Wedding Dance Partners

Traditionally, the bride and groom will be the first to dance and then the parent dances follow. The father of the bride will dance with his daughter and the groom asks his mother to join him in a dance.

The groom’s father then cuts in to dance with the bride and the groom dances with his new mother-in-law. Traditionally, this dance is symbolic of the groom’s family welcoming the bride into his family. In the case of extended families, it may be important to have the bridal couple dance with the step-parents also.

Following this, the parents dance with each other and then exchange dances with the other couple.

The partner swapping continues with the best man asking the bride to dance and the groom dancing with the maid or matron of honor. Finally, the entire wedding party, ushers and bridesmaids join in the festivities. Once the entire bridal party and their parents are on the dance floor, the other guests are invited to dance.

Contemporary Wedding Dance Partnering

The traditional order of dance partnering is quite complicated and may cause discomfort amongst your guests so remember these are the ‘old’ rules so can ignored completely. A more informal arrangement may be preferable for example, where there are divorced, remarried and other extended family arrangements present.

Probably the most common wedding dance arrangement these days, is for the bride and groom perform a full dance routine on the floor by themselves and then the full bridal party invited to join the couple on the dance floor. This dance may include partner swapping on a formal or informal basis. After a minute or so all guests are invited to join in the fun.

Fun alternatives

A spectacular alternative, also growing in popularity is for the wedding party to perform a routine together after the bride and groom have performed their first dance. This may become expensive though if you are learning at a dance studio. Instead, you may consider learning from an instructional wedding dance DVD. A learn to dance DVD would also be a great gift to give each of your wedding party couples.

When to perform your wedding dance

The first dance is usually performed after the main course is served and ideally, directly after the cutting of the cake. On a practical level, it often works well to have your MC or DJ announce the cutting of the cake and then clear the dance floor and announce your first dance. If you are performing a set routine for your wedding dance you will not want your guests joining you on the dance floor so an announcement should be made to this effect. Something like the following:

“ Ladies and gentlemen I would now like to welcome the bride and groom to the dance floor to perform their first dance as a married couple. This dance is a special choreographed routine they have prepared for you so I would ask all guests to keep the dance floor clear until our couple have finished their routine. I would also suggest you get your cameras and tissues ready as I know they have planned a beautiful routine that is sure to capture your hearts.”

When it’s all said and done though, it’s your wedding day so you can always start your own tradition!

 

Anniversary Party: Part 2

Following on from Anniversary Parties: Part 1 we take a look back at the biggest day of your life and hold a party that celebrates your life together as a married couple.

Holding a anniversary party can be a fantastic time to celebrate the many years together and also take time to get the old wedding photos out of the loft and laugh over the bad outfits many of the guests were wearing twenty five or fifty years ago.

When looking where to hold the party, a fantastic idea would to consider hiring out the hall where the wedding reception was held.  This would be brilliant to bring all the guests back to your wedding day.  If the hall or venue that was your wedding reception does not exist choose something similar or hold a party in your local social club or banqueting hall.

Favors to Remember

Many couples will want to send their guests away with a little something to remember the night by and as a thank you for attending. One of the best favors ideas is a small picture frame of the couple. You can use pictures from their wedding day or a more recent photo. If you can find picture frames that hold two photos a nice idea is to add both a picture of their wedding day and a recent one. Friends and family of the couple will love taking this beautiful keepsake home.

Another great idea is a CD of songs from the era that the couple met and was married. This will bring back great memories for many of their family and friends and is probably one of the most useful favor possibilities. Be sure to check with local copyright laws to determine what type of fees apply to creating and giving away a music compilation. Make sure that all the music on the CD gets played throughout the night to really give guests something to remember.

A favor that is very personal is a great added touch to give those guests that are sharing the celebrations with you.

A Night of Nostalgia

A great idea for any anniversary party, big or small, is a slide show. Start the show of with pictures of the couple when they first met and progress through the years of children and grandchildren. Don’t be surprised to see a few eyes get misty during the show. Add some memorable quotes throughout the show, and play some touching music that reminds them of certain times in their lives.

If you want the slide show to be a surprise, you can ask family and friends for their favourite pictures to add to the show. You’ll probably end up with more pictures than you’ll know what to do with so don’t worry if you can’t get any of the couple’s picture albums.

As you can see, planning an anniversary party can take a lot of time, so start planning as soon as possible. Since you could be inviting well over 100 people, starting a year in advance isn’t too soon. Don’t try and take this task on by yourself, you’ll probably have plenty of offers from friends and family to give you a hand; definitely take them up on their offer. This will be a night for everyone to cherish and remember, and the happy anniversary couple will be on cloud nine after seeing how much they mean to everyone in their lives.

Wow, twenty five or even fifty years together, that is a fantastic achievement and something newlyweds aspire to do and hope they too can make it to fifty wonderful years together.

Handling Finances

For most couples, the time between getting engaged and celebrating the big day is a whirlwind filled with a myriad of details that need lots of personal attention: booking the wedding location, recruiting members of the wedding party, organizing the reception – the list goes on and on.

In all the excitement and activity, one thing that may get overlooked is discussing who is paying for everything and how it will be financed. While it is true that today’s couples are more likely to look for bargains, the typical wedding costs can cost thousands.

Whether the bride and groom are paying for the wedding themselves, or their families are picking up the tab, chances are at least some of the wedding expenses will be put on a credit card. There may be the need to spread the expense over time, or it could simply be because of the convenience of using credit for phone orders or remote contracts.

Figuring out how to pay for the wedding gives couples an opportunity to discuss their feelings toward money in general and more specifically, how they feel about using credit. These are issues that may not have come up previously, since each individual was handling their own money. A good way for couples to start dialogue on these issues is by looking at their credit reports.

Credit checking websites can give you quick and easy access to your credit report and credit score to learn what positive and negative factors are affecting your credit. Each of you should obtain a copy of your credit report and then spend scheduled time reviewing them with your spouse-to-be.

Check pertinent information such as your name, previous and current addresses, National Insurance number and account details. If you find any inconsistencies in your report, you need to report them and correct the information. Once you’ve covered these basics, review your partner’s credit report for clues on how they deal with money and credit.

For example, if your significant other has a history of late payments, that could indicate a problem managing money or that they’re overextended. Or it could simply highlight a devil-may-care attitude toward paying interest and late fees. Either way, it is important for both of you to agree on using and handling credit, because your access to new credit and to better interest rates very likely will be affected by your spouse’s credit behaviour and vice versa.

You’ll also discover whether your partner prefers to pay credit card debt off in full each month or pay only the minimum fee. You’ll want to commit to staying well below the limits to demonstrate strong credit management skills. If a large portion of your income each month is already committed to paying off other debt, future lenders may wonder if you will have trouble paying back an additional loan. You want to protect the privilege of using credit for all the benefits it brings, including monthly statements that make it easier for the two of you to monitor all your transactions every month and manage your expenses.

Before you justify using your credit cards to finance the perfect wedding, keep in mind that those pending balances could be with you for a long time. While you may not want to settle for a less expensive wedding gown, or a less exotic honeymoon trip, just remember it will be even more expensive when you tack on the interest charges that will add up before you pay it off. Have a definite plan for how and when all of it will be paid

Taking control of your spending now will also make it easier to save for your future – new furniture, a special trip for your 10th anniversary or (gulp) university tuition for your kids. And having your credit report up-to-date and in order means that when you need to apply for a car loan or a mortgage, you’ll know that your credit history is in good shape.

 

Anniversary Parties: Part 1

Anniversary parties are a wonderful way to celebrate two people who have been together for a number of years. The most common anniversary parties are for 25 years and 50 years. There are many things you can do to make this day special for not only the couple, but all of their family and friends as well. Many people have shared in the joys and sorrows of the anniversary couple and they help to make this a special day as well. Planning an anniversary party is a huge undertaking, sometimes almost as big as a wedding.

Silver or Gold?

An anniversary party theme is fairly simple to determine. Unless the couple or their immediate family has requested a particular theme (this is unlikely), you should plan a fairly traditional party. A 25th wedding anniversary is traditionally silver, while a 50th anniversary is gold. Use this to plan the majority of your party, everything from invitations to decorations.

Who to Invite

An anniversary party can be as big as a wedding. While many people opt for a small get together consisting of family and close friends only, others look forward to a huge celebration with everyone who has touched their lives in past years. 25th anniversary parties tend to be of the smaller more intimate variety, whereas 50 years together definitely deserves more of a to-do.

If you’re planning a huge bash, it may take quite a bit of time to come up with a guest list. If the happy couple knows about the party the easiest thing to do is ask them who should be invited. Family members and close friends are fairly obvious, but in addition you may want to invite old co-workers, church members, old neighbours, and the list can go on. If you are planning a surprise party for the couple, this can be a little tricky. Rather than getting the input of just one family member, send a tentative guest list to several family members and ask each for additions and deletions. This will help make sure no one gets missed.

The Invitations

If you’re throwing a huge anniversary party, sending out invitations can be quite the task. If the party budget allows for it, get them custom made. You can order the invitations online and get everything shipped to you and ready to go. This will save an enormous amount of time. If the party budget is tight and that money would better go to use elsewhere, making your own invitations can actually be quite simple. All you need is a computer and a printer. You can download some great invitations templates that are simple enough to put together. All you need to do is add all the party information and perhaps a beautiful quote on the front and voila your invitations are ready to go.

Setting the Scene

Decorations for the party don’t have to be hugely extravagant, but by adding some special touches you will help make the night even more special for the happy couple. Use the anniversary colour almost exclusively; this will help make a great effect. Some ways to use either silver or gold are:
- Use gold or silver pen or ink for place cards, menu, and any other written items
- Gold or silver balloons make a beautiful yet inexpensive decoration
- Add gold or silver placemats or doilies at each place setting
- Gold or silver candles and or candle holders make a great centrepiece
- Dinnerware and barware should have gold or silver accents

There are many other ways in which you can incorporate these colours into the party. Just be sure not to overdo it since this may actually have a night club-ish tacky sort of look to it. Add plenty of white to balance it out.

Wedding Planning Guidelines

The first thing that needs to be considered when planning the ultimate wedding is how much time you will give yourself for the planning. In essence; this means what day that you will set the date of the wedding.

This may sound like a trivial matter, but it really is important because it will let you know what the time limit is for making your preparations.

Some weddings can take up to 3-4 months to prepare for and plan. This is pretty typical; depending on how big you are planning for your wedding to be and how fancy etc.

If you are not giving yourself more than a month, then planning is naturally different. Because of the differences in the time that you are giving yourself to planning the wedding, it is best to give the best planning methods and you may use them or not use them as they apply to your case.

One of the most important factors that go with planning a wedding is determining who you will be delegating specific duties to. For example, if you are terrible at choosing flowers, who will you assign to do it for you?

It is always best to try to give different duties to others so that you will not be overwhelmed by them yourself. Let’s take a look at some of the various duties that you can hand out:

· Catering: Who do you believe would be the best person to handle all of the arrangements for the food and drink at your wedding?
· Invitations and seating arrangements: This person will be addressing and mailing out invitations and making sure that people are seated in a fashion that will ensure everyone’s mutual comfort and enjoyment
· Decorations for wedding and reception includes center pieces
· Rehearsal dinners etc.
· Music and/or DJ
· Brides maid and groomsmen gifts and favors
· Gowns, and tuxedos
· Bridal showers/bachelor parties etc.

All of these things are usual must haves when it comes to a wedding, unless of course, you opt not to have bridesmaids or groomsmen in the wedding. All of these things can be murder to try to do on your own as well.

That is why you have to get in touch with people who are capable of taking over some of the menial jobs for you. All of these things seem small at first, but they can quickly add up to quite a bit of money when they are all combined together.

After you have delegated the responsibilities, you should next set a specific time period to have all of the tasks completed. Creating a to-do list and time sheet is a great way to do this. That way, when all of the tasks are finished you can easily check them off.

You should set up specific times and days to discuss the progress of things as well, just in case things are not going so well. In doing this you will be able to help make sure that all things are running smoothly.

You might be wondering what happens when you have done all of this and are ready to get started. First of all, you have to be willing to follow the general wishes of the couple to be wed; that is unless you are the couple and are planning your own wedding.

When planning a wedding on a budget you have to lower your requirements just a bit. For example, you can’t try to have to filet mignon if you are throwing the wedding on a fish stick budget. I have broken down the various aspects of the wedding planning to the last details so that you will get a better idea of what I mean.

Ideally, you would want to have at least a year to plan the wedding, but that is not always possible or desired. For the purposes of this guide, I have set up a 12 month wedding timeline that will certainly make it a little bit easier to host your wedding.

Shopping for a Wedding Dress

Your wedding is quite possibly the most important day of your life and you’ve probably been dreaming about it since you were about 12 years old. The dress you choose is ultimately going to be what people look at and remember about your wedding. That being said, you want to find the perfect dress that will make your guest’s and husband’s jaws hit the floor when you walk down the aisle. Are you thinking that may be unrealistic with your wedding budget? Think again! We have some of the best shopping tips in order to help you save money on your wedding dress. This way you can enjoy your wedding while maintaining a reasonable wedding budget.

1. Shop Around – Don’t assume the first dress you try on is going to be the best deal or look the best on you. There are many dresses to try.  As much as you may love the first dress you find this is because you are excited about getting married and wedding dress shopping is very new to you.  Very likely you are going to like every single dress you try on.  Like everyone says you will know for sure the dress when you find it, whether it be the tenth or twentieth dress.  It is most definately worth shopping around as the styles and cuts are very different from shop to shop as you will find when you start shopping for the dress.

2. Discount Bridal Salons – Discount bridal salons often have sales of up to 75% off (especially on last year’s merchandise) which can save you a lot of money in the long run. If you hear of a discount sale, make sure you know what you are looking for since many women go crazy at these events and dresses are often gone in a matter of minutes.  Some places have online sites where you can view the dresses beforehand to see the style you like.  Some places even have their sales online.  Try in store first before buying a dress online.

3. Have Someone Make Your Dress – If you have a talented friend or family member who you trust to make your wedding dress for you, you can save an enormous amount of money and still have a great dress for your big day.

4. Look on the Internet – the Internet is a great place to search and explore the many options of styles for your dress and you are guaranteed to find dresses which do not cost a fortune.

5. Bridal Salons – normal bridal salons (as opposed to discount) sometimes have sales which offer around 30% off last years merchandise. The salons near where you live are definitely worth looking into.

6. Borrow or Rent – Some women cringe at the thought of borrowing or renting a wedding gown, but others may not take it as seriously. Wedding dresses are really only worn for one day and renting or borrowing can really save you a lot of money.

7. Seamstresses – Contact a seamstress and ask for a quote. It’s unlikely that a seamstress is going to charge you as much as a bridal salon. If you do this, make sure to ask about their experience in this area or past brides who you can contact. This will ensure they are reputable and there won’t be any “mishaps” with your dress.

Finding the perfect wedding dress is important, but paying a ridiculous amount for one dress can be a waste of your money. Finding the perfect wedding dress for the perfect price, now that’s a wedding dream come true!

Honeymoon Choices

Weddings are stressful. No matter how much planning and preparation you do the stress levels never seem to go down. There always seems to be that opportunity for things to go wrong. So why not reward yourself with a fantastic holiday at the end of it?

This is your chance to have the holiday of your dreams, and usually not expense spared.  After all you only have a honeymoon once.

If you have always dreamed of going on a safari or going on a cruise this is your chance.  This is of course that your other half has the same dreams and expectations of their honeymoon.  Remember it is a holiday for both you and you both need to enjoy it.

Plus it is your first holiday as a married couple.  Whoop Whoop.

One of the biggest things the bride and groom have to look forward to is their Honeymoon. Personally I would never recommend delaying the honeymoon particularly for work commitments. You will find you need this time to chill after an enjoyable but stressful period.

The Wedding Day takes so much preparation and planning that the Honeymoon is the ideal way for the bride and groom to relax, de-stress and enjoy their first few days or weeks of married life together.

Where to go on your Honeymoon can be as big a decision as any of the other Wedding Day decisions you have just spent weeks if not months making. Do you both like the same things when on holiday or are you going to have to find compromise with your Honeymoon destination?

Some of the more popular Honeymoon choices are all-inclusive resorts where everything is paid for in advance. For a Honeymoon this can be the ideal choice after the expense of the Wedding. You can order snacks, meals and refreshments without worry about a final bill.

Many people envisage themselves on Honeymoon relaxing surf side with a cocktail in hand, the sun high in the sky and everything done for you. But if that’s not your idea of a good time then why not Honeymoon somewhere that little bit different. Honeymoon in the mountains at a secluded ski resort has a certain appeal.

What time of year your Wedding takes place can have a bearing on where you choose for your Honeymoon destination. If you have chosen a winter wedding then you may want to continue the theme whilst on Honeymoon and a ski resort with roaring fire is ideal. Maybe you want the complete opposite and are looking for some winter sun on Honeymoon.

There are lots of choice of Honeymoon destinations, as a lot of travel agents can produce packages that are catered just for newlyweds, providing luxury.

Examples of Honeymoons include a safari, visiting USA, Italy and Greece.  Those couples that choose to get married abroad can mean they have a wedding and Honeymoon rolled into one, often meaning they spend their Honeymoon with their friends and family who have come over to celebrate the happiest day of the life for the happy couple.  The choices available are endless.

If you are unsure on where to go on your honeymoon, visit a local travel agent who will go through all your options with you and get ideas as to what you both like doing on your holiday and whether you like somewhere hot for a beach holiday or a city break.

Whatever it is that you are looking for on Honeymoon spending time with your partner after the stress of the Wedding is the most important thing. Use your Honeymoon to unwind and relax and wherever you go…..have a ball!

Your Forever Ring

Once upon a time the plain gold band was the only choice for a man’s wedding ring. While brides-to-be deliberated over gem stones and other detailing, grooms simply told the jeweller their finger size and went on their way. But times have changed.

Today grooms have a host of options, from intricately detailed to customized creations. Wedding rings come in a variety of styles, metals and finishes to fit the personality of every groom. The trend today is definitely about individual style.

While gold will always be a popular choice, other metals are currently gaining favour.  Many men are stepping outside the box to personalize their wedding band by using alternative metals to express their individuality.  This season, men’s rings are both functional and fashionable.

Platinum, a silver-coloured precious metal, is a big trend right now. According to research the number of brides and grooms choosing platinum rings has reached 40 percent. A matte finish is hot right now, as it gives a subdued, modern look. While more expensive than gold, it is also more durable, making it a good choice for those who work with their hands.

No longer just a girl’s best friend, many grooms are adding diamonds to their rings. Nothing over the top, according to a source. These rings give just a bit of sparkle, often in a style that compliments the bride’s ring. Most popular are channel-set or gypsy-set stones that offer a flush mounting and secure fit.

For a personal look, many grooms are adding special details. Custom engraving is a great option for grooms who want a ring unique to them. Personalised rings allow couples to imprint names, dates or a special phrase on the outside of the ring, creating a treasured family heirloom. Some grooms are creating jewellery wardrobes by matching key pieces.
Many grooms unaccustomed to wearing jewellery are discovering the newest ring metal: titanium. This lightweight, durable metal comes in either satin or polished finishes, often with an accent stripe of gold. Titanium rings provide an up-to-date look at an affordable price.

When shopping for a ring, remember to check for marks that indicate you’re getting the metal you pay for. Gold is stamped according to its karat: 14K or 18K. Platinum is marked with PLAT, PT, PT950 or IRIDPLAT. Look for a ring that not only matches your taste, but also your life. Intricate carvings will catch debris, and may not be a good choice for those who engage in messy work. Matte finishes tend to show scratches more quickly. And some people are sensitive to metals and may have skin allergies that make one metal a more desirable choice than another.

There is so much choice available.  If you do feel over whelmed by the amount of choice, speak to a jeweller about the style you are looking for or what types of jewellery you currently own and the jeweller will find something to suit.  At the end of the day it needs to be something you are going to love because you will need to wear if for the rest of your life.  It’s pointless having a ring you are not quite sure about to regret it for years to come.  A ring that is not going to get dated is the best as you may want to pass this down the family and maybe give to your sons or daughters.

Take your time when selecting a ring. Remember, long after the tuxedos have been returned and the limo ride has ended, your wedding ring will be with you each moment to remind you of your lasting commitment.

Saving money on dresses and tuxedos

Bridesmaid’s dresses get more and more costly with every extra woman in the wedding party. When you are deciding how much money you can afford to spend on the wedding clothes, you have to consider the fittings and the flowers or accessories as well.

If you can, you might do better to allow for casual wear for the bridesmaids so that they can wear less expensive dresses or skirts.

The less formal the ceremony, the less money that you are required to spend. Perhaps that is why outdoor ceremonies are getting more and more popular these days.

You can also save money on the ladies dresses by purchasing them off season from a bridal store. You can always shop for out of season or discontinued dresses as a means of getting great discounts on gorgeous dresses. If you really want to, you can ask that your bridesmaids forget about the wedding day gifts in favor of buying their dresses. That is a common compromise that is made these days.

If the cost of the dresses is really going to be a matter of stress for you, just reduce the bridesmaids to just having a maid/matron of honor and a best man only for the groom.

Many couples opt to forego the extras all together and simply do not have anyone standing up with them at all. After all, there is no law that states that you have to have a maid of honor or best man present during the ceremony.

When it comes to the tuxedos for the male participants and the groom, you can often find good deals when renting if you just shop around. It helps is you limit the number of participants if you must in order to reduce costs or if the men involved have their own tuxedos already.

Either way, research and comparison shopping really is the best chance.

You can also choose to rent the ladies gowns as well as the tuxedos. Not everyone wants to spend hundreds of pounds on a dress that they will wear once. Or spend that much money on many dresses that you will never be worn more than once.

Many bridal shops will let you rent a dress rather than buy one. The only difference with rented dresses is that you have to take it as is. They are not custom fitted to you. Other than that, you can save hundreds of dollars doing this.

Wearing your mother or grandmother’s wedding dress is also an option; especially if your are choosing a period theme where the dress was used. For example, if you are wearing your grandmother’s dress and the dress was worn in the 40’s, you can make the 40’s your wedding theme.

If the dress is your mother’s from the 60’s or 70’s, you can do the same thing. It will save you money and provides you with a fun theme.

You can also opt to make your own dress from scratch. Many women are choosing to go with home made pieces because they can get truly original in the make of the dress and the style.

It can be made in any fashion that you like and of any material also. Making your own dress is a good way to save money and it is also guaranteed to make sure that no one else has the same style as you.

When you make it yourself, you are guaranteed a custom fit without paying a custom price.

Finally, you can save bundles on your whole wedding party clothing, including the wedding dress by dressing according to your theme.

The 4 C’s

Traditionally, a wedding band was worn on the ring finger of the left hand because it was believed that the vein in that finger went straight to the heart. A wedding ring is a piece of jewellery which will be worn everyday of your life to signify your love and fidelity to your significant other. That being said, you want to ensure you choose the perfect ring, which can be difficult for someone who is inexperienced in this area. Luckily we can help you through the steps of finding the perfect wedding ring for the special person in your life.

The first thing to consider is the kind of metal you want for your wedding rings. Most wedding rings are found in yellow gold, white gold or platinum. These forms of metal vary in price and most likely this decision will be quite easy since most women already know what kind of ring they want.   Platinum is becoming a popular choice for brides.  Yellow gold is not as popular as it used to be this is because white colours go with all outfits of choice.

The next step is choosing the stone for the ring. You will need to decide which kind of stone you want as well as the shape of the stone. Diamonds are still the most popular choice when it comes to stones for wedding rings however coloured stones such as emeralds, rubies and sapphires are becoming more and more popular, especially since the Princess of Cambridge had a blue sapphire as her engagement ring.

The last step is to find a reputable jeweller who you will be comfortable purchasing such an expensive piece of jewellery from. Perhaps it is best to use a jeweller who one of your friends or family members have already used and would recommend for you because of such great results.

If you are like most couples who are marrying, you will likely choose a diamond wedding ring. If you are doing so, you may want to keep the four C’s in mind while doing so. The four C’s are the diamond’s colour, cut, clarity and carat weight.

1. Colour – Diamonds are available in number of colours and shades including white, yellow, green, blue and pink. The colour range starts at D and moves through the alphabet towards Z. The scale moves from white to yellow as it makes its way through the alphabet.

2. Cut – The cut of the diamond is what gives the diamond personality. Diamonds which are cut well will be bright and sparkly, however diamonds that are cut poorly may end up looking dull and boring. Choosing and making sure the cut is perfect is a crucial step in the overall outcome of your wedding ring.

3. Clarity – An inclusion in a diamond is an imperfection inside the stone which will greatly affect the overall worth of the ring. The size, colour and position of the inclusions in your ring affect the clarity of the diamond. You want to ensure the diamond has good clarity.

4. Carat Weight – A carat is divided into 100 equal parts (also known as points). Therefore a one carat diamond equals 100 points; half carat equals 50 and so on. When the diamonds are loose (before they are mounted on the ring), the weight is easy to determine, however, after the diamond has been mounted only a gemmologist can determine the weight of the diamond(s).

Take your time when choosing a wedding ring for yourself or for your significant other. A wedding ring is a sign of your everlasting love to one another and is something that will be cherished for the rest of your lives.

Prenups

You have only just got engaged and there is already talk of who is going to have the dog if you get divorced.  You haven’t even got married and there is already talk of divorce.  Talk about putting a dampener on the whole getting married.  What happened to love and living happily ever after?  Does that happen anymore or are we all thinking this wedding that should last forever potentially could end in divorce.

Unfortunately divorces do happen and pre nuptials are common especially celebrities that have millions of cash that they do not want to lose in the unfortunate case that the wedding life does not work out and is not destined to be happy ever after.

OK. You can look at the idea as very cold and unromantic. You can look at the idea as a considerate and practical way to decide before the marriage certain issues having to do with your money.

It is interesting to note that the custom of creating prenuptial agreements is not the modern invention that it seems to be. During the 19th century, before the Married Women’s Property Act of 1848, prenuptial agreements were necessary for women in the United States. Until the act became law, everything a woman owned or inherited was transferred to her husband. If he died or divorced her, she was just out of luck.

Nowadays it is not so uncommon to execute prenuptial agreements. And these are not just for the famous super-rich couples we read about, where one spouse is much richer than the other. These are couples who want to be upfront about financial issues and get that out of the way before the wedding.

A prenuptial agreement is a signed and notarized contract that describes how a couple will handle the financial aspects of their marriage. The prenuptial agreement has many positive benefits that are not related to divorce, and although it is not very romantic, it has many positive elements.

• If a future spouse won’t sign a prenuptial agreement, it may be best to discover this before the wedding.
The financial well-being of children from a previous marriage can be protected
• Personal and business assets accumulated before the marriage are protected by a prenuptial agreement.
• A prenuptial agreement reveals financial expectations before the wedding.
• A prenuptial agreement discloses assets a spouse may want to give to children or other family members in the event of death.
• In the event of a divorce, the prenup eliminates battles over assets and finances.
• Signing a prenup does not mean that a couple is anticipating divorce.
• Prenups address financial matters need to be faced.
• A well-constructed prenuptial agreement can preserve family ties and inheritance.

Despite its many positive features, the prenuptial agreement cannot accomplish everything.

• A prenuptial agreement may be considered unromantic.
• A prenuptial agreement may give the appearance of a lack of trust between the partners.
• It is true that a prenup could create resentment between certain spouses.
• Certain requirements exist so that the prenuptial agreement cannot be declared invalid. These include failure to disclose all assets, evidence of fraud, forcing the agreement upon the other spouse, unfairness, and lack of representation at the time of signing the agreement.

If you are considering having a prenuptial agreement it is important to remember these things:

• Don’t wait until the last minute to talk about financial matters. Discuss the agreement early in the relationship.
• Don’t try to hide your thoughts, feelings, and especially your assets.

Catering Options Covered

As we know planning a wedding can be very expensive and the catering costs can eat up a large proportion of that budget.  Before doing a budget for catering make sure you know estimated numbers of guests attending so not to under too much or too little food.  Ordering too much can be an unnecessary cost that could be saved.

When you are planning a budgeted menu, you must first know what your exact budget is when it comes to the food and drink specifically. Some people keep the food and drinks separate, but on average, the food and drink are a part of the same bill.

If you can afford the more expensive catering services, then by all means enjoy. However, if you are like most of us, you will likely need a little bit of help in creating a menu that is fitting to your budget.

If you are hosting an indoor reception in a hall and plan to have a dinner option, you have to make sure that you accommodate the needs of all of your guests which include vegetarians. You should request that the guests RSVP beforehand so that you can get the right amount of vegetarian plates.

The way that you choose to serve the dinners can vary. Here are some tips on how you can choose to serve the guests to make it a bit cheaper for you.

· You can serve the meals buffet style, with this option you have people forego wedding gifts in favour of bringing a dish

· You can offer vegetable, fruit an meat platters with dips and crackers instead of foods

· You can ask each guest to contribute a small amount of money to the reception or to make donations toward the reception rather than buying a gift.

· You can offer a soup and salad menu rather than a full blown entrée

· Offer a limited bar which means that you offer an open bar only at certain times such as after dinner and during toasting etc. that way your guests aren’t paying and you won’t go broke, the rest of the time offer a cash bar.

But remember that you should eat least pay for the toast.  You cannot expect your guests to attend your wedding and pay for your toast.  To keep costs down instead of using champagne, use a sparkling wine.  Also cater for those guests that do not drink and have an alternative available such as orange juice.

Offer around the world appetizers instead of a meal. This will give you the opportunity to offer fill ups such as crab, shrimp. Etc. as well as casual appetizers like cheese sticks, chicken wings, and mushroom caps etc. the around the world motif will also provide your party with a variety of different tastes.

· Request that each immediate family member create a dish instead of a present

· Do not pay for extras like servers, bartenders etc. asking a friend or family member to do it instead as a wedding gift to you

Outdoor receptions give you much freedom when choosing your menu because you can serve anything that you want including barbecue, long group submarine sandwiches or pizza.

As long as you offer foods that will accommodate both carnivores and vegetarians, you will be fine. You can always find items to suit all of your needs and every budget as long as your budget is reasonable for the amount of people that you are planning to serve. If it doesn’t fit, you may have to trim the invite list.

Decorations

When it comes to your decorating budget it really depends on where the ceremony and reception will be on what decorations need to be present as well as what if any; themes that you are choosing.

For example, if you are planning an indoor dinner, you have to include centrepieces etc. The most common decorating choice for weddings and reception are flowers, and streamers.

While the streamers and various other decorations are generally inexpensive, the flowers can kill you. It is best when choosing your flowers for a wedding service and reception to use false flowers or paper machete flowers as they are cheap and reusable.

For those who would much prefer to use real flowers, it can be much cheaper to go with wild flowers and/or handpicked flowers. It is also a good idea to use them sparingly.

For example, rather than going all out and decorating everything with flowers just use a simple arrangement for the centre of the table and place them in small vases or handmade crafts.

Of course you can also opt to keep the flowers strictly in the ceremony. Paper machete flowers are getting more and more popular as well as handmade roses that were created from tissue paper. When they are placed on green pipe cleaners or wires that are covered in green tissue paper they are quite attractive. It is a nice way to save money and spend some time with your friends and family in creating them.

When it comes to the decoration budget, this is a time when you will want the church, or hall for the ceremony to cover them for you.

If that is not possible, the ceremonial decorations can be limited to those involved in the ceremony, such as their clothes. If you must, you can pin balloons to the areas where the guests will be seated or create some flowers out of tissue paper.

Streamers are always used, but there are other ways to decorate that are just as appealing. Here are some good tips for decorating at your wedding on a budget.

· A really unique idea is to use glass containers and putting baby fish in them. It is very unique and attractive, and it is also cheap.  The fish can be as cheap as you want them to be

· Good old candle holders and candles are always a romantic addition to any wedding decor

· If your reception is at night it is nice to add fireflies to a glass container with holes for air or even butterflies during the day

· False flower arrangements in a bamboo pot are a very nice addition and keepsake for guests

· Using white Christmas lights streamed through greenery is a beautiful decoration and is one that you likely already have available

· Chocolate and candy flower bouquets are sweet accents to the décor and they can be souvenirs for the guests later.

· Balloons, balloons, and more balloons are always fun

These are not the only decorations that are available but you are getting the idea. The best thing that you can do before choosing your decorations is to choose a theme first. Themes for weddings are just like choosing themes for anniversaries and birthdays. Once you can decide on a theme, you can decorate around that theme.

For example, if you are choosing to have your theme be tropical romance, you can use glass containers with sand etc. as centrepieces to your reception. Some extra and easy to afford themes include those that will be listed in the table below as well as some of the things that usually accompany them.

Men can wear diamonds too

Men’s diamond rings are becoming more and more popular with the modern man. As more men celebrate their marriage by the wearing of a wedding ring, men’s diamond rings are fast becoming the new men’s fashion.

The us girls thought it was just us that got to flash the diamonds.

The wearing of a wedding ring by a man is a reasonably new phenomenon. It is only really since the second world war that the wearing of a wedding ring by a man became common. However it is taking off now, as are diamond men’s rings .

And there are different considerations for a man’s wedding jewellery than for a woman.

A man doesn’t usually wear an engagement ring. A woman does. For a woman it is her engagement ring which is the feature on her finger. It is usually the engagement ring that is admired, not her wedding ring. And for this reason the woman will usually love a stunning diamond solitaire ring for her engagement ring, because a diamond solitaire is a ring to be admired!

And the setting of the diamond solitaire is there really just to hold the diamond. The setting is not the feature, the diamond is. The setting is just there to show off the diamond to best advantage.

So for a woman the choice of wedding ring needs to accommodate the fact that it should not overpower her engagement ring. Whilst there are some magnificent diamond wedding rings for women, they should always be more understated. Small diamonds, and with more of the impact of the ring coming from the ring itself rather than the diamonds.

And if she has a magnificent engagement ring then there is no need for anything but a simple understated band for a wedding ring.

But a man needs to approach his wedding ring quite differently, hence the popularity of diamond men’s rings. Men’s diamond wedding rings are larger and more noticeable than women’s rings. And as there is no engagement ring, the diamonds go on his wedding ring.

This is the only ring on his hands, perhaps the only jewellery that he will ever wear. So it needs to tell the world exactly who he is.

Notwithstanding, it is not as common for men to wear a men’s diamond ring with a single large stone as it is for women. Whilst solitaire rings are the most popular for women, men tend to select more diamonds, and smaller ones.

For women, the setting is just the method of showing off the diamond. For men the setting, and the ring material, is an integral part of the appeal of the ring. Men’s diamond rings are all about the ring and the diamonds together. Women’s rings are about the diamonds.

For this reason men’s diamond rings often feature such modern ring materials as Titanium, Platinum, Stainless Steel or Carbon Fibre. Two tone yellow gold and white gold also looks great.

These rings are also much wider than you would expect for a woman’s wedding ring. This is to make sure that a man’s wedding ring is in keeping with a man’s (normally) wider hand, and also to allow room for the features of the ring and to add the diamonds. Men’s diamond wedding rings are much more ornate than a woman’s wedding ring.

But the most important part is still the diamond or diamonds. A men’s diamond ring with one or more stunning diamonds cannot be matched for style. It says volumes about the man. It makes a clear unambiguous statement that says “I’m married, and I can afford a fantastic diamond ring like this”.

Save the Date: Part 2

What should my save the dates say? How much information do I need to include? The way to think of save the dates is almost like directions. You are instructing your guests to save the date, and beyond that you are giving them all the most important information in order to make arrangements to attend. For a local wedding with not many long distance guests you could get away with just your names, the date of your wedding and the town where you will be holding the event. However, that is rarely the case. Usually planning couples have information they would like to communicate. Here are the various ways to do so and things you can include:

The date:
Obviously!

Your names:
You can keep it casual and just use your first names or if you are concerned this might confuse your guests you can use both of your full names. However, the point can be made if your guests don’t know you by your first names, why are they being invited?

The place:
You really don’t need to give them the exact location of you wedding but just a general region would be a good idea.

Everything beyond those first three elements is optional.

Hotel information:
Chances are you are going to reserving some hotels for your guests. If you know that information it would very helpful to your guests to have it early with your save the date.

Website URL:
Wedding websites are a great idea. It gives you a place to communicate all the information you have unlimited. It also can be updated as decisions are made – which should be a great comfort to you.

Airport information:
If a lot of your guests are flying or travelling far to your wedding, then you might want to include how far your ceremony and reception location is from the airport or directions to get there. Also to note, several of the major airlines will offer a discount that you can pass onto your guests. You simply need to call the airlines in advance and explain that you are planning a large event.   This is for guests that live far away, possibly in another country.

Car rental information:
Car rental company will do the same. They will offer a discount that you can pass onto your guests. Again, call the car rental companies in advance and explain that you are planning a large event.

Things to do/Places to eat:
This type of information is totally optional but can be a nice touch for your guests especially if they are coming long distance to attend your wedding. It could convince your guests to make an extended weekend of your wedding if you suggest some fun activities for everyone before and after your wedding. Also, if you have favorite restaurant recommendations that can be a nice personal touch for your guests to enjoy.

Lastly, be sure to include the text “Formal Invitation to Follow”
If you don’t you will be surprised at how many people will call you thinking your save the date is your wedding invitation. Your great Aunt Matilda (assuming you sent her that save the date after all) is going to ask, “Where is the rsvp card?”

Save the Date: Part 1

You are engaged – congratulations! Undoubtedly, immediately after your friends and family squeal with delight over your news, the first question they will ask is, “So when is the date?” It can be somewhat annoying, especially if you are very recently engaged, but really all your loved ones are asking so they can mentally save the date.

So begins your wedding planning. Obviously the first thing you need to do is start viewing places for your ceremony and reception, because without those there is no wedding.

Once you have nailed down your wedding’s place and date – then its time to get the word out. This is especially important if you are having your wedding during peak wedding season (usually the spring, early summer) or over any holiday weekend. Keep in mind, that while surely your guests are looking forward to celebrating with you, they can have conflicts. Wedding season unfortunately conflicts with many things.
If possible, you want to send your save the date cards out 6-9 months in advance. Lean toward the longer end of that spectrum if you have guests coming long distance or if you have a popular wedding date booked.

Now comes the fun part.

What should they look like? Do they have to match? Who should I send them to? What should my save the dates say? How much information do I need to include? The answer to all those questions is easy. Its entirely up to you and your fiancee. As long as the most important information is on there – your names and your date all the rest is gravy. However, to help guide you through the decision making we offer these words of advice.

What should they look like?
Save the dates are your opportunity to get the word out about your approaching wedding in fun, expressive way. Save the date announcements can be more casual than your more formal wedding invitation. However, keep in mind this is your chance to create a first impression. Your guests will receive your save the date and start forming impressions on what kind of event it will be. So we suggest you be unique, but use high quality materials. Nothing sends the wrong message like flimsy materials.

Do they have to match?
Nope. They don’t have to match the rest of your wedding, but they can. If you are the kind of person who has been dreaming of what your wedding would look like even before you were engaged then perhaps you have some ideas already for color themes, design styles, etc. If that’s the case, great! Work with it! However, often times those types of wedding decisions are not solidified so early in the game so don’t sweat it. The priority is to get those save the dates in the mail so you get on your guests’ calendars. Another consideration, if you are the type A personality with your wedding plans all mapped out, you are going to be seeing a lot of those colors or design decisions over the upcoming months. So much so that you might get a little sick of your chosen colors (gasp! Say it isn’t so!) The save the date offers the opportunity to use your second choice color ideas, just to mix it up a bit. The point is, if you see something completely unrelated to your wedding ideas that you absolutely love – go for it!

Who do I send them to?
Lose the notion that the save the date has to be sent to everyone on your list – because it doesn’t. In fact, (and you didn’t hear this from us) if there are people on your list that are what we like to call “obligatory invites” = people you really have to invite due to family ties, or professional connections, this would be a good time to hold off. We aren’t saying to disinvite them, but if they only receive the formal invitation then no harm done. The reality is if you are inviting your boss to the wedding simply because it’s the politically correct thing to do, then you are probably secretly hoping he/she doesn’t come. Having said all this, we do recommend you make sure you send your save the date to people who might interact with eachother. Say you have a distant Great Aunt Matilda who you are inviting purely out of family obligation. Normally you would not send her a save the date. However, if your Great Aunt Matilda has dinner over your cousin Amy’s house and sees your save the date hanging on her refrigerator there might be feelings hurt.

Cut down on catering costs

Maybe you’ve got the details of the actual wedding ceremony worked out, but what about the reception? One of the major costs of the wedding reception will definitely be the food, so you’ll want to make sure you’ll have enough food for everyone without spending too much money. Here are some top ways to cut on your catering bill that will ensure that your guests enjoy your reception—and you save money.

Don’t order more food than you need.

Most couples want to order an extra tray or two of hors d’oeuvres in case extra guests show up. This is fine (and usually a smart idea), but you should still make sure that you’re not order more appetizers than you actually need; use your discretion based on the guest list. For instance, if you know a number of your guests are vegetarian, you may not need to order as many appetizers with meat. Also, ordering two or three types of hors d’oeuvres will help to reduce your catering bill. If you buy more of the same dish, you can usually save money with most catering companies—different kinds of foods will increase the bill, so it’s important to keep it classy but simple at the wedding—even when it comes to food.

Caterers will also try to encourage you to spend more than you may need to on the actual meal as well. You may not need a five course meal if you’ve already purchased three types of appetizers and a salad, or three extra desserts if you already have a pretty large wedding cake. The time of day that you hold your wedding will give you a good indication of how much food to serve; if you’re having the ceremony in the afternoon or early evening, you may want to serve more food.

Pay attention to the types of foods you order.

There are some foods that are always going to be expensive, even if you only order small amounts. So, since you have to order a considerable amount of food, ordering dishes that aren’t so costly will help you to keep your catering bill reasonable. Certain seafood, like shrimp, lobster and salmon will definitely make your catering bill higher, so if you have to have them, try to use them as only one of the course choices for dinner, or purchase these foods as appetizers to save on costs.

Have food stations.

Food stations are a unique way to serve a variety of foods at your wedding reception, and you can be sure that everyone will find something they like to eat. This way, you won’t have to worry about people changing their minds about their meal choices once they arrive at the reception. A food station with different types of pasta is usually a hit with most guests, and can be very economical. You can also include food stations with other types of the ethnic foods, such as Mexican or Indian fare, to celebrate the cultures of the people who will be attending your wedding, or to acknowledge your backgrounds.

You may also be able to cut your catering bill by not requesting an elaborate setup for your food stations and tables. Using a single colour for tablecloths, usually white, will cut down on labour costs. To add more colour to your reception decorations, you may want to add elaborate centrepieces, so that you can spend as much as you need to on the meals for the reception.

Enjoy your wedding preparations they can be great fun.

A Greek Wedding

The wedding service in the Greek Orthodox faith is an ancient and beautiful ceremony, which has been celebrated in its current form for centuries. The wedding ceremony is full of symbolism and is a great experience if you have never attended one before, because it is likely to be quite different from other weddings you have attended. The service is also rather unique because the bride and groom do not make vows to each other – their presence together in the church is taken to mean that they are serious about getting married.

The Beginning of the Wedding

In most cases the wedding guests will wait with the groom outside the church until the bride arrives (a few sneaky wedding pros will go into the church early to secure a good seat). In the Summer, when most weddings take place, it is not unusual for ceremonies to be arranged back to back, so the guests attending a marriage will often stand around with those who have just attended the previous wedding as they prepare to leave. Wedding dress commentators among the crowd will get to consider and discuss at least two brides and maybe even a third as they leave the church – bargain! Meanwhile, the nervous groom waits for the bride at the entrance to the church, often holding her floral bouquet. He hands it to her as they meet and they then go inside together followed by the guests. There is no separation of the guests into guests of the bride and guests of the groom – everyone sits together and in the case of small churches, many people prefer to stand in a spot where they can get a good view of the proceedings.

Service of Betrothal

The wedding ceremony itself is in two parts: the Service of Betrothal and the Ceremony of the Sacrament of Marriage. The exchanging of rings is the focus of the Service of Betrothal. The priest blesses the rings by holding them in his right hand and making the sign of the cross over the heads of the bride and groom. The rings are then placed on the third fingers of their right hands. The “Koumbaro”, the couple’s religious sponsor, then swaps the rings over between the bride and groom’s fingers, three times. A number of rituals in the ceremony are repeated three times and this symbolises the Holy Trinity: God the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.

Ceremony of the Sacrament of Marriage

This Ceremony consists of several key parts. First, several prayers are said and then as they come to an end, the priest joins the right hands of the bride and groom. Their hands remain joined until the end of the wedding ceremony, which symbolises the couple’s union.

The Crowning

The bride and groom are crowned with thin crowns, or “stefana”, which are joined by a white ribbon and have been blessed by the priest. The crowns symbolise the glory and honour that is being bestowed on them by God, and the the ribbon symbolises their unity. The “Koumbaro” then exchanges the crowns between the heads of the couple, three times.

The Common Cup

The crowning is followed by a reading of the Gospel, which tells of the marriage of Cana at Galilee. It was at this wedding that Jesus performed his first miracle, changing water into wine, which was then given to the married couple. Wine is given to the couple and they each drink from it three times.

The Ceremonial Walk

The priest the leads the couple, who are still wearing their “stefana”, three times around the altar on their first steps as a married couple. The “Koumbaro” follows close behind the couple holding the “stefana” place. At this point the couple (and anyone standing nearby) is usually showered with rice, which was earlier handed out to the wedding guests. The priest will often make use of the bible he is holding to give himself some protection!

Should a man wear a wedding ring?

Strange as it may seem the use of a wedding ring by men was not common until recently. Whereas women have worn wedding rings for centuries, men have not. The use of rings as a symbol of everlasting love enshrined in marriage can be traced back thousands of years. But not so much for men.

It was, in fact, during the second world war that the use of wedding rings by men became more common. (Note that men’s wedding rings and men’s wedding bands are interchangeable, both meaning the same thing.)

It became the custom for US soldiers going to war to publicise their marital status by the wearing of a man’s wedding ring. They were happy to make public their commitment to their wife by the wearing of a public symbol that declared that commitment to all. Given that this habit of wearing men’s wedding bands was reasonably new it was all the more creditable that these men were willing to forego the marital obscurity available to them from not wearing a ring and actively chose to make a public statement about their choice.

Men’s wedding rings have become increasingly more common since that time. Today it is probably as common for a newly married man to wear a ring as not. This may be due to several factors. The modern man may consider it his duty to choose to make the same public marital statement as his wife will. And his wife may well consider it a condition of the marriage that he do so. After all, in these days of equality, if she is prepared to make a statement then should he not do so as well?

Despite the fact that the wearing of a ring by a woman is a matter of choice, it is in fact almost obligatory due to the fact that it is so common. Many women do not even consider the possibility of not wearing one. Often, however, a man usually considers the wearing of a man wedding ring very carefully.

There are a number of issues to consider. Firstly, is he concerned about a public display of his marital status? Some men, whether rightly or wrongly, are threatened by this. Others are not in the least concerned.

Secondly whilst the wearing of jewellery by women is so common as to go unremarked that is not necessarily the case for men. For many men the wearing of men’s wedding bands is just a case of being asked to wear jewellery. Men often do not feel comfortable wearing jewellery and in many cases have never done so before. Whilst some men see their wedding band as different to wearing ordinary jewellery, others feel just the same as if they were being asked to wear ear rings. “It’s just not done by men”.

And as many men have never worn any form of jewellery before they have no idea what it will feel like to have something permanently on the finger. Is it heavy? Does it rub? Silly as it may seem to women this can be of concern to some men.

(If this genuinely is of concern it is quite possible to find a cheap jewellery shop, buy the cheapest ring available and wear it for a while. See exactly what it feels like. And find out your size at the same time.)

Men’s wedding rings are, in the eyes of some men, effeminate. “Real men” don’t wear rings or jewellery at all. This is becoming less of an issue as the wearing of a man’s wedding ring becomes more common, but is still an issue with many men.

Culture is also a consideration. In many cultures the wearing of wedding rings by men would never be considered. Men must think about how their particular culture, and also their religion, would view the wearing of a wedding band.

3 Ways to save on wedding flowers

With all the things you’ll have to worry about paying for when it comes to your wedding, you won’t want to have to spend a lot of cash for slightly smaller things, like accents, decorations, and flower arrangements. Since most brides do want to have flowers at their weddings, and would prefer to purchase them at a reasonable price, here are some ways to save on wedding flowers that you may want to try:

Buy synthetic flowers.

Synthetic flowers may cost a little more when you buy them in bulk because of the material, but they could save you money because they last as long as you need them to. Many people have fresh flower bouquets for the bride, bridesmaids, and flower girls, and these tend to whither rather quickly, especially if the ceremony is indoors. So, you may end up buying more flowers than you actually need in order to keep the flowers looking good for pictures after the ceremony. You can also find colours or types of flowers that may not be in bloom at the time you are having the wedding if you buy synthetic flowers. This way, you’ll have more freedom to create the look you want for your ceremony. If you want to decorate the reception with flowers as well, synthetic flowers may be a good idea, so that you can maintain the look of the room for as long as you need to. And, since most brides want to keep their bouquets, buying synthetic flowers is definitely a good idea.

Plan your bouquet size.

Many brides end up spending more than they wanted to on a bouquet because they didn’t count the amount of flowers that would be in the arrangement, or select flowers that will look good with not-so-expensive accents. Make sure you know just how big you want your bouquet to be, as well as what type of flowers you want to include. And, carrying a single flower down the aisle is wonderful look for a bride as well. You can use a lily, daisy, or even a rose with lace or pearl accents as your bouquet, and add a unique touch to the ceremony. Small bunches of flowers can also be beautiful, proving that, as with most other things, less can definitely be more. If you want to get fresh flowers for your bouquet, selecting flowers that are in season will also help you to save money, since a florist may have to specially order out-of-season flowers, which can increase the bouquet price significantly.

Plan ahead.

Even though flowers for the wedding may seem like a small thing, don’t wait until the last minute to make sure that you have the flowers you want for your wedding. You may have to spend more money to find flowers you want the closer you get to the ceremony, so make sure that you have decided whether or not you’ll purchase flowers from a local florist or order synthetic flowers.

Order Wholesale From The Internet

To find more ideas for how to save on wedding flowers, as well as wedding floral shops that may have what you’re looking for.

Hopefully these tips have given you some good thoughts on choosing your wedding flowers and hopefully saving money so that you can spend more money on that wonderful honeymoon you are your future husband are so looking forward.  Wow, future husband, bet that sounds weird to here.  If you haven’t already start practising your new signature and to get you excited about the bid day that is ahead of you.

Maid of Honour Duties

Your best friend is getting married and you are super excited and she has just asked you to do the honour of being her maid of honour.  Wow, such an honour to be asked this as it is such a huge responsibility.

You be starting to panic as to how much work is involved.  There may be a lot of work involved but it is a great opportunity to get involved in the biggest day of your friends life, and best of all enjoy it.

Being chosen as a maid of honour is a great privilege, but it also requires a large number of responsibilities in the wedding planning process. The maid of honour will likely be spending a great deal of time with the best man, since their duties are often the same and require them to work hand-in-hand in order for the wedding to be a success. Once you have dealt with the excitement of being part of the wedding party and of wearing a great dress, it’s time to start planning immediately. Here is a list of common duties the maid of honour must fulfil:

1. It is the maid of honour’s responsibility to shop with the bride and attend all dress fittings. The maid of honour may want to help the bridesmaids shop for their dresses as well.

2. The maid of honour will be required to help with wedding invitations, wedding favors, flower arrangements, centrepieces or anything else at the bride’s request.

3. A large part of the maid of honour’s duties requires her to throw the bridal shower and hen parties. The maid of honour will be responsible for planning and hosting all of these parties. If the couple decides they want a stag and hen doe the maid of honour and best man will work together to plan and host the event.  a hen doe can be a great event to prepare for.   It normally happens at least one month before the actual wedding day.  It is usually a night or a weekend to bond with your girlie friends.  Most maid of honour’s plan a hen doe that involves spending a weekend at a spa for time to relax and have a few drinks and something to eat in the evening.  Or another suggestion is to have a nice meal somewhere closer to home.  The bride will often throw out some suggestions, but at the end of the day it is the maid of honour’s overall responsibility.

4. It’s the maid of honour’s duty to record the names of the guests at the bridal party as well as their gifts. It is also her job to send out thank you cards to all guests.

5. During the wedding ceremony, it’s the maid of honour’s responsibility to hold onto the groom’s ring (the best man is required to hold onto the bride’s ring).

6. It’s the maid of honour’s responsibility (as well as the best man’s) to sign the wedding license as a witness.

7. Finally, it is tradition for the maid of honour and best man to dance together at the reception.

If you are a first-time maid of honour and need help planning there are many people who would be eager to help out starting with the bride’s mom or the bridesmaids. There are also a number of Internet resources to assist you with bridal planning and ideas.

The maid of honour has many responsibilities, but it’s important to remember that the bride would not have chosen you if she didn’t think you were capable of fulfilling these obligations.

Today’s style – a Fishtail (Mermaid)

A fishtail or a mermaid shape is a very popular style among brides, especially younger ones. Let’s take a closer look at a style which is highly desired and gives an amazingly sexy look.

A fishtail is one of the most desired shapes of the wedding dress among the brides-to-be. The shape perfectly accentuates the feminine curves and brings out the sexy side of a woman’s figure. These are the reasons why it is highly sought by especially young women.

There are three fishtail wedding dresses in the Intuzuri Bridal Collection – Andrea, Ayisha and Ashten, which photographs you can see beneath.

Andrea Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Andrea - a proper fishtail wedding dress.

Ayisha Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Ayisha (front) - a proper fishtail wedding dress.

Ayisha Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Ayisha (back) - a proper fishtail wedding dress.

Ashten Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Ashten (front) - a proper fishtail wedding dress.

Ashten Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Ashten (back) - a proper fishtail wedding dress.

Because a fishtail style gives a very sexy look, it is also very popular among Hollywood actresses and singers. Let’s have a look at some eye-catching mermaid dresses worn by celebrities!

Beyonce in a fishtail dress, 2011.

Beyonce in a fishtail dress, Oscars 2009.

Elle Macpherson wearing a fishtail dress, Golden Globes 2012.

Eva Longoria wearing a fishtail dress, Golden Globes 2009.

Christina Augilera wearing a fishtail dress, Golden Globes 2011.

Scarlett Johansson wearing a fishtail dress, 2011.

Keira Knightley wearing a mermaid dress, Oscars 2006.

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Perfect wedding lingerie for your wedding dress

Choosing the perfect lingerie for your wedding is very often left to the last minute. Nevertheless, you should bear in mind that this is a very important detail of your wedding dress.

First of all you have to feel particularly comfortable, as you are going to wear it during the whole – extremely long day of your wedding and reception. It is worth to go for two different sets of underwear. One for a daytime – more comfortable and elegant, and second, for the wedding night, which will be more sensual.

Andrea Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Andrea - a fishtail wedding dress.

So you are wondering what kind of underwear to choose for your wedding day?  Because you will be wearing it for the whole, a very long and active day, the priority becomes a word ‘comfort’. Here are our tips on how to feel both comfortable and elegant on your wedding and reception.

Match a proper underwear to your wedding dress

Not all lingerie is suitable for any kind of a wedding dress. Before choosing your underwear, first think of what style of a wedding dress are you going to have. What is the neckline going to be, is a dress going to be tapered at the hips and what kind of straps is it going to have. Your wedding lingerie should accentuate your figure and be perfectly matched to the style of your wedding dress.

How to match different bras with different types of the wedding dresses?

Depending on what style of the wedding dress you have chosen, you need to accordingly choose the bra.

If you are going to buy a wedding dress with a corset, you should go for a strapless bra, which will firmly support the bust. However, if your bust is fuller and you have chosen a dress with a corset it may be hard to find a bra that will effectively sustain your breast.

If you have chosen a wedding dress tied at the back (so called American décolleté), the best would be a bra with transparent straps, also bundled in the back. If your wedding dress has a laced back corset, choose bra specially created for the open back dresses. Such bras are often fastened at the front, they are maintained only on the straps and buckles at the back.

Alberta Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Alberta - a wedding dress with a laced back corset.

You can also opt for especially made bra with the silicone straps, fastened in the front at the height of the waist. These bras can be routed around the waist straps, crossed at the bottom of the back and fastened at the waist. You can also choose a bra with silicone or silicone back straps which is fastened at the front of the waist.

Thongs or knickers?

If your wedding dress is very narrow and is fitting tightly the body, for example a fishtail wedding dress, you better opt for a thong. For wide wedding dresses is loose-fitting, such as princess, your selection is much wider and you can easily go for the elegant knickers.

If you would like to hide your belly or love handlers, you should think of the knickers made of microfibre, which will perfectly cover up the imperfections of the waist.

How to match a lingerie to the material of the wedding dress?

You should pay a close attention to what kind of a material your wedding dress is made of. If your wedding dress is made. If your dress is composed mainly of lace and embroidered application, then you can choose virtually any type of underwear. If your dress is slightly transparent and tight, you’d better choose more invisible underwear, for example one with a flesh-colored microfibre.

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Bridesmaids Dresses

For a bride, shopping for bridesmaid dresses can be one of the most difficult aspects of wedding planning. How can the bride find a dress for her maids that will display her own taste, look great on every girl and will fit into the financial picture?

There are so many colours and styles of dresses to choose from. The bridesmaids themselves may vary greatly in size and they want a flatteringly gown that makes them feel good. The bride and her bridesmaids may be in their mid-20’s or older and want a more sophisticated look in the bridesmaids gown. The bride also has the task of choosing a dress that will look good with each girl’s skin tone, hair color and figure.

Choosing the right gown can be a challenge, but it’s not impossible. The bride should start the decision process early. It’s ideal to actually place the order for the gowns about four months before the wedding. This will allow time for alterations, shopping for shoes and other accessories and leave time to dye the shoes to match the gown. The bride will find it most helpful to shop with the one bridesmaid whose fashion sense she shares. The ultimate decision about the perfect bridesmaid gown will be the bride’s.

The first step to choosing a bridesmaid gown is to determine the formality, style and fabric of the wedding gown. The bridesmaid dresses shouldn’t overpower or clash with the wedding gown. For today’s more simple bridal styles, nice detailing in the maids gowns creates a good look for the group. Back accents like straps, halter tops and simple beading are important for ceremony photography. A quality gown of good fabric and construction is necessary for the active bridesmaids who will be walking, dancing or running errands. Who needs to worry about seams splitting apart or buttons falling off during the wedding?

The next step for most brides is choosing the gown color.  Most manufacturers make bridesmaids dresses in anywhere from a few colors to as many as fifty. Choosing the actual color will narrow the choice of gowns to a more manageable number.

The bride must then consider the size ranges and figure types of her maids. A-line styles look good on most everyone. A two-piece style with a longer top covering the hip bone is another good style.

A new marketing trend for bridesmaids is the idea of separates. Most manufactures now feature at least some of their styles in separate tops and skirts. Separates offer some flexibility for the maids as they are able to choose different sizes for the top and skirt and can accommodate many different figures types. The bride can also choose the color and manufacturer of the separates while letting the maids have the freedom to create a style they will be comfortable in.

The bride may save time by doing her preliminary shopping online. She can narrow her choices and email styles she likes to her maids. Shopping on the internet may be the most logical choice for some brides when her maids live in different parts of the country. Online ordering entails the maids obtaining their own measurements and alterations which must be done correctly for the best fit. Be sure to order very early to allow extra time for shipping the gowns.

The bridesmaid look is not complete without shoes and accessories. Shoes are available in many styles in fabrics which can be custom dyed to match the gown.
With all the choices in bridesmaid gowns available today, every member of the wedding party should be happy with the final results and will spend the wedding day celebrating with the bride and her groom.

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Important tips on choosing a wedding veil

You have chose your wedding dress now is time to accessorise.  Never buy accessories before a dress.

There are an endless range of styles in bridal veils to choose from when selecting your wedding headpiece. It can at times be almost more difficult than selecting your gown. Where do you start? There are three essential things to do before choosing your bridal veil:

• First choose your gown (this establishes the formality and style of your wedding).
• Second remember your bridal veil is an accessory. This means that any bridal veil or headpiece you select should accentuate your dress not overpower it.
• Third decide on the hairstyle you will be wearing on your wedding day. Discuss this with your hairdresser and have a couple of trial runs before the wedding.

Tips On choosing a Tiara:

Tiaras vary greatly in style and size but they do have some common components. Tiaras are made of a metal base and embellished with rhinestones, pearls, crystals or a combination. Their versatility of design makes them an excellent choice for just about any bride and will go with almost any type of wedding dress she chooses.

Tips on choosing a Rhinestone Headpiece:

Metal rhinestone tiaras range from formal to very simple in style, making them the most versatile and most popular headpiece choice. They can be worn alone or with a Veil on a Comb. Tiaras can be worn with short hair, a fancy up do, or long and flowing curls. The possibilities are endless but a tiara is sure to make you feel like royalty on your special day. Make an appointment with your hairstylist before your wedding; take your tiara and a picture of the hairstyle you have chosen to make sure it fits perfectly on your wedding day.

Tips on choosing a Bridal Halo:

The bridal halo style by definition is a circular bridal headpiece. Some consist of fabric flowers, or rhinestones and pearls or a combination of all three. Bridal Halos are a good choice for a bridal headpiece if you decide to wear your hair in a curly up do or have a short cut. These types of bridal headpieces can be worn alone or with a detachable veil.

Tips on choosing a Bridal Comb:

Simple in style and smaller in size the decorative comb with a veil is a good choice for the bride who wants to keep her headpiece understated. This style would suite a very petite bride or a bride with short hair. Have your hairstylist experiment with anchoring the comb with two pins crossed like an “old fashioned pin curl” where you want the headpiece to set.

Tips on choosing a Bridal Crown:

Crowns are usually circular in shape and consist of floral or pearl designs that embellish the front of the headpiece. Bridal Crowns are an excellent choice if you want a more traditional look. A smooth or controlled curl up do is perfect with a bridal crown.

Tips on choosing a Wedding Headband:

Headbands are a type of wedding headpiece that has a wire or plastic band that goes across the top of the head from ear to ear. They vary in width and most are simpler in style. Bridal Headbands are a good choice for a wedding headpiece if you have chosen to wear your hair straight back and want a simple but sophisticated look. Bridal Headbands can be a great wedding headpiece when worn with a veil attached directly to the back of the band or with a veil on a comb.

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Wedding Anniversary Checklist

Whether it is your 1st, or 10th wedding anniversary, it is worth celebrating, and what better way to plan a celebration than with an anniversary party checklist?

The most successful anniversary parties start with an idea – how the event will begin, continue and end. Having a finite and concrete party checklist to plan in helps you to keep your wedding anniversary party right on track.

1. The best thing to do when creating any party is to develop a theme. By creating a theme you can set the mood, location, food ideas and attire as well as invitations. A theme doesn’t need to be fancy; it just needs to be something both you and your spouse / friends are interested in. Some ideas of themes that can be very fun are:

Decade parties – Fabulous 50’s, Swingin’ 60’s, Disco 70’s.
Famous Movie Themes – pick a movie you love and create your theme around it.
High school / Sock Hop
Pool Party
Pig Roast
Western Theme.

2. At this stage you have probably found your theme. Now it is time to create a guest list for your event. ‘Theming’ your invitations allows you to start the party them off right. Start your invites about three weeks before the event. Ask your guests to be creative and come with the appropriate attire if possible, and encourage them to be creative and have fun. Focus on people you correspond with often, and known people who are fun ‘party people’ (we all know who they are!) I find homemade (DIY) invitations are always more fun than store bought ones; however both do the trick

3. Create your menu. Search for serving dishes which correspond to your anniversary party theme. Finger foods are always a hit as they are light, easy to prepare and are a quick clean-up. If you wish for a larger event, organize your food preparation help, or even contact a caterer. Create your grocery list about three weeks before the event.

4. Party decorations are important. They help establish the mood and ambience. Again, we go back to the party theme for ideas here. Lighting is also very important. Search for lighting ideas that correspond to the theme i.e. 70’s themed parties should have at least one disco ball to be sure!

5. Games, games and fun stuff! Always plan for creative anniversary party games. Spin the bottle, famous dances and Twister are always a blast. If games are not your thing, consider live entertainment –A D.J., live band, comedian all have worked very well in the past.

6. Beverages are an important part of the party. Decide (based on your personal preferences and location) whether there will be an open bar, BYOB, or virgin refreshments. Inform guests in their invites as to whether to plan to drive or take a cab. Cab services that drive your vehicle home for you (with you in it of course!) are a great alternative and allow you to make ‘on the spot’ decisions regarding transportation.

6. Most of all, sit back and have fun. Not everything will always go your way, but if you have followed your anniversary party checklist, your event should be very rewarding.

Three to four weeks before event:

Choose your theme
Prepare shopping List
Coordinate cleaning / after-party helpers
Select Caterer (if applicable)
Collect food preparation items, serving plates and utensils
Develop your guest list
Create or purchase your party invitations
Plan and purchase or create your decorations.

A couple of days before the event:

Contact any follow-ups for guests.
Begin preparing any food that needs to be done.
Run over your checklist again to ensure everything is in place
Set out your costume or attire

The morning of the party

Relax
Begin preparing food
Run over your checklist one last time
Sit back, have fun and enjoy your creation~!

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Ways to save money on evening entertainment

The music and entertainment at your wedding reception should be organised based on the ages, tastes, and preferences of the guest who will be in attendance. And, depending on the type of reception you want to have, you may only want to spend money on music—or you may not need to spend too much on entertainment at all. Here are the top ways to save on music and entertainment for your wedding reception that will keep you within budget, and keep your guests entertained.

Hire a live band.

Having live music at your wedding reception is a very classy way to set the mood for the event, and the sound quality is much better than recorded music. You may also save money when you hire a live band– depending on the band’s experience and number of opportunities to play, they may be more willing to accept a lower payment than a disc jockey or accomplished soloist. A band can also vary the speed or variation of songs, depending on the type of atmosphere you want for the reception. There are times when a band will cost considerably more than a DJ, but you may be able to work around this if you agree to feed the band and allow them the amount of breaks they request.

Ask a “qualified” friend or family member to be the DJ for the reception.

Many couples shy away from having a DJ at the wedding reception, since a disc jockey may create a casual atmosphere. If you don’t mind this and want your reception to be more of a party than a formal celebration, you may consider hiring a DJ to handle the music for the reception. However, you may not like all the music that is being played with a DJ, and depending on the contract, you may not be able to change the music during the ceremony. So, why not ask a qualified friend or family member to DJ? Make sure that you know the songs that are going to be played, and that your family member feels comfortable with the job in front of a lot of people. You can also create a CD of songs you’ll want at the reception to use as background music while people are talking and having dinner, as well as a CD with songs you’ll use for dancing during the reception.

Decide whether or not you want live entertainment.

You may want more than just music at the reception, and if so, you’ll need to make sure that you book the live entertainment as soon as you can. If you want to have someone sing or dance make these arrangements while you’re planning the wedding ceremony. You may want to ask for the help of friends and family members when it comes to entertainment as well, since they will probably be more than happy to perform at your reception as a wedding gift. Live entertainment is a great way to make your reception entertaining, and depending on how far in advance you can book the entertainment, you can save a considerable amount of money on your wedding celebration, and your guest will be talking about the fun they had at your wedding for years to come.

Findings Deals On The Internet

Lots of DJ’s have websites available and supply their contact details.  Some of them have more sophisticated websites and have videos for you to watch of recent events they have been at.  You may also be able to find relevant reviews and recommendations to help you with your search.

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Tips to planning your Wedding Part 2

5.) Don’t Skip the Cocktail Hour. While you are off being in love and grasping the concept that you are a “Mrs.”, your guests are left at your reception site awaiting your arrival. Be generous and have sumptuous treats to greet them. Create an environment conducive to mingling and conversation with soft music playing in the background. You do want people to get to know each other and talk—so don’t blast it. Opt for Jazz classics, songs that make people feel like they are at something important. Another thing you should definitely consider springing for is extra waiters. It is quite a hassle to have to repeatedly go to the bar, and once there wait in line. It also adds a sense of refinement to your event with butlered drinks being passed—it makes your guests feel important. Here is a chance to incorporate your personality by having a signature drink passed and available at the bar. Put up a little sign in a silver plated frame explaining the significance. Your guests will feel included and also get the chance to try something new!

6.) Don’t Skimp on the Food! Food and drink make the event. Good food and drinks make the party! I understand that budgets are limited, but there is no need to have your 300 guests fighting over Ritz crackers and dairy lea at your 7:00 p.m. reception. The reception (including food) should take a big chunk out of your budget—and it should show. If it doesn’t what it will show is that you are cheap, and your guests will leave to find food elsewhere mid-reception. Who wants to stay at a party hungry? If your choices and funds are tight, ask your caterer what they can do to help you out. Ask if you can provide your own recipes (pick up a nice cocktail book). Bulk up on the presentation—that may mean for you, no ice sculpture or five foot eagle made out of lox, but you could add fresh flowers and candles. Add variety with themed stations, convenience with buffets and elegance with plated dinners.

7.) Have Assigned Seating. I know a lot of planners are against this, but it does work out better for your guests. Of course keep your couples together, but do encourage single guests to get to know others at the reception. I have seen where there has not been assigned seating, a single guest finds his/her way back to their seat to find someone’s coat or purse in their seat with five people talking that all know each other. A bit intimidating.

8.) That’s Entertainment. Whatever you choose—a band or a DJ, make sure that they mesh with you and your personality. You also want them to reflect the overall theme and formality of the group (for example, no harpist at a country western wedding). When interviewing a DJ, ask to see pictures from prior events, if available. What does their guest pool look like? Is it similar to the one that will be at your own wedding? What does their selection and library consist of? You will need someone who is not too low-key that they put everyone to sleep, and not so over-the-top that they want to rush to the nearest exit. You need a professional to gauge and tempt the crowd. Definitely make sure that you keep music playing through their breaks. The dead silence will definitely murder the fun at your party.

9.) Get the Party Started. Nobody likes to be the first on the dance floor. But it is your party! You will be the centre of attention, as you should be, and everyone will follow your lead. If you get up and dance, your guests will too. While your DJ maybe fantastic, your guests know you—your excitement will be contagious and they will not be able to resist joining in. Make sure that you are social. Instead of the boring receiving line, you and your new husband can go from table to table to say your “hellos” and “thank yous”.

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Tips to Planning Your Wedding Part 1

You’ve got the dress. You’ve got the man. The caterer’s booked, along with the photographer and the D.J. Are you still worried about your wedding day? Will your guests enjoy themselves? Most importantly, will you enjoy yourself? After all, it is your day!

Whether you have the next year or a limited time for your wedding, your event can still be just as spectacular as those seen in the magazines and TV Shows. Yes, you can impress your family and friends with your celebrity-style wedding. I am going to show you how.

1.) Remember Your Guests. Your family and friends will have gone to some expense to enjoy your nuptials with you. Make sure that you show your appreciation and include them—guests like to feel like they belong. If you have a lot of distant guests, be sure to provide them with a welcome basket in their rooms. This can be done on your own (or you can buy pre-made) by adding inexpensive staples and mementos for them to remember your day. If you opt not to provide a basket or gift for your guests, at least supply them with an itinerary. Guests who come to another city for a weekend for only one event will want to see more of you and share in your wedding events. Inviting them to your rehearsal dinner or a post-wedding brunch is a very kind and generous gesture.

2.) Get a Theme. If you don’t have one, you will find yourself (subconsciously) with five different unrelated things in your wedding. It’s horrid. Pick a theme. The theme doesn’t have to be big.  The possibilities are endless! And just to simplify it, yes, your colours can be a theme. However, you must consistent. If your “theme” is going to be green and pink, decide on what shades and stick to it—no forest, chartreuse, lime and mint all over the place. We’re at a wedding, not a kaleidoscope. Should you pick colours, try to pick a maximum of three and make sure that they complement each other. Try to pick “in-season” colours as well—pastel pink at a November/December wedding is a bit odd. Your theme will pull your whole event together—from food to favors, everything will coordinate in style.

3.) Décor. Even if your place is low on the totem pole of venues, you can still make it look like a million dollars.  Pay attention to lines, textures and silhouettes. How do they make you feel? Is that what you want to convey at your wedding? Implement things like flowers, candles, sashes, seashells, etc. into your décor. You will save money but also give your theme some authenticity. Find out from your venue what type of restrictions you are working under (i.e., no open flame, etc.). If you have some money to play around with, invest in some props to go with your theme or a lighting and staging company to help bring it all together.

4.) Get Personal. Being unique definitely sets you apart in the minds of your guests. Step out of the ordinary with personal vows and toasts. Share your relationship with your guests—name your assigned tables after places that you and your fiancé have travelled, favourite foods, movies, etc. Display pictures as centrepieces and to spruce up a cake or gift table. Celebrate who you both are by incorporating ethnic and family traditions. For example, if you have a very close relationship with your extended family, and your guest list is small, opt for buffet style where the dishes are sat in the middle of the table and guests serve themselves. If your culture calls for a special wedding dress, have the best of both worlds and wear your gown to your ceremony and your traditional dress to your reception. Include your guests in ethnic rituals like jumping the broom, the Hindu vermillion powder ritual, etc. Guests love to see picture shows! These are very easy to do, and give your guests an opportunity to get to know you.

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The Beauty of Canada

Canada is blessed with its natural beauty that makes it a popular destination for couples looking for a place to have a wedding filled with the aura of romance. Canada with its rocky banks, snow-covered mountains and lush green mounts is almost a dream setting for a romantic wedding.

Canada too has some of the most beautiful beaches. Arbutus Cove, Hanlan’s Point Beach, Long Point, Wasaga Beach, Jericho Beach and Sunset Beach are just some of the spectacular beaches in Canada. With these beautiful beaches, beach-themed weddings are certainly something to seriously consider.

Seeing the water making waves and feeling the gentle and friendly breeze, witnessing the as the sun slowly sets add romance in the air. Don’t get too excited in going for your beach wedding. Careful wedding planning needs to be done to ensure its success. Below are some pointers you should not forget.

Decide what atmosphere it is that you want to create- formal or informal.

A formal wedding might require you to wear a traditional wedding dress but an informal one allows you the freedom of choosing the dress you like be it sea-inspired prints or coloured attire.

To have wedding arch, it should be able to stand firmly in case of heavy wind but if you have doubts about its strength then give it a miss. As for candles, do not attempt to have them at all for they will not be able to withstand the wind. You can have torches however because the can still lit up in up to 10 mph of wind.

For footwear, shoes are not advisable as it will be filled with sand.

Use colours that match the environment.

You don’t want your guests to stand for the whole duration of the wedding ceremony. Provide chairs so they can enjoy the event comfortably.

If you’re having an evening beach wedding, be sure to have power source available so that your ceremony can be equipped with proper lighting. Having a wedding in the dark will not be thrilling. The pathways should be cleared of all wirings so that accidents can be prevented.

Don’t have the wedding in the middle of the day when the sun is at its mightiest. This is not good for everyone because of the harmful sunrays. You don’t want your elderly guests to suffer from sunstroke. Early morning or late afternoons are the best times to hold the wedding. It’s good to have a tent or tiki hut standing by for shelter.

Need ideas for wedding favours? There are just so many wedding favors that are beach or sea-inspired for you to choose from. Seahorse and starfish frosted glass coasters, shell-inspired spreaders, candleholders with resin shell base, starfish bath soap, sailboat picture frame, flip flop floating candles and engraved rock paperweight are just some of the well loved favors for beach weddings. Your guests will definitely cherish your wedding with these heart stealing gifts.

What compliments a beach wedding bride? A set of pearl jewellery is not just sea inspired but it is so stylish and versatile that it goes well with any dress and not just informal but also formal occasions. Pearl jewellery is timeless and elegant and any bride will look stunning wearing it.

Don’t just consider pearl necklace as there are pearl earring that you can wear too. You can wear the classic stud pearl earring for the elegant looking gowns and wear dangling ones for the simple gowns.

So go ahead and start planning your wedding set in the romantic spot in Canada. Have wedding favors that will be a hit among your guests and create the wedding attire, wearing your lovely pearls that are to die for!

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Keeping the costs of weddings cakes down

A special part of any reception or wedding is the wedding cake. Wedding cakes come in many sizes and shapes and can be designed to accommodate any taste or budget.

Wedding cakes are a necessary part of celebrating the wedding and require much thought and consideration to your theme. Traditionally, people often think of the tiered cakes when they think of weddings, but there are many ways that you can accommodate your own creativity into making your cake stand out on its own.

Here are some tips to keeping your cake costs down:

· Make your own wedding cake creations

· Serve cupcakes and a smaller cake for the cake toppers

· Ask a guest with a baking passion to make the cake for you instead of giving you a gift. Just remember to buy the ingredients and toppers yourself.

· Have a baker make the cake but you can put it together yourself

· Buy your own cake toppers and other decorative additions

· Pick up the cake rather than have it delivered.

· Use your own decorations like flowers, autumn leaves as accents rather than theirs etc.

Extra cake accents and dividers that can be made at home for your wedding cake can be done by you and your wedding party.

Nice homemade dividers are:

Oversized Brandy Glasses: you can accent these with ribbons tied around the bottom flute of the glass and flip the glasses upside down in order to allow room for the cake sections.

The glass bottoms will also make a nice sturdy separator for the cake layers to sit on. The best part about this decoration is that you can also place candles or other nice things inside of the flipped upside down glass as an added accent. Aside from the ribbons, you can also use rhinestones or anything else that you might think would make your cake stand out. It’s beautiful, it elegant, and the decoration can be re-used later.

When ordering your cake from a professional, you should be sure to do the following to make sure that you have the smoothest transition possible.

Here are the best tips to get you the right cake at the right time, without any hassles:

· Order your cake at least 6-8 weeks ahead of time

· Be prepared to leave a deposit when you place your order

· If you don’t know much about the cake that you want be ready to make an appointment for a taste test of different samples. If this is required, you might need to give yourself a larger amount of time for the cake like 6 months or more

· Know that you will be paying for the decorator’s time as well as the baker’s and the reserved time for your cake

· Think seasonal when it comes to choosing your cake.  Frosting can melt and fruit cake can be welcoming in winter themed wedding

· Remember that the simpler your cake design is the cheaper it will be · If you are planning an outdoor wedding, remember that the heat will melt the icing, flies loves sweet stuff etc. think of this before choosing your cake

· Have a big enough cake to serve all of your guests

· Try to be mindful of allergies and tastes of your guests when choosing your cake

· Choose ornaments that are not misplaced on your cake or too heavy etc.

· Don’t forget to confirm later

· If you have to cancel the cake, do it sooner rather than later or you might get stuck with the bill anyway.

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Achieving Perfect Wedding Photos

When wedding photographs are viewed together, they should paint a visual story of, what is for many, one of the most intimate, emotional and memorable days of their lives. Whether you are a friend, family member, or a professional photographer, you have an important responsibility when taking these photographs. The couple is depending on you to deliver to them a visual record that they will cherish for the rest of their lives. Every detail and event, including the clothes, emotions, flavours, ceremony, and the people, must be weaved together into a fabric of photographs that will revealed the very best of those memories.

One of the secrets to taking memorable and natural-looking wedding photographs is in the preparation. It is extremely important to organise and coordinate the photo shoot. Do some research. Before the wedding, you should spend some time with the couple to get a feel for their style. Visit the church or facility around the same hour as the wedding. Walk around the building and the grounds. Most importantly, be sure to check out the lighting. You should also identify natural backdrops or other potential backgrounds for your photographs.

Based on your discussion with the couple, you should have a list of the group combinations of photographs that you will be taking throughout the wedding. Generally the breakdown will be as follows: bride, bride and groom, bride and bridesmaids, groom, groom and groomsmen. Also, there is the entire wedding party and family portraits. Plan how much time you will allocate to each of these wedding group categories.

Don’t be the proverbial “wedding photographer”. Get actively involved in the event! You should be like a caring member of the family, or a dear friend of the couple, who has been trusted with a very important task. Your objective is to tell the story of their wedding day from the photographs you take. Through a series of formal, detailed and candid shots, your mission is to illustrate their wedding in a visual style that is effective and natural.

Generally, the day commences with taking shots of the bride and groom, as they prepare themselves in separate locations. This phase is probably one of the best times to capture a wide range of emotions, especially as it gets closer to the hour. Keep in mind that the best natural shots usually have an element of activity or motion associated with the subject. People are often dancing, kissing, crying or laughing. When photographing the bride, keep in mind that she wants to, and should be, treated like she was a supermodel.

You should make sure there is a balance of traditional poses as well trendy fashion-oriented shots. There should also be playful photographs that capture the bride’s personality. Remember, weddings are as much about details as anything else. Concentrate on the small and romantic features that make up this big day, including the dresses, shoes, hairstyles and rings, flowers, and decor. In addition, remember that this is a day of “firsts” for the couple. You must be ready at all times to capture that unexpected moment! It could be the couple’s first kiss as married partners, or their first dance.

Whether you are posing individuals or groups, don’t hesitate you give out suggestions and instructions that will make the pose shoot seem as natural as walking or breathing. All photographers should understand that positioning techniques, such as having people “lift up their chin” eliminates double chins. To reduce the width of the upper body, and emphasize the bosom, have the subject hold his or her elbows away from the torso. Emphasizing sexy curves is just a matter of shifting the weight to the rear foot; this technique locks the hips into just the right position.

When you use a backdrop, make sure that it doesn’t distract from the subject. Also, the subject should not look posed. Many of the best natural-looking photographs focus on the iris of the subject’s eyes. Think about how often you look at a photograph and are immediately drawn to the mysterious, playful or alluring eyes of the person in the picture.

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A Caribbean Wedding

One frequently asked question of couples planning a wedding is “where is the best place to have a wedding?”. Why the Caribbean of course! A top choice of many brides is The Bahamas because you can have your wedding and honeymoon all in the same place.

There are 700 different islands in the Bahamas to select from. So regardless of which one you choose, you will have an unforgettable wedding. The food and the people in The Bahamas are lovely and friendly and their culture dates back many years. The people are very nice and you had better believe you will have a time of your life!

Bahamas weddings are the best. There are quite a few of popular islands to get hitched on.

A popular island for a Bahamas wedding is The Abocos. Abaco Beach Resort and boat Harbour is located about seven miles from the Marsh Harbour Airport and Treasure Cay is only about 25 miles away. This island is popular because of all of the activities that you can do, such as snorkelling, tennis courts, fitness rooms, and it has its own private beach. This island features room service, non-smoking rooms, kitchenette, meeting rooms, restaurant, swimming pool, fitness centre, and family rooms.

Andros Island, has Small Hope Bay Lodge (hotel) with an all-inclusive package. The all-inclusive package includes: room service, free breakfast, restaurant, family rooms, resort, and meeting rooms. These features are the reason why this is one of the most popular islands to have a Bahamas wedding. It is located close to the world’s third largest coral reef, where diving is spectacular.

Eleuthera Island is a great spot for a Bahamas wedding. It has the Coral Sands Hotel, which is located approximately a mile from the islands of Eleuthera and about 20-mile flight from Nassau. This is a popular island to have a Bahamas wedding because there is horseback riding along the beach, scuba instruction, and there are car, bicycle, and golf cart rentals. This package features: On beach, resort, swimming pool, non-smoking rooms, restaurant, meeting rooms, and a business centre.

There are plenty of popular venues/hotels/resorts for a Bahamas wedding. Here are the most popular hotels on the most popular islands: Nassau- For a great Bahamas Wedding, Nassau Palm Hotel would be wonderful. The hotel is located downtown Nassau. The Atlantis Hotel on Paradise Island is a ferry ride from princess Goarges Wharf. The style is laid back. The cost of this package is one of the lowest. Grand Bahamas- Hotel/Resort for a Bahamas wedding is the Radisson Our Lucava resort. It has beautiful scenery and it has a casino. Even thought the style is high class there are packages start very low. Out Islands, The last popular resort/hotel to have a wonderful Bahamas wedding is at the February Point Resort. The style is perfect as it is remote and private.

The advantages of having a wonderful Bahamas wedding are that you will have a beautiful and memorable wedding on a great island of your choice; you can have the whole wedding taken care of and be in a beautiful location for your honeymoon.

The main downside to a Bahamas wedding is that your family might not be able to attend. Not everyone can afford to fly to the Bahamas even for a wedding. Cost may also be a factor in planning your Bahamas wedding, as some resorts are quite expensive and difficult to book.

No matter what, if you choose any of the islands to have a great and wonderful Bahamas wedding you will have the time of your life. You will enjoy the culture, food, and people at your Bahamas wedding.

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Season Themes

Deciding how to organise the style of your wedding theme can be one of the hardest decisions. Want a tip? Use the date of your wedding to inspire your creativity. Each seasons brings an image of colour and style. Choose which seasons suit’s the needs of your gown and décor.

Autumn Theme

Typically, Autumn weather tends to be on the cool side. The summer flowers have begun to disappear, but the Fall colours of nature have taken their place. Earth tones and textures will definitely set the tone for your wedding. By incorporating ‘warmer’ colours and textures into this wedding theme, you’re creating a inviting environment for your bridal party and guests.

Embrace Autumn colours, such as: brown, rust, copper, red, terra cotta, and gold. You can easily arrange tables in a ‘harvest theme’ with fruits and candles bearing typical Fall colours. Set each place card on a large leaf shaped fabric napkin. Decorate the reception hall with a rustic look. Dried wheat, berries, and grasses can make an excellent touch. Serve foods that are simple and ‘warm’ in nature. Fruits, soups, cheeses, home-made bread, seasonal vegetables, and pumpkin pie should delight your guests.

Winter Theme

Although most couples opt to have their weddings in warmer weather, winter weddings can be very elegant and appealing. This festive time of year embraces warmth and the glowing lights of candles. It’s a very romantic time that emphasizes the idea of togetherness.

Silver and gold are very traditional winter colours. They blend very well together and can be beautifully incorporated into your wedding decorations. Instead of red roses, why not choose a bouquet of white roses? This will look especially spectacular if you have a hint of silver and/or gold in your wedding accessories.

Create an ambient environment with candles and white Christmas lights. Break tradition! Instead of having a white wedding cake, Get a three tiered chocolate wedding cake accented with white décor.

Spring Theme

Spring is an exciting time of year to get married. The world is alive and about again after a long hibernation. The morning dew and the smell of rain is refreshing and romantic. Pastel colours sprout from the earth, as we start to smell the faint aroma of tulips and daffodils. These flowers would work perfectly in your Spring wedding theme.

Pastel colours are soft, subtle, and elegant. You can decorate your tables with small potted daffodils and use flower-seeds as a wedding favor for your guests. Candles and ivy can bring a warm ‘garden feel’ to the atmosphere.

Summer Theme

It’s the most popular time of year for couples to tie the knot. Summer weather brings the promise of gorgeous flowers, comfortable attire, and delicious foods from mother nature.

Decorate with bright colours. Why not organise a tropical wedding? Spice it up and dress your bridesmaids in lime, orange, or hot pink. Forget about tuxedos for the men, how about bright colours for shirts and comfortable suits?

Salads, vegetables, pink champagne, and light foods are the way to go for your meal. You should always offer your guests something slightly more extravagant for the main course, but these light dishes have a ‘summer feel’ to them.

Whatever time of year you are planning your wedding, you are sure to have a fantastic time.  A day to be remembered by you and your guests for many years to come.  As seen above whatever time of year you decide to get married there are lots of advantages for each option whether you choose to get married in Spring, Summer, Winter or Autumn.  Each have their own qualities in their own way.

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Mother of the Bride: Her Story

Your daughter’s wedding day is announced. She is ecstatically happy and cannot wait to shop for her wedding dress. However, you as the mother of the bride, may have doubts about finding your perfect mother of the bride dress. After all, weren’t you the one who visited countless bridal shops, department stores, and boutiques, the last time so-and-so was getting married and could not find something to wear?

What about this special occasion now? Your dress has to complement the color theme of the wedding and the chosen color is fuchsia and guess what, you look terrible in pink! Fret no more. The internet revolution has been around for years and now almost everyone, including Grandmother Harriet, is really savvy in shopping online for anything and everything sold under the sun. You can be too!

If you or someone you know own a computer, and you can type “mother of the bride dress” in that search box, you have opened up a new world of shopping for yourself.

Here are some quick and easy tips for shopping online:

1. First of all, understand fabric types. Most special occasion dresses are made of chiffon, georgette, silk or man-made silk, organza, or crepe. You could visit a few local bridal shops to get an idea of the different types of fabrics, their quality, and textures.

2. Understand colors. Hopefully, by now, you will know what “fuchsia” or “magenta” is. Most online stores will have color swatches posted online. However, please be aware those colors are not color true (looking at a color in natural light and close-up), as you are looking into a computer screen. See whether the internet store will send you color swatches in the mail or at least, send you another picture with a close indication of the color you are looking for.

3. Know your approximate size beforehand but wait, do not use this size to order your dress as every manufacturer cuts their dresses according to their OWN size charts. Measure yourself first with a tape measure, your bust, waist, and hips, over your underwear. Compare these numbers to the manufacturer’s size chart provided to get your best size. If you are between sizes, select the next size up as the rule is “easier to take in than to let out”.

4. Have an idea what looks good on you and what do not, through previous buying experiences and you can make a sound decision basing on those experiences. If you have large hips, an A-line skirt is definitely flattering. If you have flabby arms, a long sleeve jacket is the way to go. A longer blouse or jacket, hides a problem stomach area, so on and so forth.

5. Online stores stock a wide variety of styles, sizes, and colors and typically more so than the physical stores. Their prices are on the most part, reasonable. Check on the return policy as every store sets their own. Remember that you are shopping for a “special occasion” outfit and the return policy is usually more strict than for regular everyday clothing.

6. Once you have found your perfect dream dress, you would have saved yourself a lot of time, hassle, and perhaps money as well. Online shopping could definitely be the best option for you from now on and not only for your mother of the bride dress.

Finding the perfect dress has never become easier and can be achieved in the comfort of your own home.  Days are gone of shopping the High Street, the way forward is shopping on the internet.

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Choosing Your Wedding Dress

Choosing a wedding gown is one of the most fun tasks for the bride-to-be. Ooohing and Ahhing over gorgeous dresses is possibly the most exciting part of getting prepared for your wedding day. But deciding just which dress you want to be remembered in (for the rest of your life!) is the hard part.

The following tips will help you make the process of selecting a dress a pleasant experience. Your wedding gown isn’t something you want to rush out and buy at the last minute. Do a lot of catalogue and window shopping in advance to help give yourself a better idea of what you’re looking for.

Dress according to the weather. If you’re getting married in January, you probably wouldn’t feel very comfortable in a sleeveless wedding gown. In fact, you’ll probably be very cold. In addition to the style of the dress, you’ll also want to consider the material of the dress. Some lace materials may look very elegant, but they may be very irritating to the skin. Stick with something that you’ll feel comfortable in throughout the day.

We can’t emphasize this enough: Don’t wait for the last minute to select a wedding gown. You should start shopping for your dress about a year in advance to your big day. Why so much time in advance? Because most gowns need to be ordered approximately 4-6 months in advance. And fittings take a lot of time!

You look beautiful just the way you are! Don’t plan on purchasing a wedding gown two sizes smaller because you intend to be ten pounds thinner by your wedding day. It’s a really good idea to order the gown in your size. If you do shed a few pounds, great! Just remember: It’s a lot cheaper to take a gown in than to have it let out an inch here and an inch there.

Does this gown look okay on me? Whenever you’re in doubt, bring your girlfriends along. Nevertheless, make sure that your friends feel comfortable telling you the ‘truth.’ If you try on a gown that doesn’t flatter your figure–you want them to tell you.

Never dismiss something the bridal shop staff recommends. They know what they’re doing (most of the time). Something that may not looking appealing on a hanger, may look great on you! If the staff is trying to help you find what you’re looking for, be as specific as possible when describing your dream-gown.

“I’ll take that one,” are words I hope you never say–without trying the gown on. Try every gown in that bridal shop on–until you find ‘the one.’

Be brave and sneak a peek at the price tag. Is the wedding gown in your budget? Before you say ‘yes,’ there are several things to consider: accessories to go with the gown, including: shoes, a headpiece, jewellery, and undergarments. In addition, there may be last minute alterations needed for your gown. Keep all of these things in mind before you slap your credit card down on the counter.

It’s important to note that most deposits on weddings gowns are non-refundable. With that said, you must be absolutely certain that you’ve found the perfect wedding gown before you commit to the deposit. Or you’ll always wonder” what if–you wore that other dress.

As previously stated buying your wedding dress should not be rushed but then again why would you want to rush this purchase.  It is an enjoyable aspect of planning a wedding and many brides really enjoy looking around different bridal shops and trying the different styles of dresses available.

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Wedding Dress Shopping

What is it that one thing most women have been dreaming of ever since she was a little girl? If you are about to get married in the near future you know what that is, it is your wedding day. It is the one day in your life when you are the princess you have been dreaming about for so long and when everything is supposed to be perfect, especially your wedding dress.
Most of you probably already have a picture of how everything is going to be, everything from your flowers to the food but as you all know nothing comes close to the importance of the wedding dress. The wedding dress is what you have been picturing yourself in for all these years and finally the time has come for you to go out and find the right one.

Shopping for a wedding dress is, despite what you think, not an easy task. You may actually find that this will be one of the most difficult thing you have encountered so far. The reason for this can be because of the image you already have in your head of how it should look. Well, this is supposed to be your day and your day only so why should you settle for anything less?

When it comes to finding a wedding dress you may experience a lot of input from your mother especially but remember that from the day you told her about your upcoming wedding she has most likely got her own picture of you in her head as far as how she would want you to look, after all you are her daughter. This situation can be a little uncomfortable but let her know in a loving way what you want for a wedding dress.
Having resolved that situation it is now time to go shopping for that eight wonder of the world, your wedding dress. For this you better put on some good walking shoes and prepare for hours of visiting different stores. Regardless of what you think, it will take forever to find the right wedding dress and you will without a doubt find yourself running between stores because you can not make up your mind which wedding dress to pick.

This is where your mother and perhaps your best friend can come in handy. Bring them along when you go to try on the wedding dresses you have picked out. Nobody will be more honest with you than them when it comes to what they think of the wedding dresses you have chosen and that may be just what you need in order to make up your mind. After having picked out the most beautiful wedding dress you could find, you are all set for your big day.

In order to eliminate some of the stress of all the running around trying to find a wedding dress there are places on the internet you can go in order to look at different styles of dresses. This may make it a little easier for you when you go looking in the stores. Hopefully your wedding day will be everything you have ever dreamt of and you are sure to be at least one persons princess as you walk down the aisle in that beautiful wedding dress.

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Wedding Day Diets

The stress and anxiety that most brides experience as their wedding day approaches can be overwhelming for them. The amount of preparation involved and the countless number of details needing attention can make it very difficult to eat sensibly and maintain even a modest level of good nutrition

Many are genuinely terrified that they’ll be overweight and unattractive on their wedding day or even worse won’t be able to fit into their dream wedding gown.

The following tips ensure you look and feel your best of your big day:

1. Water, Water and more Water

Hydration is critical. While the benefits are countless this is one of the hardest things to implement into your daily routine. Known to lower body fat, flushes cellulite, improves digestion, gets rid of dark circles under the eyes, and makes you feel full. These are just a few of the benefits of drinking the required 2.5 litres of water per day.

This may seem like a lot but I found the easiest way to get into the habit is to break the amounts down into manageable amounts:

• Keep a bottle of water beside your bed. Before you go to sleep drink 1/2 the bottle and as soon as you wake up (before your feet touch the floor) drink the remaining 1/2 bottle

• Before each meal drink a half a bottle of water

• Carry water with you and sip it throughout the day

I can’t overemphasize how important this step is.

2. Go for a 10 minute Walk Every Day

Start with this…you can always increase later after it becomes routine. It’s enough to gently boost your metabolism and keep you active.

3. Eat Often but Only in Small Portions

Don’t panic, it’s easier than it sounds. Every 3-4 hours from the time you wake up eat a little something. Your digestive system is far more efficient at handling a series of small meals than it is at tackling one large meal.

Sample:

Meal one: Protein shake
Meal two: 1/2 an apple and cottage cheese or yogurt
Meal three: Piece of chicken (no skin) and a small salad
Meal four: Cheese and the balance of the apple
Meal five: Piece of lean meat, rice or potatoes, vegetables
Meal six: Low fat chocolate pudding mixed with protein powder

Your meal portions (meat, veggies, carbs) should be no larger than the palm of your hand and no thicker than the palm of your hand.

4. Eat Healthy

To make it simple a typical meal should be a protein, a carbohydrate and a vegetable or fruit.

5. The Best Part – Reward Yourself!

Choose one day a week as your reward day and eat whatever you want and as much as you want. Whether you like pasta, cookies, ice cream or my personal favourite chocolate. Having a reward day gives you something to look forward to at the end of the week and won’t leave you feeling like all the good things that taste good have been removed.  This would leave you wanting more.

Enjoy!

If you follow the steps provided above in no time at all you will be feeling and looking great.

These simple techniques will not only help you quickly, safely and effectively lose at least one dress size but they will also help you feel more energetic, vibrant and healthy. Not to mention the positive effect it will have on your skin texture and overall appearance.

Stay on track and you’ll be amazed at your results. Eat well, drink plenty of water and as you progress, simply imagine your groom seeing you for the first time in your wedding gown and watching his jaw drop in speechless silence.

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The Wedding Dress

Your wedding dress or wedding gown is a piece of clothing worn by the bride during a wedding ceremony. Colour, style and ceremonial importance of the gown depends on the religion and culture of the participants.

In modern tradition, the colour of western-culture wedding dresses is white. Used in this sense, ‘white’ or ‘wedding white’ includes creamy shades such as eggshell, ecru and ivory. The popularity of this colour can be traced back to 1840 and the marriage of Queen Victoria to Albert of Saxe-Coburg. The Queen chose to wear a white gown for the event. The official wedding portrait photograph was widely published and many brides opted for a similar dress in honour of the choice made. The tradition continues today.

Prior to the Victorian era a bride was married in any color except black (the color of mourning) or red (which was connected with prostitutes). The white dress came to symbolize purity of heart and the innocence of childhood. Later attribution suggested that the color white symbolized virginity which is false. However it was originally the color blue that was connected to purity.

The term “bridal gown” originates from the word al which means party combined with bride is Bridal i.e. “Bride’s Party Gown”. In the middle Ages wedding parties were simply called Bride-al’s. A bridal train is the part of the wedding dress that trails behind the bride, the term is derived from similar train worn by Kings & Queens, which themselves are derived from seeing a Peacock, which were used as royal birds.

Many wedding dresses in China are colored red, the traditional color of good luck. In modern Chinese weddings, particularly in Western countries, the bride usually goes for the white Western dress or changes from a red gown to a white gown later in the day.

Also in northern parts of India, the traditional color of female wedding garments is red. South Indian weddings traditionally use white or cream colored saris. With Indians in Western countries, the bride often wears the sari at the wedding ceremony and change into traditional Indian wear afterwards (like lehnga, choli, et cetera).

Current fashion was followed in the dropped waist and generally unshaped bodice, and in the way the headdress was worn low over the brow, clasping the veil to the bride’s head in a way that echoed the cloche hat every woman was wearing.

We have now reached a new century, and no doubt the wedding gown will carry on changing in fabric and altering in form. But there is equally no doubt that it will remain with us. Since the civil wedding laws were relaxed in the 1990s, allowing marriages to be conducted almost anywhere; even those with no religious convictions can have a beautiful setting for a full-rig “do”.

As wedding fashion continues to evolve separately from the general vogue, people have felt freer to allow full rein for their imaginations, and some wedding parties are not so much in “best” dress as fancy dress, as themed and fantasy costumes are the order of the day. Which all goes to prove that everyone likes to dress up now and again, and every girl wants her day in the sun?

The white wedding dress is still a popular choice but as wedding couples are choosing different themes their preference and choices available are widened and other colours such as red as favoured.  Modern brides choose to style the classic white wedding dress with a black band to make it look different and to add style to the classic colour.  Every bride now has endless choices available to them!

Wedding Catering Tips

Wedding catering has always been one of the most crucial aspects of planning a wedding yet not so exciting at buying the wedding dress.

Besides choosing the food menu items for the palette, you also need to think of other factors – could there be potential allergies to certain types of wedding food, will the food arrive on time, and will it taste great? For all these reasons and more, it is very important that you take the time to review the details of providing great cuisine through a responsible and reliable wedding caterer. Ideally, you will find someone who has experience in catering wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners, theme weddings and bridal showers. If the caterer is a custom designer, baker or Chef, they might also help you plan your stunning wedding cake or cake tops.

Here are some tips we have found that might help make planning your wedding catering easier than you might think:

Meet the Caterer(s) in person with questions.

Many local wedding florists, planners and coordinators know the industry well. Ask them about potential caterers for your wedding. If you contact a caterer, ask to meet with him or her in person. You will want them to provide references in terms of their abilities and experience. Check they are qualified.  It is also good to get recommendations from friends and family. Ask your potential caterer about the largest number of guests they can handle and when their last wedding catering took place. Other important details are whether they are insured, have health permits, and whether they are licensed.

Check to see if a Caterer is included in your wedding package.

Many couples choose to have a destination wedding and find that special place to hold their wedding ceremony and reception. If this is in your plans make sure you check that catering is not included in a wedding package if you chose one. If catering is included, make sure you still ask the appropriate questions.

Tasting

Ask about food tasting. Many caterers will allow a tasting in advance of the wedding so that you can choose cuisine that meets your needs. Some charge a fee for this, while others don’t allow it at all. Use discretion, and if possible, ask about bringing others to the tasting.

Write up a well-detailed contract

A business contract is always necessary in any business transactions and catering is no exception. The contract can be written and signed by you, the contractor and a witness (if possible your fiancé or friend) and should include even the smallest of details to ensure there are no misunderstanding as to what is expected by both yourself and the caterer. Assume you will need to put down a deposit.

Wedding catering menu ingredients

Ask about the ingredients used in preparing your meal. Are the ingredients high quality, does the caterer bake in-house or order out (especially for bakery and dessert items)? All of this will play a role in pricing out the ultimate professional caterer for your wedding.

Inquire about the cancellation policy

Always inquire about the cancellation policy. Read the fine lines in any contract as there may be stiff penalties / taxes involved if you need to change your event date or cancel altogether.

Another suggestion is to put some thought into a backup plan. Although it’s rare and highly unlikely a wedding caterer or catering company would leave you high and dry, stranger things have happened.

In the end, your choice of wedding cuisine should match you and your fiancés personal preference and style. By planning your wedding catering thoroughly and wisely months in advance, one of the most important aspects of your wedding will be thoroughly enjoyed by all. Bon appetite!

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Wedding Plan Checklist

Most couples have one year to plan the biggest day of their live.  We have provided a checklist that hopefully gives you one less thing to organise.  As you can see there is a lot to consider.  Before planning a wedding most couples think there is plenty of time but as you can see even 12 months before the day there is a lot of things to check off, if anything most of the items need to be organised in this timeframe.  The reason behind this is because many venues are fully booked and reservations need to be made at least 12 months in advance to guarantee you get your first choice wedding date and time and the venue of your choice for reception.

12 Months Before Your Wedding Day

  • Announce the engagement
  • Set your wedding date
  • Create a budget
  • Hire a Wedding Coordinator (this is an optional item)
  • Create your guest list
  • Start brainstorming ideas and themes
  • Reserve your Ceremony spot
  • Make reservations for your reception area
  • Book a Photographer and Videographer
  • Book Caterer, Florist and Music (Band, DJ, etc.)
  • Look for a Wedding gown and Tux, allowing time for alterations and fittings
  • Register for gifts
  • Select and call the bridesmaids and groomsmen.
  • Agree on a date to order bridesmaids’ dresses and groomsmen’s tuxes
  • Choose a destination for your Honeymoon
  • Check dates of passports for validity and apply for passports renewals if required

6 Months Before Your Wedding Day

  • Finalise your guest list
  • Decide on the timeline and details of ceremony and reception
  • Order/make invitations, and thank you notes
  • Make airline and hotel reservations for the Honeymoon
  • Choose a caterer, a florist and place an order for the wedding cake.
  • Book Transportation (Limo, Antique Car, Etc.) for wedding day
  • Shop for any Party rentals

3-4 Months Before Your Wedding Day

  • Mail out/hand deliver invitations
  • Confirm wedding details and contracts with all wedding vendors
  • Choose gifts for your attendants
  • Set a date and time for the rehearsal dinner
  • Help make travel arrangements for any guests that need to travel
  • Make final alterations and fittings for the wedding gown and tux
  • time with your photographer for the bridal portrait or engagement shoot

1 Month Before Your Wedding Day

  • Apply for the marriage license
  • Buy your wedding bands
  • Finalise music list and no-play list with band or DJ
  • Plan hen party and stag do

1-2 Weeks Before Your Wedding Day

  • Schedule the rehearsal a day or two before your wedding day
  • Make an appointment with a beauty salon for day of wedding
  • Send a wedding announcement to the local newspapers (optional)
  • Make necessary arrangements for name & address change, if any.
  • Discuss final details with the reception site and the caterer
  • Pack for honeymoon
  • Write out all checks needed for wedding day
  • Send reminders to the rehearsal dinner attendees about the location & time (not every wedding party choose to do this)
  • Discuss final details of the ceremony and reception with family and bridal party

Wedding day or day before

  • Visit your beauty salon for manicure and pedicure
  • Host the rehearsal and dinner (not every wedding party choose to do this)
  • Make sure the ushers have the final guest list.
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A-Z guide to getting married

Attendants

Attendants, include the best man, Bridesmaids, ushers, and groomsmen. Generally any people with some sort of responsibility on the big day. How many attendants are up to you but you need to consider the size of the church and your budget for the outfits and gifts.

Budget

Every wedding has a budget. There are many ways to cut the cost on the big day without compromising on style and atmosphere. You can do a lot of the organising yourself.

Cake

This is another important feature; as the cake will appear in the “cutting of the cake” photograph, another staple of the wedding album.

Dress

The dress is going to be the centre of attention for the whole wedding. The perfect dress should make the bride feel and look beautiful. This is achieved by a well-fitted dress that is flattering to the figure.

Entertainment

The entertainment you choose for the reception should vary depending on what type of wedding your going for.

Flowers

The bridesmaids outfits will set the trend for the colours of the flowers, so keep this in mind when choosing the colour theme. These can range from the most flamboyant bouquet to the simplest white lilies. The most important being the brides bouquet as this will feature in most of the wedding photographs.

Honeymoon

This will be the most extravagant holiday you ever had. Depending on what you can afford push the boat out and spoil yourself. Whether it be a five star holiday in Mauritius or a weekend in a five star hotel this is your quality time as man and wife and should be as comfortable and enjoyable as possible.

Invitations

The Invitations are the first taste the guests will get of your wedding so they should reflect what type of wedding it’s going to be Formal/Informal.

Jewellery

A special touch if possible is personally designed wedding bands most jewelers will do this but be expected to pay a bit more.

Love

You have done the most important part of the wedding day and that is finding each other and falling in love. Without you two this day would not be happening, therefore it’s your special day to celebrate your love for each other.

Marriage

Make sure you have all your legal requirements met and all your paper work in place well in advance of the wedding date, get all this out of the way first and this leaves plenty of time to concentrate on the more important enjoyable things.

Outdoor wedding

Oh what a wonderful day it would be, a beautiful sunny garden, a big white marquee adorned with lilies and trinkets, music, dancing all sounds beautiful.

Photography

The photographs are going to be the lasting feature of you big day so you want them to be as fabulous as possible. Take recommendations from friends and people who have recently got married.

Reception

You have a choice of hotel, outdoor marquee or to be slightly different you can choose a stately home or castle. Or why not run away from it all to a romantic holiday island with close friends and family.

Skin

You will want beautiful silky skin to match your beautiful new wedding gown on that special day, so start taking care of your skin a couple of months before hand with some deep cleansing and exfoliating facials.

Vows

Writing your own vows is a good idea if you want to give the ceremony a little more of a personal feel.

Winning Smile

There will be lots of kisses and smiling photos on the day so your lips and smile must be in tiptop shape.

Yes

The whole wedding day is about two people saying yes. Yes to a lifetime partnership with each other, through the hard times as well as the good. Yes to loving each other through thick and thin. Yes is the most important word in the ceremony so savour the moment as it is upon this word the rest of your lives will be built.

Zzzzzz

Catching some Zzzzz the night before the wedding is essential. It is often tempting to have a few glasses of champagne to welcome the big day, but remember you have a long day ahead the following morning and bloodshot eyes in the photographs will linger on forever.

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Summer Months

Are you planning on getting married in the Summer months that include June, July, August or September??  Summer is getting closer and is also a very popular time to get married.  If you are planning on getting married at this time of year carry on reading.  Hopefully you will learn something and gain some helpful tips.

Summer is a fantastic way to make the most out of the best day of your life.  It is a happy time where the days of full of sunshine and the evenings are long and warm.  It also makes every aspect of planning your day much easier as you don’t have to worry about what to wear so that you and your guests are not cold, nor do you have to fight the winter weather and possible risks they bring such as ice, snow and frost.  The photos for a summer wedding are just fantastic and no need to worry about getting correct lighting or possibly thinking of finding cover if the gales open.

This time of year to choose to get married has always been – and continues to be – a very popular time of year to get married. Generally speaking, the hope is that the weather will be fine and this time of year is the most likely time to bag a bit of sunshine.

Getting married in June is wonderful as you have the promise of warmer weather yet the freshness of the Spring close on your heels. This means that early morning photos when the mist is lingering are a must. Later in the day you are assured of clear skies and warm sunshine. Many brides opt for a bar-b-q or spit roast style wedding breakfast often in a marquee. Spoil your guests with summer style wedding favours and scatter tables with pink and yellow real rose petals.


July and August weddings are more likely to attract the warmest weather of the year. Ensure that this is considered when planning takes place. If you are planning an outdoor ceremony ensure there is a gazebo or canopy to shelter you and your guests from excessive sun. Cover exposed skin with sunscreen and ensure children’s heads are covered. Best to stick to a light meal and ensure there is plenty of ice-cold water for guests. A light sorbet or fruit mousse would make great desserts as anything heavy will be too rich for your guests on a hot day.

When it comes to the brides dress, best to go for a lightweight fabric that you will be cool in. Even if you are not marrying in the middle of a heat wave, you will be hot with all the excitement of the day so go for a simple dress. It is probably sensible to have your hair put up too; it will stay neat and tidy on a hot day if it’s up and it will also keep your neck cool.

September brides can enjoy all the benefits of those marrying in the height of the summer. Evenings are starting to draw in a little by September so you can enjoy the benefits of the cosy nights. Sunsets at this time of year are incredible, so try and use this to your advantage in photographs. Usually, the weather is still warm enough for a light bridal gown and summery style bridesmaid dresses will fit in brilliantly. Scatter tables with handfuls of summer rose petals and lay tables with bright floral arrangements.

Getting married in the summer is such a popular time to wed, so why not take advantage of this.

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Points to consider when choosing wedding invitations

So you are thinking about where to start with your wedding invitations.  We give some pointers below on where to start:

Colours

The first thing you think about is the colour.  What is your colour scheme as the colour of the invitations will dictate to your guests the wedding theme.
Design

Another thing that you may want to look at is the design for your invitations. There are so many that you can choose from and sometimes the best ones are not the flashiest. Think about the impression that you want to give people at your wedding and the design that will best give that to your guests.

Font

There are many different fonts that you can use for your invitations. You will need to know what colours you will need to match the design of the invitation that you are looking into. You also will need a good font that will be easy for your guests to read and will make the invitations look great.

Price

Most weddings have a budget. You will want to make sure you are getting an invitation that will not only look good, but also stay within your budget. Try and talk to the person that is doing your invitations and see if they can give you a bulk deal for the amount that you need for your guests.  Most wedding invitation suppliers do offer bulk discounts.

Time of Year

If you are having a wedding in the summer, you may decide that you want to have a summer theme to your invitations. This may mean that you are keeping the colours bright and summery. If you are having a winter wedding, you may decide that you want to have a winter theme to your invitations. Of course, you don’t have to even go with this kind of theme if you don’t want to.

Formality

Weddings can be formal or informal. If you are having a formal wedding, you may want to keep the invitations more formal as well. If you are not having such a formal wedding, you may decide that you want to have your invitations be informal as well. This also will help the guests to know how they should dress for the wedding as well.

Who You Are Working With

When you are looking for a company to do your invitations, you might want to think about what kinds of invitations they have done before. You may also want to see if they have any samples that they can show you. This will help you to get an idea of what they can do for you.

Amount You Need

If you are having a large wedding, you may need a lot of invitations. This can make a difference with the price as well as the time you will need to get the invitations designed and the samples back to you for approval. You will need to think about how long the company will need so you are not worrying about it.

Envelopes

Now that you have the basics of the invitations, you will need to think about the envelopes that will hold the invitations. Many people want to have envelopes that will really make the invitations look good, but simple ones may be all that you need.

There are many people that want to get the best invitations for their money. These simple things should help you to think about what you are doing and what your guests will think before the wedding. Take the time and find the best invitations for your wedding so you will be happy with them.

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A Cyprus Wedding

As weddings abroad are becoming ever more popular, Cyprus is becoming a popular destination to get say your vows.  It is an affordable option in which to get married which doesn’t make sense as why would it cost less to get married abroad than a few steps down the road in your own country.

A Cyprus wedding can be achieved at a substantial cost saving compared to UK weddings.  Plus the sunshine, sea and sand are thrown in as extras to make those photo opportunities extra perfect.  So as well as saving thousands of pounds hot weather is mostly guaranteed unlike the UK.

There are several very good reasons why Cyprus weddings have massive advantages, from the weather to the views, the locations to the fact that the island has developed a specialty of working together to create fantastic occasions. But for the moment we will consider the financial aspect of the wedding. Cyprus may not seem like the ideal location to choose if you’re looking to save money, but with so many cheap flights now available the cost of flying to Cyprus is but a drop in the ocean compared to the sum normally reserved for a full wedding at home.

If you take the average wedding at home, you might well expect to have around sixty guests to the wedding itself and perhaps a hundred to the reception. When you consider that every one of those guests is likely to cost you between 20-40 pound just to feed your guests and to pay for a toast, that’s several thousand pounds spent merely feeding a lot of people you may well not have seen in years, and may well not see for some time to come.

The trouble is that when you have your wedding at home there is great pressure on a couple from all friends, family, distant relatives, work colleagues, partners of friends and family and even your neighbours in some cases, all of whom express joy and happiness at your engagement, and express hope that they’ll be able to join you for the occasion of your wedding. Cyprus doesn’t have those same pressures, because everyone is not expected to be invited and usually the invitation is only open to close and intimate family members and friends.

With that huge saving you can either feel less pressure financially, and fewer worries, or simply enjoy the chance to indulge those who really matter, pushing out the boat a little further and creating the dream wedding you’ve always wanted.

One of the problems many couples have when planning a wedding is trying to identify local businesses and suppliers who can provide what you need for your wedding. From the caterers to the florist, from the DJ or band to someone to inflate and arrange the balloons. The list seems almost endless, with every single service provider dealing directly with you. It can often feel a little like planning a military operation, and it is of no surprise that stress can make its presence felt at this time!

However, the beauty of Cyprus weddings is that the island is geared very much towards providing perfect and well organized weddings. Simply because of the growing popularity of Cyprus as a place to be married, local service providers, industries and businesses have developed a smooth and successful working relationship that ensures each wedding is not only perfect on the day, but a dream to organize and plan.

Cyprus weddings not only represent a more affordable way to be married, but one that is far less stressful, with much less pressure. And at least with getting married on an island there’s nowhere for the groom to escape!

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Red?? For the Unconventional Bride

As we all know red is a colour we associate with things like Christmas, Love and Hearts.  As it is often associated with love it makes sense to wear a wedding dress in this colour for the biggest day of your life.  It may not sound traditional and a colour that may stun people but it is becoming more and more popular in this century.

In some countries a red wedding dress is a classic type of bridal apparel to be worn.  For example in China red is a symbol of joy and good fortune, making the colour red the first choice.  As well as having red wedding dresses in China, everything else is red including having red flowers and red decor.

The traditional colour to get married in the UK is white as white is the symbol of everlasting love.  But nowadays it is not uncommon to see a bride walk down the aisle in a more unconventional colour, red.  As a festive colour, daring brides choose to get married in red for Christmas weddings.  For those attending a wedding that has a red theme, should not be surprised to see the bride in a red wedding dress.

It is not just a Christmas theme where a red wedding dress can be seen, other themes include a wine wedding theme, and a medieval theme where a red wedding dress is considered.

Some brides think red is too much of a bold colour to wear on her wedding day and steer away from it.  Red is just not right for some brides.  However a bride in a red wedding dress will be remembered and be the talk for years to come.  And who doesn’t want to be the centre of attention on their own wedding day.

Besides the themes mentioned above, a bride may just be looking to stand out and do something different to everyone else.  While there are some brides who will be nervous about such a bold colour, as it is just not you! You know you will be the talk of town and you will love every second of it.

Another reason brides choose not to wear any other colour apart from white is because white also symbolises purity and virginity.  And the idea of wearing red on a her special day would be a brides worst nightmare.  Just the thought of getting married in a red wedding dress is a travesty for some brides that could leave the bride…see red.

In the modern world we live in planning a wedding has advantages like no other time in history. The freedom is available to deviate from tradition.  The beauty of freedom allows lots of choices open to the bride and one of these being able to wear a wedding dress that is not the traditional white colour in order to a create a trendy and classy day to be remembered.

With the right wedding jewellery for the bride and color theme a bride can look forward to a day that will remain in the memory of her groom for all the days of his life. Not to mention the wedding guests.

While not every bride will choose a red wedding dress, if you do remember to accessorize with the right jewellery and bouquet. If you are going for a vintage look a great idea is to carry a parasol instead of the traditional flower bouquet. Also consider wearing gloves for a Christmas wedding or a southern belle theme to add to your look. Hope you will enjoy the looking for your wedding dress.

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Tips to make your wedding day memorable

Most of us dream of the perfect wedding day since we are little girls and want our big day to be perfect for both bride and groom to enjoy every moment.

However as every future bride and recently married brides know that as much as you enjoy your day, not everything tends to go perfectly and that slight mishaps can happen.  However there are ways to keep things flowing smoothly.  The key to this is to remain calm and collected, and stick with the original plan.

Before planning your wedding it is important to know exactly what you want before you start making those final decisions as you can’t change your mind at a later date.  Talk about what you want and have dreamed of with your finance, to ensure you both have the same kind of ideas as each other.  Many couples have a budget to abide to so it is important to decide what are priorities.

One of the very first things that you need to do is decide on the date of the wedding. If you’re planning on being married in a church or other institution you’ll need to make sure that there is an opening on the date of your choice, otherwise you’ll have to pick an alternate date.  It is a really good idea to have a choice of wedding dates so that if your first choice is not available you won’t feel totally disheartened.

As previously mentioned most couples have a budget they have to abide by so the next big item of planning is preparing the budget.  Careful planning is needed to ensure that all essential items are covered within the budget, giving you spare budget in case anything should not go to plan.  Where ever possible think of ways where you can cut costs. For example find out costs for different services with different vendors to be able to choose the best and most inexpensive alternative.

When you start buying the things that you need for your wedding use a list that includes all costs and items that you need and make sure that you stick to it. Contact companies in your area that offer the services that you need and see if you can negotiate a better price.  There is no harm in trying to see if you can get a discount.  That discount can mean  being able to purchase something special for your bridesmaids, or a gift for your future husband.

Hiring a photographer is one of the biggest decisions in any wedding plan. Your wedding photos will capture your memories and be with you all of you for the rest of your lives.  They are something you will cherish and look forward to looking through in future years with your children and grand children.  Visit several photographers and view their work to see which style you prefer.  You may have some special pictures and you’ll want to know before the wedding that a photographer can shoot them.  Another suggestion is to get recommendations from friends and families that have recently got married.

You need to decide how many people that you’re going to invite to your wedding. Be realistic when you’re counting heads. If your budget doesn’t allow you to have a huge guest list you’ll have to start making cutbacks.  It may mean inviting close family to the church and extending the invite for the reception.

The catering costs can be budgeted once head count has been established.

You will find when planning a wedding, there is a lot to consider, chat to those that have just got married to get ideas of what to include within your budget, so that all areas are covered.

Planning a wedding can be very enjoyable and also working to a budget can be fun as you find ways to reduce costs.

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5 ways for your guests to remember your wedding day

Do you want to do something different for your wedding day?  Something that no one else has done, something unique?  Check out these five ways you can ensure that your guests will have a night they will remember.  If I only thought of some of these ideas when I tied the knot. 

1.   Jazz Up Your First Dance
All eyes will be on you during your first dance, which means it’s the perfect opportunity to shock your guests. Imagine starting with a slow dance to “One Love” and then suddenly switching to a fast, sexy Latin dance or a jazzy swing step. It’ll totally throw your guests for a loop and set the tone for a lively dance party.  This is where your dance lessons could come in very handy.

2.  Have a Game Plan for Kids

To keep the little ones entertained throughout the night (and to give their parents an opportunity to hit the dance floor), set up an area specifically for them. In a separate room, arrange for a babysitter who can set up movies for them to watch. Or designate a couple tables just for the kids and pack them with coloring books, crayons, and small toys.  This would be ideal especially if a lot of the guests have children.  Often, you can even hire a children’s entertainer along with babysitter.  They could all sit together and eat their snacks and play games.

3.   Keep the Toasts Short (And Prep Your Toasters)
As meaningful and wonderful as toasts can be, it’s important that you don’t let those toasting to drone on and on. Quite frankly, it’ll put a lull in the evening. When it comes to toasts, it’s really all about quality over quantity. So direct anyone who is speaking in advance to keep their speeches to two minutes max and ask them to share any other long-drawn-out stories at a pre-wedding party like the rehearsal dinner.  Of course after having a few drinks you may have to stand up and shout ‘to the groom’ or ‘to the bride’ because after all it’s not often people probably drink champagne.

4.  Give Out Party Favours
Don’t forget that a reception is a party.  Let your guests know that it’s okay to cut loose after a formal ceremony by passing out crazy wedding favors at the reception. A few of our favourite ideas are:   funky masks, noisemakers, bubbles or Silly String. We even know one couple who handed out neckties and encouraged their guests to tie them around their heads on the dance floor. Quirky, but definitely fun!  Embrace other cultures.  Sugar coated almonds are great for Italian weddings, fans, elephant charms and even trees you can plant are all unique and interesting party favors.  Some people have even passed out charity pins for their own very special charity.

5.  Put on a Welcome Dinner
Okay, so this tip isn’t for your reception, but it will end up making the party more fun. Why? A casual event where all of your guests can meet and mingle the day before the wedding means that by the time your reception rolls around, everyone will have already gotten to know one another. That way, your guests can skip the pleasantries and get right down to celebrating.  It will also take away a lot of the pressure from the ‘big day’ by starting the celebration.  Because after all, it’s not really about that one big day is it?  It is about the preparation, the planning, the wedding dress, the cake, the band and where you seat everyone.  There is so much that goes into a wedding day that in actuality the wedding day should be the grande finale.

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Top 4 Town & Country Destination Weddings

Where can you go when you want a picturesque country wedding, but don’t want to travel too far from London?  What should the wedding planner do when the bride –to- be wants the rural romantic wedding destination to be part of her tying the knot memories?  Perhaps having all of her and her groom’s guests meet at a reconstructed barn on a private estate or exclusive rights to organically grown rose bushes of all delights for the perfect backdrop for their wedding day pictures might raise eyebrows.  Here are some local town and country venues that might tickle your fancy. 

1.  The Gardens of the Rose
The Gardens of the Rose is an elegant and romantic venue to host your wedding, pre-engagement party or to meet for professional photographs.  In the height of the season you can surround yourself with an aroma of French lavender and beautiful roses of all shades and scents.  Can you imagine privately catered canapé and sipping pink champagne taking in the sunset as your guests joining you on your celebrated day?  Read more about this venue: (http://hertfordshire.greatbritishlife.co.uk/community/blogs/detail/the-gardens-of-the-rose-open-now/id/5295/)

2.  The Grange Country House
The Grange Country House is a wonderful 14th Century house, which is set in its own mature gardens and woodland and is the oldest of its kind in Northwood. It is probably Northwood’s best-kept secret and is now available exclusively for you to hire for your special wedding day.

3.  The Cavendish Country House
The Grange is a beautiful mock Tudor house set in the very heart of Eastcote that is surrounded by rose gardens and parkland. With numerous and tastefully decorated rooms the Cavendish provides all the flexibility you need for your individual requirements.

Both houses have a warm and friendly atmosphere, a good standard of service and the finest mouth-watering cuisine, all of which comes very highly recommended. When you hire the Grange Country House or the Cavendish Country House you get the building exclusively. This means that you will only see your guests and hired staff all day.  No other function is booked at the same time, no hotels and other venues to interfere with your special and important day.

4.  Fallowfields
Do you love fine foods and expect a standard for your wedding plans?  The coveted two AA Rosette award for culinary excellence puts Fallowfields in the AA’s top 10% of restaurants in the country.  Fallowfield presents a confident choice of wedding venues. TSE have recognised Fallowfields as their “Best Small Hotel in South East England 2011″. Their own farm, kitchen gardens and orchards increasingly supply produce for you to taste in the restaurant. Oxfordshire suppliers are then preferred.

Many of the guests feel more comfortable in a family run hotel rather than a chain hotel. There is a wonderful warm ambience in this boutique hotel, from the warmth of your welcome by friendly staff, to the attention to detail throughout.

Located in twelve acres of rural Oxfordshire, under an hour from Heathrow, Fallowfields Country House Hotel is a small, 10 bedrooms, charmingly furnished, independent hotel with an award winning Head Chef cooking seasonal British food. The restaurant manager’s ability, without denting your pocket book, to build you a cocktail or to match your palate to our wine list never ceases to amaze.

When you have something to celebrate such as the once in a life time glorious wedding, – Fallowfields will bring you the quality and personal touch your occasion deserves.

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A perfect wedding dress

Choosing a wedding dress is quite a challenge for every bride. The bridal gown should perfectly fit your figure on your big day. The abundance of dresses available on the market can be quite confusing which is why it is best to have an idea of what your perfect wedding dress should look like before starting to hunt for dresses. 

Ayisha Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Ayisha at British Bridal Exhibition in Harrogate, March 2012.

Very few of us ladies have been blessed by Mother Nature with a perfect model figure. All brides however want to look stunning on their wedding day and they hire stylists, hairdressers and professional make-up artists in order to do so. A well fitted wedding dress however has the biggest impact on the bride’s appearance as well as her confidence.

There are five most common styles of wedding dresses. The classic wedding dress has a well-fitted bodice and skirt in the shape of a crinoline. A-line wedding dresses flare from bust down without accentuating the waistline. They do however make silhouette appear slender, which is a flattering style for both the taller and the shorter brides. A good example of an A-line wedding dress from Intuzuri 2012 wedding dress collection is Arden:

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Intuzuri wedding dress Arden - a classic A-line wedding dress.

Arden Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Arden - a classic A-line wedding dress.

A ‘Princess’ dress has a flared skirt; it is fitted in the bust and the waistline. This shape of a gown makes the figure look taller and slender. Have a look at Adelphi wedding dress from Intuzuri 2012 wedding dress collection to see that shape:

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Intuzuri wedding dress Adelphi - a 'princess' style of a wedding dress.

Adelphi Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Adelphi - a 'princess' style of a wedding dress.

The ‘Empire’ style of a dress flatters nearly every figure. This style has a short corseted top with a full skirt. One of the ‘Empire’ wedding dresses in Intuzuri 2012 wedding dress collection is Arianna:

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Intuzuri wedding dress Arianna - an 'empire' style of wedding dress.

A fishtail (also called mermaid) is also a very popular style of a wedding dress. That style of a wedding dress perfectly fits the tall and slim ladies; it accentuates bust, waistline and thighs. Here are two examples of a fishtail shape wedding dress from the Intuzuri 2012 bridal gown collection Ayisha and Andrea:

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Intuzuri wedding dress Ayisha - a proper fishtail (a mermaid shape).

Ayisha Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Ayisha - a proper fishtail (a mermaid shape).

Andrea Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Andrea - a proper fishtail (a mermaid shape).

On the other hand, a typical gown for the curvier brides combines a corseted bodice, an A-line dress, a bolero and beading, especially if is applied in vertical lines so as to lengthen the silhouette. A great example of such dress from Intuzuri 2012 wedding dress collection is Alexis:

Alexis Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Alexis - an A-line shape with vertical ornaments.

Alexis Intuzuri wedding dress, bridal gown, luxury wedding

Intuzuri wedding dress Alexis - an A-line shape with vertical ornaments.

Very tall brides, who would like to conceal the fact that their partners are shorter, can also resort to a few tricks. Adorning the dress with a flattering belt below the waistline or opting for a big skirt with many layers does wonders. As an example see Alana from Intuzuri 2012 wedding dress collection:

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Intuzuri wedding dress Alana - excellent for tall ladies.

The ideal gowns to lengthen the bodies of petite brides are the ones with heightened waistline. The bottom of the skirt should not be too full as the effect may be opposite to what you envisioned. A good example of such dress is Annina from Intuzuri 2012 wedding dress collection:

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Intuzuri wedding dress Annina - perfect for shorter ladies.

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5 tips before buying your wedding dress

Kate Middleton wedding dress Intuzuri

Kate Middleton wedding dress

Every bride dreams of her perfect wedding day, ultimately it is one of the most important days of every woman’s life. You want to look the most beautiful as well as to be the happiest person in the world. You want your guests to admire you and to remember your big day for years to come. Of course we cannot always control every single thing happening around us, but we can still take care of the major part of the wedding preparations. We have brought together 5 crucial tips you should consider when choosing your wedding dress.

1. Start looking for the inspiration today!

Amass as many wedding magazines as you can. There you will be able to find a wide variety of styles, colours and patterns. Pick those which inspire you the most, cut them out and put them into one place. It will serve as a starting point for further wedding dress hunting, which you should start at least six months before the wedding.

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Wedding magazines - Intuzuri booklet.

2. Remember about the strengths and weaknesses of your figure!

Even if you have been dreaming of a fabulous wedding dress abundantly adorned with crystal beads and flowers, sometimes it is better to make a compromise, especially if you have a voluptuous figure. Frills, ruffles and crystal beading may make your body look larger and on the wedding photos you can look bigger than you are in reality. Look at yourself objectively and judge your silhouette realistically. If you have a fuller bust, do not pick a dress with very narrow straps as they may give an impression as if they were about to tear off. If you have a smaller bust, do not pick a dress with a deep neckline; this will make your bosoms look almost invisible. Recognise the best features of your figure and try to draw attention to them. Do you have a beautiful back? Highlight it by choosing a dress with an open back (remember not to combine this with a long veil!). Are you proud of your sexy curves? Go for an extravagant fishtail (mermaid shape). No one is perfect, but the skilful accentuation of your silhouette’s assets will make you look perfect on your wedding day. For more about how to match a wedding dress to your figure go to article: How to choose a perfect wedding dress?

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Intuzuri wedding dress Andrea represents a proper mermaid style (fishtail).

3. What is your budget?

Knowing how much you can spend on a wedding dress is very important as it will determine the kind of outlet where you should look for your wedding dress. When it comes to prices of the wedding dresses, there really is no upper limit so define yours and stick to it. Remember not to let persuasive salespeople decide for you. Choose a dress which you think is the best for you, both with regards to its price and fit.

4. Consider the weather and geographical conditions.

Do you dream of a beach or a garden wedding? If so, make sure to choose your wedding dress according to the location bearing in mind the weather and the time of the wedding.  This way you will not be stuck in mud while wearing super high heels nor will you faint because of too many layers of the dress while tying the knot in a hot climate.

 5. It is your day!

Remember this is your wedding. When choosing your dress, do not worry about what others may think. Everyone has their own opinion and an idea of what you should look like. Trying to fulfil the expectations of all the guests could make you paranoid. The choice of a wedding dress is ultimately your decision – just buy the one you fall in love with!

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How to choose a perfect wedding dress?

Finding a wedding dress perfectly matching the figure is not an easy task. Frequently the fabulous images in catalogues and magazines do not reflect the exact fit of a dress in reality. In a nutshell, finding a perfect wedding dress should be a very personal but also a highly rewarding assignment for every bride-to-be.

When searching for a perfect wedding gown, the key task is to choose a dress which brings out the best features of the figure as well as hides any imperfections of the body.
The best time to start looking for a dress is from eight to six months before the wedding. This time will allow you to take a critical look at your silhouette in order to understand your shape and judge it objectively. It will help you to effectively match the wedding dress to your shape.

Female body shapes.

The three most common female shapes are: apple (broad shoulders, narrow hips and bigger chest) pear (hips broader than shoulders) and hourglass (hips and shoulders are of equal size with a narrow waist). The capability of looking objectively at your body shape will make it easier for you to choose a dress which perfectly matches your body, regardless of any misleading images you could have come across.

The best creations for a pear shape are those which accentuate the waistline and hide the hips which are comparatively wider. Fitted dresses, which hug the figure in all the places, are discouraged as very often they make a pear bride feel uncomfortable. To optically enlarge the bust, puffed sleeves and big, square or round necklines work a treat.

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Aurelia - Intuzuri wedding dress with a nipped-in waistline and a fabulous skirt.

Aurelia Intuzuri wedding dress bridal gown luxury wedding

Aurelia - Intuzuri wedding dress with a nipped-in waistline and a fabulous skirt.

For apple-shaped brides the most recommended are the simpler styles with vertical cuttings as they make the silhouette look slender. If possible, the striking ornaments should be avoided. Additionally, broad shoulders can be disguised by wearing a delicate bolero.

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Alison - Intuzuri wedding dress with an open back and a bolero.

Alison Intuzuri wedding dress bridal gown luxury wedding

Alison - Intuzuri wedding dress with an open back and a bolero.

Brides with the hourglass shape should definitely go for dresses with an open back. To make the upper part of body look slender dresses with flared sleeves are recommended.

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Alexis - Intuzuri wedding dress with an open back.

Choosing the ideal dress is an unusual process therefore should not be taken lightly. Knowing your good features as well as the imperfections of your figure will make the process of finding your dream dress much easier and effective.

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How to pick the perfect wedding planner

Before you start your wedding preparations, you need to find the best wedding organisers. In order to be positive you’ve made the right decision choosing only the most bespoke wedding planners is the best way to assure yourself that your wedding will be a fairy tale come true.

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Two hundred yards of sumptious silky taffeta and tulle fabric interwoven with roses; a sweetheart neckline and pleated detail on bustier, flowing through to a long train.

In honour of bride and groom and their heavenly union, to make their special day an unforgettable blissful moment in time shared together, then undoubtedly expert wedding planning is crucial regardless of the costs after all its a once in a lifetime event. From the exquisiteness of wedding flowers to luxury catering arrangements, expensive gifts, vivid wedding photographs capturing special moments, stunning wedding venues, flawless wedding decor and a unique wedding theme created just for you.

For exclusive and sublime luxury weddings right from planning an extraordinary theme and perfect decorations tailor made to suit your taste, wedding organisers ensure absolute supervision of your arrangements taking care of the assignments it takes to make you feel relaxed and happy. Bespoke wedding planners utilize their skills in bestowing personalized details in styling and providing the much wanted excellence for your momentous wedding day.

It is preferred that professionals begin planning for your wedding arrangements from scratch to avoid any occasional blunders to ensure perfect moments for the aspiring couple.  This ensures there are no hiccups on the big day. The uniqueness they will bring to life in their designs, which look as vivid as fairy tales, wedding styling experts create an ambience of romance combined with a remarkable blend of music, entertainment, food and wining and off course the surreal venue and decor you’ll be under the love spell all day and night. Planners offer astonishing wedding results due to their vast connections and contacts. Though a wedding is a private affair of two, very much in love individuals contacting a wedding planner for your big day preparations is important for a stress-free event.

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Heavily pleated strapless soft organza low waisted dress. One shoulder rose detail strap, with button detail back fastening.

Mentioned below are just some of the few key reasons to hire a bespoke wedding organizer:

  • Turning Surreal Weddings into Reality:

Expert wedding planners arrange your wedding event in a dream like fashion and assure the perfection in its true form. Appropriate luxurious arrangements are made by their expert teams to deliver only the best most exclusive tailor made wedding arrangement.

  • Planning and Executing Schedules:

Arrangements are endless and a grand wedding needs a lot of attention and hard work, experts wedding planners have the experience necessary to follow strict schedules to make sure you luxurious day is perfectly managed. That is why planners create a set of criteria to follow arrangements precisely and perfectly with you, all you have to do is approve the many details involved and watch your dreams come true.

  • Skilfully Handle Crisis:

In situations of sudden crisis or unexpected circumstances, wedding planners tackle crisis with proper professionalism and dedication. As your wedding event is their first priority. They not only plan your wedding but make sure it goes according to plan.

  • Wedding Styling:

Consult your wedding stylist to get that glittering bridal attire to match that glimmer and shimmer in your eyes when you first see your dream wedding laid out in front of you, all you have to do is enjoy your lavish wedding. Experts supervise every possible detail from designing completely bespoke gowns and complimentary flower bouquets for a complete bridal look to match with special themes.

The cost of wedding planners varies.  As expected with most services expect to pay more for someone that has a very high reputation and lots of experience.  That are able to create that stunning wedding for you.

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Common Bride Questions


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Intuzuri wedding dress Abigail.

There are those questions that every bride asks.  Here hopefully is some of the common:

1. How to achieve that brilliant bridal glow?

Every bride possesses a distinctive beauty and so on this huge special occasion you may want to look your greatest! Start with a basic skincare regimen 5 To 6 months before your big day.

2. Must I wash my hair upon the day of the wedding?

It is advisable to wash your hair the night prior to the wedding. Slightly dirty hair gives extra texture which can help to carry the style. Should you choose to wash your hair on the day there is hair products accessible which will certainly provide texture and help keep the style in its place.

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4. Do I have to invite my boss to the wedding?

It’s not necessary to invite your manager or anyone else you may not feel at ease having at your wedding. Lower expectations simply by making it known you will be having a personal wedding with a few guests. Just remember to keep wedding talk to the absolute minimum at work even if you’re filled with excitement.

6. How To Individualise my Wedding?

Your passion for one another is exclusive and so should your special day be. There are plenty of tips and concepts designed to make your wedding different and personal. However making sure that it is unique to you and your fiancé, think of your personal passions and hobbies which you share together. Or, possibly there’s a specific place that you’ve got lots of great memories at. Should you incorporate these elements and “emotions” into your wedding then it is going to be fantastic and personal.

7. Would it be suitable to request money as the wedding present?

As increasing numbers of couples are financing their very own weddings as well as the price of weddings intensifying it’s becoming more popular and acceptable for newlyweds to ask for a monetary wedding gift. Your invited guests understand that for newlyweds a monetary gift is much more beneficial to them rather than a traditional wedding gift. Here’s an example of a clever little wedding poem you can include as part of your invites. Your presence at our wedding is present enough, yet if we’re honoured with a gift from you, a penny or two would help our dreams come true!”

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Princess-cut tulle organza gown, with sash, intricate diamante and bead embellishment. Feather detail sweetheart neckline. Zip back fastening in low 'V' cut.

8. What do I do if I sense my maid of honour is not being very helpful?

The ultimate way to manage this is often communication; speak to her in a very non confrontational approach. She may be needing you to approach her with responsibilities you wish her to be involved in. For those who have already done this and she is simply neglecting her tasks, then ask her if she’s got something more important taking place in her life that she can be dealing with. Ask her if there is anything she feels she cannot take care of and think about reassigning such duties to one of your other bridesmaids or having two maids of honour.

9. How far ahead of time can I buy a wedding dress?

It’s advisable to begin as soon as possible, 8 – 9 months before the wedding is usually a suitable time to begin. This allows you plenty of time to shop around for that perfect dress. For anyone who is ordering your dress it may take around a few months for ones dress to arrive and then you still have to make time for alterations! In case you have purchased your dress early try to not look at it constantly encase you grow bored and tired of it. Also keep in mind that you will need somewhere to keep it. You could inquire if you may have it kept at your dressmaker or at the store you got it from.

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The Biggest Celebrity Wedding

Princess Diana

Princess Diana

Every girls dreams of marrying Prince Charming when she was little, dreaming of wearing that big white dress and being carried away into the sun in a horse drawn carriage. 

Well, a lot of princes don’t remain charming and “happily” may not last ever after, but the dream wedding remains – and some girls are actually fortunate enough to get them!

We look at the biggest and most extravagant weddings of all time, weddings we can only dream of:

Number 5: Aleksandra Nikolic to Andrey Melnichenko, $30 million. The bride, Aleksandra, was a Serbian model, the former Miss Yugoslavia. Her groom, Andrey, was the founder of the MDM bank. He was also a billionaire. In 2005, they were married in France, at the Cote D’Azur. Their guests were entertained by the likes of Christina Aguilera, Enrique Iglesias, and Whitney Houston, who were all flown to the venue via a private jet and sent home with more than $3 million each.

Kate Middleton and Prince William wedding of decade

Kate Middleton and Prince William wedding of decade. (source: BBC)

Number 4: Prince William and Kate Middleton, $34 million. The couple hardly needs introduction. He is the eldest son of England’s crown prince. She is a smart and beautiful commoner, with a rags-to-riches story. For many, it was the Cinderella story come alive. Their 2011 wedding was watched by the whole world, and hundreds of millions of people sent their well wishes that this prince’s fairy tale wedding will fare much better than that ill-fated one that took place in the very same site and family twenty years ago.

Number 3: Vanisha Mittal and Amit Bhatia, $60 million. Vanisha is the daughter of the richest man in India, steel magnate Lakshmi Mittal, the owner of the most expensive house in the world. Amit was the owner of Swordfish Investments. For their 2005 wedding, they sent out invitations enclosed in silver cases. Guests were flown to the 17th-centure Vaux le Vicomte, “the finest chateau and garden” in France, and were booked at a five-star hotel. The wedding has been reported in an Indian magazine, in an article headlined, “Papa, Buy Me the Eiffel”.

Wedding of Princess Diana and Prince Charles

Wedding of Princess Diana and Prince Charles

Number 2: Prince Charles and Lady Diana, $70 million. Well, to be exact, they only spent $48 million – but that was in 1981. Taking inflation into account, that’s worth $70 in 2012. Like many high-profile royal weddings, though, much of the cost were actually expenses for security. Still, the wedding featured a horse and carriage, a guest list of 3,500 people, 27 cakes, and an ivory silk wedding dress in the range of $15,000 – plus five back-up copies of the same dress, just in case something went wrong with the first one.

Number 1: Sheikh Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum and Princess Salama, $100 million. The dollar amount was smaller in 1981, but we have adjusted it with today’s dollar value in mind. We are talking here about the wedding of the crown prince of Abu Dhabi, now the prime minister of the United Arab Emirates and the constitutional monarch of Dubai. The couple had a guest list of 20,000 people. To hold that crowd, they had to build an amphitheatre especially for the event. Emirs, ambassadors, and sheiks were flown in on private jets. Song-and-dance troupes performed. Bejewelled camels brought in gifts for the bride. The entire extravaganza lasted seven days.

Even if not all these fairy tale weddings had happy endings, it is undeniable that the ceremonies themselves were something to behold. For the ones that didn’t last – well, at least their wedding photographer was able to capture that one brief shining moment, to keep the grand (and expensive) images alive forever.

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What sort of bride are you?

Are you a blushing bride?  Or would you describe yourself as more of a traditional, sophisticated bride?  Or would you describe yourself as a fairy tale-esque bride? Some of you gals out there might describe yourself as the outdoorsy all around gal bride?  What about the ultra cool, ultra chic, mod bride? Whatever your personal style Intuzuri is sure to make all of your wedding dreams come true.

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Alberta Intuzuri wedding dress

What sort of bride are you?

Blushing bride- the blushing bride all perfect and pink may dream of bouncy, flowing satin at sync.  She may prefer a touch of satin touché or a pink pearl ribbon wrapped in her hair.  The blushing bride would be natural for sure with minimalistic make-up and long locks of curls flowing down from her veil.  The blushing bride- to- be may want all of her bridesmaid to be as perfect as can be with matching dresses and shoes to be.  Little roses to accent their shoes and flowers in tote as they’re marching down that sacred isle.

Traditional bride- the traditional bride-to-be may have her hair pulled back as tight as can be.  She may follow in footsteps of icons such as Princess Diana or Kate Middleton with embracing what her elders had already put in place.  The traditional bride may wear only white, have something borrowed and something blue and if lucky might have a five pence in her shoe.  The traditional bride is someone who every girl would like to be even for us ladies who thrive to be in the 21st century.

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Fairytale bride- the fairytale bride is someone who has been dreaming about her wedding day since the day she could remember.  She has kept sashes of swatches and pictures of people in her hope box.  She knows exactly what sort of dress she would like to wear and what sort of suite her prince will be wearing.  She may wear lace and frilly accents and want the longest train invented.  The fairytale bride not only strives to have the most perfect wedding, but also she trusts in someone to make sure she has that special day.  She may be the gal that has a wedding planner.  She may be the gal that contacts the best place to help her choose that perfect wedding dress.  She may ring up Intuzuri and ask, ‘I need your advice on wedding dresses.  I know you will have what I am looking for.  Can you help?’  The fairytale bride may have been planning this her whole life, but she knows when to ask for help.  She will be the one who will always reminisce about that special day and how she wore that perfect, special dress.

Outdoorsy bride- the outdoorsy bride may be Aspen Extreme bride where she wants an edgy, off -location to tie that sacred knot.  It may be that special destination wedding in St. Lucia with all of her friends celebrating her special day.  It may be more of an intimate setting with the perfect simple dress with a local flower worn in her hair with the most perfect pedicure bare feet.  She may be the gal that wants to buy a dress with the style that is light and flowing and perhaps form fitting.  This dress might be a simple satin dress with straps at each side.  Her hair might be simply dressed with a headband or lily at her ear.  She is someone who may be having that beach destination wedding.  She is the one looking for the perfect matching flip flops to match that perfect pearl wedding dress that she purchased from her local London shop.  She is the one who does not conform and wants to personalise her feelings with the one she loves.

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Wedding Vows

Wedlock is a HUGE change for anyone planning to enter into the sacred union; (almost in all majority cases) you will be spending the rest of your life with one person. This same person will be the individual you will have kids with, go shopping, plan your finances with, and most importantly; grow old with. So you definitely know that your spouse-to-be will be your lifelong companion and that the two of you will need to work out through both the rough & the tough times (for better, for worse) that life pitches at you.

But before you enter into this lifelong union, you will be engaged in making preparations for the big day when both you & your fiancé will vow to live for & love each other for the remainder days of life. And in this instance, knowing how to write wedding vows will prove to be extremely helpful. Quite understandably, your heart will be bubbling emotions & sprouting with love filled feelings that you will want to share with your special one. The part where you will be nervous is where you have to translate those intangible emotions into romantic wedding vows. Worry not my dear reader; I have presented you with ideas for wedding vows to make the task simple for you.

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How to Write Marriage Vows?

While many people will persuade you to share your thoughts with your special one on what he or she plans to write for his or her wedding vows, I for one am not in support of that. My personal belief is to keep your wedding vows locked up either in your heart or inked on paper till you have to present it to your beloved. Therefore, grab hold of a pen and start writing down all the good things that come to your mind when you think of your special one; both words and also complete phrases if any hit your thought waves.

Think of all the good times & special moments that you guys got to share in the time you have known each other; write them down as well.

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Once you have all your thoughts jotted down on paper, start to give them shape. Combine the phrases you have jotted down along with the words and try to form complete sentences out of them. Imagine how elated your loved one’s presence makes you feel; how you feel secure & full of strength in his or her presence in your life. Think about how he or she completes your being by being at your side through thick & thin.

Perhaps your beloved might want to hear your wedding vows directly from you instead of reading them. Therefore, it would not be a bad idea to actually practice your speech delivery in front of a mirror to ensure you nail the right emotions and that you are spot on with the tonality because none of these emotions or words are or can be fake; they are coming straight from your heart so make sure your voice resonates the same importance.

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Wedding Dress Styles

For any bride, their wedding dress is perhaps the most important part of their wedding day. The dress has to be elegant, sophisticated and utterly unforgettable. So it’s no surprise that choosing the right outfit can be an incredibly stressful experience.

As a colour, white can be tricky to pull off. That’s why choosing a dress that suits your body shape is essential. You need to know how to show off your best bits on your special day. But how does a bride identify what shape their body is? And once armed with this knowledge, how should they dress for the occasion?

Apple Shaped

If you carry your weight around the waist, but are blessed with great legs and/or boobs, you are the owner of an apple shaped body. Fortunately, there are lots of options to get you looking and feeling great on your wedding day.

Look for a dress that draws attention your best features. For bigger bust sizes, a plunging neckline will accentuate the cleavage, whilst lengthening the neck. Choosing a plunging neckline is an even more effective tactic if you decide to go strapless.

An a-line skirt can look great if you’ve got the legs for it, but you should avoid high neck lines.

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Pear Shaped

If you’re skinny on top and heavier on the bottom, with a J-Lo bum and larger thighs, you are the proud owner of a pear shaped body. Most women consider this shape undesirable, and the most difficult to dress. However, many men would beg to differ.

As with Apple shaped bodies, v-necks and strapless styles tend to flatter. A empire-style dress that pinches in at the hips before flowing outwards in an A-line shape is a good choice, as long as the skirt isn’t overly long. Examples of things to avoid are; halter necks, straight cut dresses and also gathered or pleated skirts, as you should avoid adding any unneeded excess around the hips.

Triangle Shaped

This shape is typical amongst taller women, with their shoulders wider than the hips and a fairly flat chest. Although some triangle shaped women fear their broader shoulders somehow lack femininity, this is actually an incredibly desirable shape. The majority of supermodels are this shape, meaning almost any catwalk or high street fashion is suited to this body type.

Straight cut dresses can give a very sophisticated look, and extravagant ball gown styles can look spectacular. A higher cut neckline balances shoulders and hips, flattering a smaller chest. Details around the hips can add shapeliness, but do avoid overly intricate sleeves, and wide or low cut necklines can broaden the shoulders too much

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Hourglass Figure

If your shoulders and hips are roughly the same width, but you benefit from a defined waist, you have the fabled hourglass figure. According to convention, this is often considered the most desirable body shape, and one of the most easy to dress. But it can be very easy to get wrong when choosing a dress.

Choose any type of low, wide or plunging neckline, as this will show off a defined waist well. If you’ve got any wobbly bits you’re not comfortable having on show, look for a dress that will disguise any insecurities you may have. Don’t waste your curves with a straight cut dress, and an empire style in particular will waste your best features, choose something that nips in at the waist to show off your smallest part.

Square/Rectangular

A rectangular shape is defined by shoulders and hips being roughly the same width, but without much waist definition. There is a surprising amount of scope for different styles with this body shape, as the only real issue is with adding hip definition.

A v-shape leading down to the waist is useful in that it creates the illusion of a smaller waist. A fairly full skirt with a structured bodice can also add extra definition. Empire line styles can work particularly well. Keep necklines wide and use detailing either above or below the waist, not both.

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Wedding Venues in London

Sometimes trying to choose that perfect wedding venue is a little bewildering – there is simply too much choice. But you need look no further than the City of London as this historic, impressive area has a variety of venues which can certainly help your search to find THE place. If you are looking for somewhere central yet traditional, or a little unusual but stylishly modern, the City of London has an unrivalled selection. From the Tower of London to the Gherkin, your wedding guests will marvel at their proximity to some of London’s finest historic architectural heritage.

What can be better than having your wedding held in one of London’s fantastic attractions.  Always remember especially with choosing a venue in the centre of London, whether there are any events, on the day of your wedding day that could affect any travel plans into the big City.

Here are some further details of the types of wedding venues in London you can find that would make a perfect backdrop to a wedding album providing an unforgettable wedding.

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Legendary London Attractions:
For those who wish to have a truly unforgettable and infamous backdrop on their big day, London attractions are the ideal choice. Who won’t remember a wedding in the Tower of London or the stunning St. Paul’s Cathedral? These venues are not only steeped in history but are uniquely atmospheric and right in the heart of the city. Imagine saying your vows on the London Eye? The grandeur of these venues cannot fail to delight and enthral your guests; your wedding will, for one exceptional day, be part of London’s legacy buildings.

Hotels and Restaurants:
London is home to some of the most lavish and iconic hotels in the world. Whether it’s a luxurious five star or a four star deluxe hotel, the London hotel scene offers a varied and stunning choice of venues to hire. And don’t forget that many hotels in London are in fantastic locations, such as St Paul’s and Park Lane. You and your guests will experience first-rate service and your every need will be met. Plus, if your guests need somewhere to stay, then a hotel obviously offers an easy solution. Restaurants are another great choice to host your wedding reception, especially if you have a smaller guest list. With many, many vibrant and world-class restaurants to choose from, the hassle of hiring caterers won’t be a concern. London’s restaurants are not only culturally diverse but world-renowned.

St. Paul's Cathedral

St. Paul's Cathedral

Halls:
If your guest list is of a significant number and a more spacious venue is needed, then hiring one of London’s banqueting halls would be a perfect choice. Ideally located and finely designed, the variety of halls steeped in history is available to hire at surprisingly reasonable costs. These generously-sized venues offer flexibility and excellent facilities, giving you the freedom to make the space your own. If you are after something grand and historic, Livery halls are also available for hire.

Unusual Venues:
As a cosmopolitan city, you can expect venues that can cater for an event with a difference. From stately homes to moored warships on the Thames, London can offer some of the most unusual venues for hire. We have a collection of distinctive locations nestled within famous landmarks, all unique in character, with that exclusive, prestigious feel.

So, London venues can cater for every taste and every need whilst being convenient for your guests to reach. Being spoilt for choice, there really is no need to look anywhere else for your wedding venue than our great, diverse and chic capital city.

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Wedding DJ

Selecting the right wedding DJ for your event can be hard.

Where to Start?

It is often hard to know where to start even looking for a wedding DJ. Some popular choices would be your favourite internet search engine, bridal magazines, or maybe your favourite online wedding directory. All of these places you will find those DJ’s who are advertising their business.

We have a list of a few DJ’s, what’s next?

Now that you have a shortlist of DJ’s, it is important you get to know each of them a little better. Be sure to visit their websites, ask your venue manager about them, phone and talk with them, and even meet with them if you have the option. Any DJ, who doesn’t want to meet with you before you book with them, should most likely be avoided. Take notes, such as if they answered their phone when you called, how did they answer the phone, did they answer with their own name, or their business name? Did they return your call promptly? Try to see some photo’s of their equipment setup, will it blend in with the “look” you want to create at your event? Ask if they have other setup options. View videos of their events and see if you like what they do.

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You should also consider if the DJ is within your budget. You may also need to consider if your wedding DJ budget is reasonable. More on this bit later.

Meeting with your prospective wedding DJ is also a good idea. Depending on timings and locations, this may not always be an option, however, consider phone meeting and even Skype. We often meet with couples via Skype so that we can video chat about their event. This is also a wonderful idea if you wedding are not near where you live.

1 – Is the DJ familiar with your wedding reception venue?

Although it is not essential that the DJ knows the venue, it can certainly help. They will know how to get there, where to normally setup, be familiar with the room layout, have some familiarity with the staff and be aware of any special requirements of a venue such as voice restrictions or Health and Safety concerns.

2 – What is the DJ’s back-up plan?

Some DJ’s will not have a backup plan in case something goes wrong at your wedding. These companies should be crossed off your list immediately! Your DJ MUST have a backup plan in case there is any type of equipment malfunction, or in case of injury or illness of the DJ performing. A “multi-op” DJ company can sometimes be more reliable in this sense as they will normally have a few back up DJ’s whenever their DJ’s are performing. Single-op DJ’s may network with other DJ’s to ensure they have a back up with each other, however be sure to ask what happens if the other DJ is also at another wedding. You do not want your wedding ruined due to your DJ’s lack of planning.

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3 – What will the DJ wear?

Once again, you need to make sure that the DJ is going to fit in with the theme of your wedding. Most professional wedding DJ’s will wear a suit.

4 – What music will the DJ play?

The main reason the DJ is there is to play music. Find out if you are able to select the songs the DJ will play, or if the DJ chooses them all. Be sure to find a DJ who will let you have as much input as you would like. Also, keep in mind that a professional DJ will have a lot of experience and you should try to take advantage of this. Give them a guide as to the music you want, but allow them some freedom to play what they know will work well. After all, you wouldn’t tell your cake maker exactly what ingredients to use and how to make a cake.

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First Dance

Love songs is a large part of the wedding.  The song chosen for the first decision is a big decision to make.  It is usually slower love songs that are used.  Sometimes a song is chosen because it has a meaning to the couple i.e. is “their song”.

Below are 5 of the most powerful and classic Love songs which you can’t go wrong with. Each song has lovely lyrics that will melt her heart.

1.The Power of Love by Celine Dion
Lyrics include:
I hold on to your body
And feel each move you make
Your voice is warm and tender
A love that I could not forsake

2. The Way You Look Tonight by Tony Bennit
Lyrics include:
Someday when I’m awfully low
When the world is cold
I feel a glow just thinking of you
And the way you look tonight.
Oh, but you’re lovely with your smile so warm
And your cheek so soft
There is nothing for me to love you
And the way you look tonight

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3. Can You Feel the Love Tonight by Elton John
Lyrics include:
There’s a calm surrender to the rush of day
When the heat of a rolling wind can be turned away
An enchanted moment, and it sees me through
It’s enough for this restless warrior just to be with you

And can you feel the love tonight
It is where we are
It’s enough for this wide-eyed wanderer
That we got this far
And can you feel the love tonight
How it’s laid to rest
It’s enough to make kings and vagabonds
Believe the very best

4. I Can’t Help Falling In Love With You by Elvis

Lyrics Include:

Wise men say only fools rush in
But I can’t help falling in love with you
Shall I stay
Would it be a sin
If I can’t help falling in love with you

Like a river flows surely to the sea
Darling so it goes
Some things are meant to be
Take my hand, take my whole life too
For I can’t help falling in love with you

Like a river flows surely to the sea
Darling so it goes
Some things are meant to be
Take my hand, take my whole life too
For I can’t help falling in love with you
For I can’t help falling in love with you

5.When I Fall in Love by Nat King Cole
Lyrics Include:

When I fall in love it will be forever
Or I’ll never fall in love
In a restless world like this is
Love is ended before it’s begun
And too many moonlight kisses
Seem to cool in the warmth of the sun

These are just 5 of the most classic love songs played at weddings. There are literally hundreds to choose from and what you chose should be personal to you. A lot of couples are now turning the first dance into a fully blown dance routine which they have practiced. You can start with a slow love song like one of the above, and then after the first chorus you can get your DJ to change the song to a dance track which you dance together. Other wedding members who are in on the act can be a part of it and join in. Rehearsal is key here and the changing of the song. Many DJs just play a scratchy sound so it sounds like the songs crashed, and then all of a sudden the dance track comes on and the bride and groom and others involved step up to the beat. This is really hilarious especially it a well hidden secret; you only have to look at videos online to see how other couples did this and the reaction it caused. It also takes the pressure away from the first dance.

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Wedding Invitation Etiquette

Wedding invitation etiquette can be hard to learn, especially if you’re doing your wedding invitations for the first time without help. Here are some easy, spelled out rules for creating and sending your invitations to make the process easier.

General Invitation Etiquette
If your invitations are whimsical and unusual, the recipients may expect something out of the ordinary. If the invitations are formal, recipients will expect a formal affair. Invitations should be mailed six to eight weeks before your wedding. The etiquette you use when sending your wedding invitations can also set the tone for your celebration, so it’s important to follow a few special pointers for proper invitation etiquette. This will help to keep the peace among your family and friends so that you can enjoy your day without worrying about anyone being left out or offended.

Enclosures Etiquette
The response card is traditionally used for gathering totals for the caterer and getting a general number of guests attending. Save the date cards are not used as a substitute for the wedding invitation and typically mentions that an invitation will follow. Other pieces often included in the ensemble are the reception card or folder, map or direction card, and accommodation information. The recipient is asked to mail back the response card roughly two weeks before the wedding or by the date indicated.

Envelopes Etiquette
When addressing the inner invitation envelope, address it to the individuals you are inviting, i.e. John and Mary Smith. Seal n’ send wedding invitations many times don’t come with envelopes. You fold and address them. If you ordered a seal n’ send that doesn’t have envelopes, you can usually order envelopes separately from the invitation company. Invitation envelopes can come in several shapes, sizes and colours.

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Destination Invitation Etiquette
Stylized fonts can be used to convey the atmosphere you want to have at your wedding – relaxed, formal, or laid back. If you’re designing your own invitations, you have a wide range of latitude for choosing colours, styles, fonts, and envelope inserts that will beach your beach theme. If you’d like to have beach wedding invitations or photo wedding invitations, have them designed or create them on your own. This is a great way to make your wedding stand out from the other weddings your guests have been invited to so they are sure to remember your special day.

Homemade Invitation Etiquette
If you are very specific, and you do it in a kind way, people will be more likely to enjoy spending your wedding day with you. It’s understandable that you want to cut down on wedding costs, but don’t create any bad feelings by not being specific in your invitations. Whether you make your own invitations or have them printed by a professional printer, they should be high in quality and you should proofread them for printing so that embarrassing mistakes can be eliminated. If you have printed the invitations on your home computer, you can print the envelopes by using special calligraphic fonts

Saving Money Without Losing Etiquette
Whether you use traditional invitation designs or come up with something whimsical of your own, you can save money by finding your wedding initiations online. In the past, wedding invitations had to be printed by a printer who charged a premium for engraving and other services. With the competition of wedding invitation businesses thriving, inexpensive wedding invitations are more easily found online. Invitations can be very costly for many couples unless they are aware where to look.

With these a snap rules, your wedding invitation experience should be easy and your invites should be mailed out without worry.

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Wedding Invitations

Wedding invitations is one of the most critical choices that a bride and groom require to make when arranging their wedding. Wedding invitations are usually the first contact made among the bride and groom and their guests. This makes it crucial to make certain that all of the needed items are integrated.

The initial consideration is obviously the wedding invitations themselves. These ought to consist of the day, date, time and location of the wedding. It ought to also contain the names of the bride and groom and the names of whoever is hosting the wedding if different than the bride and groom. If there is a reception following the ceremony, then this place must be included as well. The wedding invitations really should match the overall tone and colour scheme of the wedding. This will alert the guests as to what to anticipate at the wedding, whether or not it is a formal or casual affair.

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It is imperative to consist of reply cards within the envelope. This is just as important as the wedding invitations. This card will require having spaces that the guest can use to fill in their name, no matter whether or not they are attending the wedding, and the quantity of folks who will be attending in their party. These reply cards should have a self-addressed, stamped envelope included for the guests to return. These reply cards are imperative to consist of with the wedding invitations.

Wedding invitations must also incorporate details for out of town guests who will need to make travel arrangements for the wedding. The bride and groom ought to make sure to book a block of rooms at a nearby hotel. The hotel will most likely give a discount. This info must then be integrated with the wedding invitations so that guests can take benefit of the lower rate as nicely as book their trip in advance.

The wedding invitations may possibly need to have to include details about the reception if it is at a various place than the ceremony or at a later time. This would incorporate the location of the reception, time, and directions to the reception website. This does not need to be anything as fancy as the wedding invitations, but is required for guests to have this details prior to the wedding.

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There are unique extras that can be included with wedding invitations in order to make them more sophisticated and appealing. This includes the classic piece of tissue paper overlay on top of the wedding invitations or other embellishments

Wedding invitations are a lot of enjoyable to choose. It is at this time that many brides and grooms actually really feel connected and reality of the wedding sets in. It becomes really thrilling!

Wedding invitations is one of the most crucial decisions that a bride and groom need to have to make when planning their wedding. Wedding invitations are frequently the initial speak to made in between the bride and groom and their guests. This tends to make it critical to make sure that all of the essential items are integrated.

Wedding invitations can be bought from many shops and they can also be bought on the internet.  There are many sites that allow you to build custom invitation cards allowing you to add your own picture and text to make it that little more individual to you.  Save the date cards can also be produced with same stationary.  It also sets the tone for the wedding.  It is best not to have red wedding invitations if the wedding theme is going to be black and white.

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How to keep your guests entertained

When it comes to wedding reception entertainment there is a lot of different options that couples can go for to keep their guests entertained and make sure their once in a lifetime occasion is celebrated in style. Read on to find out some ideas for wedding reception entertainment.

After all the planning, worry and expenditure, the big day is finally here. The venue, catering and transport have all been planned well in advance, and with military precision. Everything seems to be running smoothly and the ceremony goes off without a hitch…

As the curtain closes on the wedding ceremony itself, it’s time for the fun to begin. The food, wine and chatter should get the festivities started, but it’s a good idea to think about how you’ll keep your guests entertained for the evening.

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Music

The choice of music is clearly a personal decision of the bride and groom. Whilst some people prefer the formality of a string quartet for their big day, others simply prefer to hire out a DJ. The typical wedding DJ has a selection of classics from every era of pop music. Considering how many songs there are to choose from, it’s surprising how often certain tracks get played. For instance, you should be prepared for “Come On Eileen”, “Love Shack” and “Dancing Queen” to make an appearance.

The cost of hiring this type of DJ can vary wildly, but is usually priced in relation to the size, quality and amount of speakers and lighting that they will bring with them. However, it’s definitely worth shopping around for a good deal.

Make sure that you enquire about the type of music they’ll be playing – remember that music tastes can vary a lot from person to person so you should make sure that you both have the same vision before making a booking.

If you have a slightly unusual taste in music, it is more than likely that there are bands or DJ’s in your area that will be able to accommodate your needs. You’ll be able to find a specialist performer in just about any genre, through a little Internet research, or by asking around your group of friends.

You may even know a great musician who’d be willing to play at the wedding. Having a performer that you actually know adds a beautiful, personal touch to the day – something that can’t easily be replicated. Plus, you may get a mate’s rates discount, or they might even be willing to perform entirely free of charge…

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Children’s Entertainment

Keeping children happy is an often overlooked aspect of a wedding. Once the kids get bored of sliding across the dance floor on their knees, they’ll be bugging their possibly inebriated parents for some form of entertainment. Hiring a clown or magician can stem the tide of restlessness for an hour or two. But in an ideal world, there needs to be some form of continuous activity for the kids to tire themselves out with.

This is where the bouncy castle steps in. The castle itself acts as a kind of energy sapping, child tiredness generator, entertaining children initially but sedating them as the night goes on. This allows parents to enjoy the party atmosphere without worrying too much about what their little ones are getting up to. A perfect solution.

Whatever you do, make sure there’s enough music, dance and wine to keep everyone happy. While the ceremony is the most important aspect of the day, the after party should be a commemoration of the event. So why not make sure all your guests enjoy themselves – it’s a once in a lifetime occasion that should be celebrated as much as possible.

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The Engagement Ring

Engagement, the first stage of entering another part of life, is one of the most memorable moments in the life of both men and women who want to celebrate this very important event in anybody’s life it in the most exceptional way. It is the time when words fall short (or are not enough) to express your love and affection. However, a small yet an amazingly beautiful, exclusive and meaningful thing such as a diamond engagement ring will fulfil your dream of embodying your true and eternal love and adoration. A unique and exclusive gift for that special day- diamond engagement ring will for sure impress your darling and all the attendees as well.

Moreover, it is also the most beautiful gift that becomes the centre of attraction during the exchange ceremony. A diamond engagement ring is not only the way of expressing your true love, but also the embodiment of commitment for everlasting relationship. Being hot favourite and a dream gift of women, diamond jewellery is flooded in an assortment of styles, designs, colours and sizes that you can buy as per your budget and requirements.

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Needless to say, that a diamond engagement ring is the right gift item that leaves a long-lasting impression on your beloved and will be carried and cared by her for many years to come. However, it is vital to keep in mind some essential points before buying such rings or any other diamond made ornaments. If you are going to buy fabulous and fascinating pieces of diamond jewellery, it is vital to pay attention at colour, clarity, cut and shape of the diamond that determine its quality and valuation. In addition to that, you should also figure out whether the selected diamond engagement ring will suit the wearer’s personality or not. If you are on budget but yet do not want to compromise on diamond quality too much look for H colour and SI quality diamond engagement rings as these provide the best value for your money. If your budget allows you can go for higher end such as G colour and VS quality or even higher, but be prepared to pay a high premium for these diamonds.

The clothing she usually wears and environment she prefers to live in matters a lot in the selection of diamond engagement ring as there is a variety of designs that suit a particular life style. Some women prefer simple rings with less diamonds and smaller prongs, such as three stone diamond engagement rings, or solitaire styles; others- large engagement rings with more diamonds surrounding the centre diamond. It is all about taste. That’s why it is very important to figure out what ring she is dreaming about.
If you are confused in the selection of a unique diamond engagement ring you have a lot of options: from browsing through hundreds of styles online to going local and finding the right diamond jewellery showroom. Local diamond jewellery stores have team of sales executives and professionals who have enough expertise to guide you; so you can select the right diamond engagement ring and other diamond made ornaments for that special day. Today online and authorized diamond jewellery stores are also the right way to get a unique ring for engagement ceremony and might be an easier option which you can use right from the comfort of your home. Look for an established online jewellery store though which provides a great number of designs and provides certificates of all the diamond engagement ring it sells so you can be sure you are purchasing a quality ring. Apart from this, they are also known for providing jewellery at affordable prices with easy and secure shipping. Online purchasing is a new level of comfortable and safe shopping where the team of professionals is always willing to assist you anytime 24×7.

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Wedding Photography

Weddings are a very precious moment in everyone’s life. It’s that occasion that not only unites two hearts but at the same time unites two families as well. That means a bigger reason to celebrate the day on a grander scale. Needless to say, there will be moments in that momentous day that will need to be caught as blissful memories. There will be immense joy, laughter, some minor faults, some childish acts, and there will be promise of everlasting love. All, these are needed to be captured and preserved for future remembrance. That is where the importance of a wedding photography arises.

A wedding photographer is that expert who is hired for the wedding day to capture the various moments on the d-day. As we all know that these photographs or videos will serve as long lasting memories of that beautiful day, a wedding photographer or a videographer is highly essential. So planning for the proper photographer is required too so as to not rue the decision afterwards. A specialised photographer is to be hired who is not only apt with the modern photography technology but also is an experienced person. So while choosing the wedding photographer one should make some serious calculations as to the specialty, quality, experience and the technology used. Thus by following the next few steps you can be assured of hiring the best wedding photographer to your wedding.

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1. Firstly, set your d-day right:

Well to be honest, you can’t set out looking for the photographer if you haven’t yet decided upon your wedding date. So first get that right. Once you have decided upon when you are going to tie the knot, you can go hunting for other information like, is the church, having any other weddings that day, or are the caterers serving then, or (and most importantly) are your family and friends free that day. If you get everything right then you can go for calling the photographers and check their availability.

2. Secondly, get the appropriate contacts:

This is where the supremacy of World Wide Web kicks in. but yes of course you do not need to surf the globe to find a photographer. Just go for the local photographers. Surf their websites and see their sampler works. Try to understand their styles, designs, specialisations, everything. Oh yes, and also do check for their fees. You don’t want to end up calling a costly photographer to cater for your wedding. Also check for their availability on that day because that’s what will matter the most later on. Plus you need to decide upon what type of photo session are you and your partner interested upon. The photographer should be able to cater to all your needs.

3. Thirdly, Making a rough shortlist:

After making a rough shortlist of all the photographers you are interested upon, arrange for a meeting with them. Get to know the photographer and his agency on a personal note. Try to view their work in printed format too. Ask them about their testimonials, previous client’s feedback, etc.

4. Fourthly, make sure to have a pre-wedding trial:

After everything has been arranged for ask for pre-wedding shoot with the photographer. That will make you and your partner more comfortable in working with him. Moreover, pre-wedding shots are a great remembrance too.

A pre wedding shoot is becoming very popular.  Not only is it a chance to see how you gel with the photographer but it is a good time to have your last photos as a couple as your next ones will be as a married couple.

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Wedding Tips Cont…

It is understandable why wedding planning is classed as one of the biggest things you will do in your life as wedding event planning can certainly be quite tough.  The thoughts below are designed to aid your while you prepare for your biggest day of your life.   In the event you do all of these things, your life will certainly be much much easier throughout the coming days. Let us get rolling.

Specify a Wedding Budget. 

The very first and most critical thing you will want to do before you’ll organize the wedding party is specify the budget. If perhaps you do not set the financial budget, you are likely to use more funds than anticipated to paying. This may lead you to quite a lot of stress when planning your wedding event.  Many brides and grooms set up a spreadsheet to allow them to monitor the costings.  It can help immensely when you feel the urge to over spend.  The thought process of having to enter on a spreadsheet may lead you to not wanting to overspend but maybe see if you can go under budget.  Budgeting can be a lot of fun.

Establish the wedding event day

Before making any plan, decide a day for your marriage ceremony. This can make it easier to recognise precisely how much valuable time you have to be able to organize for your big day.

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Wedding Planner?

Speak with a couple wedding planners to look at if they are cost-effective. If they are within the wedding budget, they’ll assist you to a great deal while you prepare for the wedding reception. In cases where anyone can’t pay for a wedding coordinator, ensure that you’ll have a good deal of precious time to prepare.  Take a look at the blog on wedding planners to see whether they are worth it for your wedding.

Find help

Encourage family and friends to assist you to plan your wedding day. Setting up your wedding event by yourself will be extremely hard. The greater help you’ll have, the more desirable experiences you can have while you plan. A few of helpers have the ability to save you plenty of stress

Divide the responsibilities in to groups

Divide each wedding planning activity directly into a small number of categories. If perhaps you have your tasks organised, it is going to be easier to manage each detail. This will certainly additionally help to make it less complicated to choose which of these tasks will need the most time.

Allocate the loved ones to each of these groups

When you have got the wedding event organising jobs divided into different categories, allocate a single friend or relative to be the leader of a category. Keep in mind that you are the boss however you’ve got one particular person supporting you with every single significant task. This will certainly help make remaining prepared much easier.
Remove additional disruptions

I comprehend that you constantly must work hard, you won’t be able to put off classes and spouse and children will always be the top priority in lifetime. Besides these types of critical things, attempt to eliminate and also take care of all additional interruptions. Planning a wedding reception will be hectic and needs a whole lot of time. When you’ve got mayhem around you, the wedding preparation will definitely be tough. If you’re able to simplify your own lifestyle for a couple months, you will enjoy a terrific wedding day.

I have contributed numerous opinions which will aid you throughout the preparations. If perhaps you implement these principles, you will certainly be pleased for the tips. Please be intelligent while you’re planning your wedding reception. Enjoy this experience.

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Beauty regime on your wedding day

Every woman aspires to have perfect skin that is radiant and smooth. A beauty regimen for women should be tailor-made according to the skin type and age. One of the most important things to remember while following a daily beauty regimen is that you should take care of your entire body and not just your face. Every bride looks gorgeous on the day of her wedding. It is generally a foregone conclusion. But, it does take months of getting ready for the D-day.

Your face is going to glow on your wedding day, that’s a given. However, there are certain things that even a bride needs to take care of so that the said glow remains on the face until the very end of the day. First of all, stop exposing your facial skin to harsh sunrays and pollution.

Use a scarf to protect your face, or if you’re not accustomed to wearing scarves, cover your face when you’re in a polluted area with a soft handkerchief at the very least. Use good face packs, facial scrubs, under eye creams to smoothen out possible wrinkles, moisturizer, and a good sunscreen. If you’ve been using one that suits your skin, but want to switch to another, try it out much in advance. Don’t do it two weeks before the wedding. Also, don’t ignore your lips. Moisturize them with petroleum jelly or any other appropriate balm that you use to prevent them from chapping or drying, especially if yours is a winter wedding.

Most women are so fixated with taking care of their face that they forget about extending the same care to their arms and hands. Callused hands, rough and dark elbows along with dark spots from sun exposure, etc. are some of the problems that most women face. To prevent these, you need to use an exfoliating shower gel everyday along with a deeply hydrating moisturizer or body lotion. Your arms and hands are prone to sun tan and pigmentation, so choose a moisturizer that has SPF in it. To avoid any embarrassment while going shoe shopping and for overall beauty, you need to keep your legs and feet smooth and soft.

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Apply a hydrating body lotion daily after a shower and at night apply a moisturizing foot cream. If you wear open toed sandals, then applying a sunscreen to your feet is a must as it will prevent unsightly tan lines to form on your pretty feet. You have to be in stunning shape on your big day. So, if you need to lose or put on a few pounds, then fix a goal weight and begin working towards achieving it, at least 4 months prior to the wedding. Four months is a decent enough period, and does not require you to go on a crash diet. So, eat right, and exercise enough so that you can reach your target weight and then maintain it, at least till your wedding day.

Remember to always get a good night’s sleep before your wedding, as you want to be completely relaxed on the d-day. On your wedding day, it is important that you eat well and stay away from any caffeine based drinks.  Give yourself enough time before the ceremony so that your hairstylist and your makeup artist can work their wonder.

Remember that this is your day and no one is more important. Just relax and enjoy the day as nothing will make you look more beautiful.

A style created correctly will not only look fabulous with your wedding dress, but it will also be durable.

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Wedding Flowers

When thinking about photographers, venues, vows etc it is very easy to forget about some of the small details when planning a wedding.  It is these small things that can make the wedding extra special.  Brides can often get carried away with looking for suits and favors. 

Most people leave choosing flowers arrangements to the last minute and find that the time needed to choose flowers is not allowed.

This brief guide looks at how to select flowers for Spring, Summer, Autumn and Winter:

Spring
Colour schemes for spring weddings are usually feminine and colourful, but perhaps not as bright as the colours seen during a summer or autumn occasion. The hues are traditionally more subdued – with subtle pinks, yellows, greens and blues all working very well.

Ranunculus, anemone, freesia are all common choices that work really well in a bouquet. However, the quintessential spring flower has to be the daffodil. In Britain, the appearance of daffodils marks the start of spring time, and therefore the flowers are often used to represent the start of a marriage.

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Summer
There is a huge variety of traditional and exotic flowers available during the summer, which is ideal for those planning a wedding. There is a natural explosion of brightly coloured flowers that appear only in summertime, but the sheer volume of flowers can make the decision a tricky one.

Some of the flowers that are abundant during the summer months include roses, delphiniums, peonies and irises. There are some new varieties that are quickly becoming classics, such as the stunning ‘Love-in-a-Mist’ (also known as Nigella). This intricate, interleaved flowers allows for a completely new take on the floral bouquet.

Other classic summer garden flowers are also becoming popular for wedding bouquets and centrepieces such as sunflowers, hydrangeas, sweet peas and marigolds. These all work exceptionally well to brighten up any wedding and give it that summery ambiance.

Autumn
As the trees start to shed their leaves, there is a whole new colour palette to work with. Oranges, yellows and reds are definitely the quintessential colours of the season, but there is room for creativity in an arrangement, for instance using pine cones, berries and herbs for a hint of variety.

Flowers are still abundant in August, so the choices are plentiful. Mint, rosemary, ivy, rosehips, sages and geraniums are all in season at this time of year. The exotic looking Nerine plants are also just coming into bloom around this time and could be the perfect centrepiece for a special occasion.

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Winter

Despite the bare trees and cold weather, winter weddings are becoming more and more popular, due to the fantasy some couples have of the perfect, white, winter wedding. However, in winter flowers are in short supply – which has led to ever more innovative bouquets being produced by some very creative florists.

As usual, roses will suit the occasion – with white looking particularly stunning at this time of year. Colourful orchids can also look great when well balanced with neutral tones. But often, the centrepiece will not contain a flower at all, but instead foliage. Holly, berries and vines add to the winter theme, and pussy willow can be an ideal alternative for any colourful flowers.

When it comes to choosing flowers for wedding bouquets, centrepieces, buttonholes etc. it is important to consider what time of year your wedding is taking place, as some flowers can be extremely expensive if not in season. It’s all about balancing colour with plants that suit the time of year and theme of the wedding, in order to create a truly unforgettable day.

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The Hat!

You’ve just sent your RSVP for the wedding of the year, so what to wear?  There are so many questions when choosing an outfit for a wedding.  You don’t want to clash with the wedding party or turn up when someone else is wearing the same dress as you.

There are lots of help and guidance around, including from friends and family.  Here is your first bit of help as we look at the choices, colours and styles on offer:

Colour matching is a fascinating area. You need to decide how to coordinate the shades and hues of your own complexion, your hair colouring and the colours that you prefer to wear. Perhaps more importantly you’ll need to coordinate with the bride and bridesmaids depending on the role you’re playing. If you are the mother of the bride, for instance, this is even more relevant.

One of the important issues regarding colour choices is getting the matching right between the various items of your outfit. It’s unlikely that you’ll be able to get everything from the one shop that matches (and cost may come into this too). In a retail outlet it will be easier to identify matches but the choice may well be limited. On-line retailers have far more choice, but can you be confident of the colour representation on websites? However, in the latter case, you do have the protection of distance selling regulations so you can return the hat and get full refund if the colour isn’t suitable.

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Another factor to take into account with colour matching is whether to wear the same colour throughout or to contrast colours. Contrasting can be very effective and make an impact. However, if your role determines that you have to coordinate with others the opportunity may not exist or the impact may be too great!

Onto the matter of hat styles and designs. All sorts of factors come into play here: your height, face shape, hair style and whether you want something elaborate or fairly simple. If you are on the shorter side you are probably looking at a smaller hat; if taller you may be able to carry a larger creation. You may want to make a statement with a flamboyant design to fit in with your personality! In that case, the services of a milliner may be required. You’ll need to allow enough time for the design and have slightly deeper pockets. On the other hand you may just want to blend in and wear something of a more subdued nature.

The season of the wedding may play a part in the design of your wedding hat and the fabric it’s made of. The typical spring and summer wedding calls for a light and floral design. But a winter wedding may require more substantial headgear. When it comes to design, you have to be guided to a certain extent by the nature of the wedding – a hat suitable for Westminster Abbey may not be suitable for the Registry Office! The budget you have also plays an important part needless to say.

When it comes to hat fitting it’s important to get your head measurement right. The average hat size is around 22 and half inches. Most wedding hats are made to this measurement although some are larger. Fortunately hat fitting can be adjusted in a number of ways: by the position on the head, by the use of hat tape for hats that are slightly too large and by using hat pins to secure the hat. Fitting in a shop should be straight forward. Getting the right fit from on-line stores may be a bit more difficult but a good website will provide a sizing for all their hats, so if you know your size this should not be an obstacle.

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Table Decorations

When it comes to planning the entire wedding, there is always a theme in mind that should be followed. This theme is then coordinated with every aspect of the wedding from the colour of bridesmaids dresses down to the colour of wedding table decorations including wedding place card holders. After all, when the couple sifts through their wedding albums, you do not only want them to see a memorable day but also a work of art.

Traditionally, round tables are used to seat guests during the reception. In a table setting, a centrepiece plays an important role as eye candy. Normally, a round table layout always has a medium sized centrepiece or a focal point in the middle of the table. In the event that the tables to be used are rectangular, its best to use a number of smaller centrepieces laid out symmetrically along the length of the table.

A favourite choice for a centrepiece will always be a flower arrangement whether they are real or artificial. Real flowers are always the best option to have because it is organic and the smell of fresh flowers always contributes to the ambiance of the venue. The only problem you will have with this is that it cannot be arranged months ahead of schedule unlike artificial flower arrangements. So, if you do choose to opt for a centrepiece made out of fresh flowers it is important to source them from a reliable florist. It would be better to get referrals from friends and relatives who have hired them before.

Candles placed in an ornately designed candle holder or floating candles in a glass bowl of water are also popular and practical choice as these can be sourced months or even a year in advance. Other centrepieces that can be used are miniature trees or shrubs, vases with table crystals, wedding favours, fruit, candy and really, anything that would look good at middle of the table. In choosing a centrepiece, keep in mind that they do not necessarily all have to be the same item.

Different items can be used for each table as long as they all coordinate well with a theme. Also think about availability of the item on the day itself. For anything edible or organic, they cannot be sourced ahead of time so always do a background check on the person or company that you are most likely to hire. Also consider the size of the centrepiece as it should not be too small and easily overlooked or too large and tall that takes up too much space and will give difficulty for your guests to look and converse across the table.

Next, choose your table linen. As a tradition, these are always white or ivory but these would not be practical if they do not go with your colour theme. Pastels are a great choice. If you want to cut back on expensive centrepieces, you may always opt for ornately designed or patterned table linen with simple centrepiece. The colour of table linen for each table does not have to match. You can choose different shades of your colour theme as a great alternative. Chairs are also almost always covered with the same table linen you pick for colour coordination. Make sure to inspect your table linen the day before to make sure that they are clean and stain free.

Lastly, do not forget other important decorations such as wedding favours for each guest and wedding place card holders so your guests know where their seat is. To add more glamour to your wedding table, you may add confetti or table crystals or even fairy lights.

Wedding Favors on a Budget

It is easy to choose wedding favors when money is not an issue.  The choices are endless and your guests are very likely to enjoy and cherish.  When you must restrict your choices to a budget, you may feel as though the choices are limited. That does not mean that you must give up on the idea of expressing your sentiments to your wedding guests with unique wedding favours. There are many different ways you can have beautiful wedding favours without going beyond your budget. One of the ways you can save money is by making your own wedding favours.  Extra money available to spend on your wedding dress.

Homemade wedding favours need not look cheap. In fact, DIY wedding favours can actually look quite elegant. Many guests are often surprised to find that their elegant wedding favours were in fact homemade. Imagine the compliments you will receive when you present your carefully crafted wedding favours to your guests and how surprised they will be when they discover you made them on your own.

While one of the biggest benefits of using homemade wedding favours is the ability to cut down on costs, there are also many other benefits associated with DIY wedding favours as well. For instance, you can be certain your guests will appreciate the thought and consideration that have gone into presenting them with a unique gift following your wedding ceremony. Even if you have guests that are notoriously hard to please, a customized homemade wedding favour will be certain to please.

In addition, DIY wedding favours present a unique opportunity to add your own special touch to your wedding favours. Homemade wedding favours give you an excellent opportunity to add your own special touch to your wedding favours. Your guests will be that much more inspired knowing that you have put so much thought and effort into each favour displayed and presented at your wedding.

When you choose to make your own wedding favours, it is also much easier to coordinate all of the decor and the favours at your wedding. You could even choose to display your wedding favours as centrepieces or additional decor at your reception. This is a great way to save even more on the costs of your wedding while also being ‘green’ as well because you will be recycling the decor as unique wedding favours. Homemade wedding favours are not at all difficult to make and you can find many ideas online.

Traditionally, brides have always found a unique way to express their own style and personality while also expressing their gratitude to their friends and family for being part of their special day. Homemade wedding favours are an excellent way to share the most important day of your life with the people that are most important to you. By choosing to create and craft your own wedding favours you are able to benefit from a number of advantages. While slashing costs is often a necessary task when you have a limited budget, making your own wedding favours also gives you the aforesaid many other advantages

A Winter Wedding

We would all be able to have a magic wand and that all weddings were blissful, and stress free and we are able to wave that magic wand to be given the perfect weather unfortunately this is not possible.

Even with all the planning that is involved in a wedding there are things that are out of the bride and grooms control and that includes the weather.

There is no need to panic, with preparation you day does not need to be spoilt rain or shine.

Detailed below are wedding decoration ideas and tips for the winter wedding of your dreams.

Rain or Shine

Whether you chose the wintertime because you’ve always envisioned a snowy white wedding or you’re hoping to save money in the “off season,” don’t let the weather stop you from creating a winter wonderland. The weather is something that every bride thinks about no matter when or where the wedding will take place. Summer and autumn brides worry about the day being too warm, while winter and spring bride are easily put off by just the thought of rain or snow. The fact of the matter is that Mother Nature is stubborn and unpredictable, so you really should plan for all forecasts and have a backup plan for any outdoor affair. Especially for out of town guests, consider advising guests to dress warm and prepare for any expected winter weather conditions.

The Venue

Picking an indoor venue can eliminate a lot of unnecessary worry about the weather, but keep in mind that winter weather can impact travel time significantly. Keeping to a schedule is important for a smoothly flowing wedding, but remember to have an attitude of flexibility and just go with the flow no matter what the conditions. This is your day to shine, so enjoy being surrounded by loved ones and remember to laugh if anything goes awry.

If you haven’t decided on a venue yet, consider those with an indoor option in case the weather decides not to cooperate. But if you’re like many brides, you may have your heart set on an outdoor ceremony or reception area, which could be risky if your wedding date is during the winter season. You don’t have to assume the worst, but prepare a backup plan in case the grassy park under the big oak tree suddenly turns into more of a muddy mess. If it’s just a light rain you’re concerned about, consider having a backup tent reserved to shelter your guests from any unexpected sprinkle. Having umbrellas that complement your wedding decorations are an increasingly popular choice that add fun and excitement to your day (not to mention that they look amazing in photographs).

The Wedding Decorations

When choosing the right wedding decorations to complement your winter celebrations, keep in mind all of your favourite memories that make you adore the season so much. The snow falling, the crackling fireplace, ice skating and sledding, hot cocoa and apple cider—these are all things that make winter so delightful, so incorporating them into your wedding accessories and theme will warm the hearts of all.

Snowflakes are one of my all-time favourite winter wedding decorations because of how it draws on the uniqueness of your love just like a one-of-a-kind snowflake. You can be well-assured that snowflakes will be loved by all, so play up this theme with a snowflake wedding cake topper and matching tea light holders scattered throughout your venue. You can even send your guests home with snowflake themed wedding favor gift bags filled with delicious treats or even a snowflake shaped wine stopper.

Staying Positive

No matter what weather your big day brings, keep in mind that if it’s just the ceremony that gets a little rain or snow, you will likely end up with the most gorgeous and memorable wedding for you and your guests. Not only will the lighting be perfect for your photographer, but you’re sure to end up with some of the most unique and beautiful wedding photos that you will cherish forever. There’s just something about being caught in the rain or snow that takes reminds us of being kids again, so keep a smile on your face and enjoy the wonders and beauty of nature on your winter wedding day.

A Summer Wedding

We all expect that summer wedding to be full of endless sunshine, fantastic hot weather and perfect pictures complete with smiley faces.  Unfortunately Mother Nature is not always that kind to use……..

Planning Around the Sun

Waking up to the beautiful sunshine on your wedding day is a blessing – nothing can go wrong under the sun…or can it? It definitely can. The lovely warmth of the sun can turn into an unbearable heat even after twenty minutes of exposure, leaving your guests restless (not to mention sweaty) as they wait for you to walk down the aisle. This discomfort can be alleviated with some smart ideas that your guests will truly thank you for:

Hand Fans and Umbrellas

Take the edge off the heat by providing hand fans or charming parasols in your wedding favors. Hand fans come in a variety of prints and colours that can match your wedding theme and will be a favourite item for your guests to stay cool. As for umbrellas, paper parasols are effective, but try limiting them to one per family or one for every two guests. Too many umbrellas may become distracting and may obstruct the view of the guests.

Stay Hydrated

The heat can be dangerous, especially when there is a lack of water. Make sure your guests, caterers, wedding photographers, and DJs stay hydrated by providing access to coolers of water bottles or constant water service. Again, utilize your wedding favors as a mini survival kit for your guests by adding a small bottle of water to the arrangement. Wedding accessories often include personalized water bottle labels that you can add to the bottles so that they match the rest of your wedding decorations. Don’t forget that you and your groom stay hydrated throughout the day too!

Perfect Timing

Want to avoid the blistering sun all together? Plan your wedding to take place in the late afternoon, right before the sun sets. Not only will this time of day be cooler, but it will also provide a romantic glow from the incoming dusk sky. If you’re worried that this setting will be too dim for the photographs, choose wedding decorations like whimsical hanging light garlands or an assortment of paper lanterns that will provide a warm and cozy setting against the fading sunlight.

Rain, Rain, Go Away

Unfortunately, singing that song typically won’t make the rain go away. The heavy rain and thunderstorms of the summer are probably your worst enemies when it comes to planning a summer wedding. Don’t let the rain damper your special day by staying one step ahead of Mother Nature.

Have a Plan B

Going for plan B doesn’t have to mean settling for something less than your fairytale wedding. Have an alternative indoor venue set aside just in case your outdoor venue gets rained out, and echo the essence of nature through your wedding decorations. Make sure this alternative venue is something you are happy with, so that in the rare occasion that plan B is the necessary route, you are still smiling under your wedding veil.

Take Cover

An alternative to the alternative – pitch a tent. In the case that the rain isn’t so harsh, hold your wedding under a tent to take cover from the drizzle. Tents come in a variety of styles and can easily be decorated with hanging lights, lanterns, flower garlands, and other whimsical décor that will provide a comfortable indoor vibe in an inspiring outdoor setting. Tents can also be used to solve problem of the intense summer sun – who knew taking a cue from the campsite would be such a good idea?

A summer wedding under the sun (or in the rain) can be beautiful and enjoyable even under extreme conditions. Accepting the challenge from Mother Nature and working around the heat and unexpected storms will be rewarding if you take the right precautions – so be bold and plan your wedding in the middle of the hottest July, you and your guests will be pleasantly surprised at how delightfully your special day turns out.

Wedding on a budget

A wedding does not need to cost thousands of pounds; it is possible to have that perfect and ideal wedding on a budget.  It is a common conception that weddings are expensive and luxurious but many couples have proved that you don’t have to go overboard to get the same joy from your day with costing a million pounds.

Below are some tips on where you can save your money, while still having the wedding of your dreams:

Plan
In the first stages of your wedding planning regiment, the most important thing for you to devise is a priority list. In order not to waste money that could be better used elsewhere, you can organize your expenses so that you can logically cut out some that are not essential. Another idea to try and cut some costs is to replace very expensive and elegant flower arrangements with subtle, simple, yet also elegant ideas. Remember, you can apply the same thinking to many different aspects of your wedding, not just the flower arrangements. If you are planning food for the wedding, don’t cut back there to save money, it’s not a smart move. It is possible to cut back on many aspects of the big day without anyone noticing, as long as the food is really good the guests will be very happy. Keeping a spreadsheet is the perfect way to measure your costs.

Avoiding Saturdays
Everyone thinks that Saturday is the best day for a wedding since everybody is off work, but it is actually very smart to plan for another day. Like was said, this time in the week is a perfect time to get married, and so results in the most expensive pricing. If you are willing to move your wedding to a different day, you could save substantially.

Do It Yourself Ideas
You can do many things yourself that save money, rather than buying everything for your wedding, although buying is easier. One thing you can definitely do yourself to save is to make your own invitations and “Keep the Date” cards. Immediately, you will save a few hundred dollars. This is not the only aspect of your wedding that can be done like this, so be sure to use your imagination.

Best Price Bookings
There is one expense that is very difficult to avoid when getting married, except in very rare situations. The best thing to do is to book a location far in advance, giving the owner plenty of lead time. Be aware that when the owner of the property is put under time pressure, he is likely to look for a higher price.

Look At Your Guest List
You don’t need to invite every man and his dog to your big day. You should really consider cutting down your guest list. Every person that comes to the wedding is an extra cost to you, mainly through food. There is no need to invite people that you have not personally met, or those that you do not particularly like. This is your special day that you will always remember, so be sure you are sharing it with those who are important to you.

Gift List
A gift wish-list can be given to all the prospective guests. They will appreciate having some ideas from you, as it can be hard to buy something unique and useful for a newlywed couple without having a little insight. Also, this way you won’t get so many random and sometimes impractical items or duplicate gifts. Some novel ideas I’ve seen include things such as an exercise machine, some bedding, a cuisinart mcp-12 cookware set, a sewing machine, a citiz coffee maker, a refrigerator, a cooker, TVs, stereos, luxury towels, and even car accessories. Be sure to include gift vouchers for your favourite shops on your wish-list.

Wedding Tips

Weddings can be a stressful event as things may happen on the day that are completely out of your control but with enough preparation and support from your friends and relatives it can be the most memorable and joyous event you’ll remember for a long time to come. Here are some handy tips to bear in mind to ensure that your special day goes as smoothly as possible:

1. Be aware of time: at the start of your day time moves slower than normal (“it’s only 10.00, I’ve been up hours”), but once you’re an hour away from the start of proceedings it goes into overdrive; and take time out together during the day – it will be over before you realise.

2. Allow plenty of time for marks from bra straps and socks to fade.

3. If you’re getting ready in a hotel, make sure you have a pair of scissors for cutting the tags off new items.

4. Leave plenty of time for doing up the dress if it has lacing at the back. It looks easy in the shop when they show you how to do it, but on the day it can add to the stress levels if you’re short of time!

5. Have an emergency kit: (sewing kit for the groom to repair his trousers?), scissors, Bachs Rescue Remedy for stressed mothers, hair grips, rubber bands. Make sure that the groom has cuff links if his shirt needs them.

6. Plan the day and then hand over the detail to someone else. If necessary, hire a professional wedding coordinator for the day so that you don’t have to worry about anything. And if things don’t go to plan, don’t worry, your guests will probably not even notice.

7. Don’t ask your photographer for too many posed family shots as you will get tired/bored/fidgety and miss the chance to be with your guests – and prevent your photographer from getting those special informal images.

8. Ladies hats: make sure that there is an understanding that hats will or won’t be worn during the wedding breakfast; and if not that there is somewhere for them to be kept; photographers, incidentally, prefer it without hats!

9. Timing: a one and a half hour interval between the start of the reception and the wedding breakfast is usually good; this will allow plenty of time to mingle with guests as well as for photographing the couple and the family shots. But see next point.

10. Receiving lines: the irony here is that if you have a lot of guests and want to make sure that you meet all of them, then a receiving line will do that for you, but will also take a considerable time (an hour for 125 guests at a recent wedding). It may be better to wander around the tables between courses.

11. If you have guests joining you later in the day, designate someone to meet and greet – nothing worse than turning up to a party in full swing and not knowing where to go, or what to do if the speeches are still going on because things are running late.

12. Confetti: if there’s going to be confetti thrown, get the ushers to organise a couple of lines. If it is just handed out to the guests without a plan, they will eventually wander up to you and throw some – usually against the wind!

13. The weather: a nice day is a great bonus – but if it rains, just smile and enjoy. And as far as photographs are concerned, if you want to go outside, make sure that it’s the photographer that gets wet, not you!

14. A lipstick tip from makeup artists: to avoid leaving some of it on your glass, wet the lip of the glass before bringing it to your lips – how you do this is up to you!

Finding the perfect photographer

Finding the perfect wedding photographer is another thing on the ever ending list of things to arrange for your big day.  But it is also a very big decision.  When you are looking back at those wedding pictures in 10 years time, you want them to be perfect.  It’s the photographs that are going to help you to remember your big down for many years to come.

It is definitely worth putting the effort and time in looking at past work of photographers and finding one that suits you both.

The following tips will hopefully help when choosing a wedding photographer:

Do some research – The web is a wonderful place to start if you’re looking for a decent photographer in your local area. Most will have their own web site providing lots of examples of their previous work, so you are able to get an idea of their particular style and how well it fits with what you’re looking for. You should also speak to friends and relatives that have got married recently and find out what they thought of their photographer – personal endorsements can be a terrific way to identify the ideal photographer for your wedding day.

Meet your photographer – You might be hiring them to provide you with a service, but you want to ensure that you and your photographer are going to get along. It’s really important that they understand your personality, and subsequently the kind of photography you will be wanting, and pictures of your wedding ceremony are going to be better whenever there’s a good chemistry between you and your photographer, and they are the kind of person that you and your guests are going to feel comfortable with. They ought to be able to control the photography on the day without coming across as too assertive or overbearing, but also have the ability to remain in the background, so you’re able to get on with enjoying your day.

Picture Quality – Most wedding photographers’ websites are terrific but try and see previous examples of their photography in the flesh so you’ll have the opportunity to properly check the picture quality. If they’re using digital equipment verify the resolution is high enough so that there won’t be any restrictions on the size of the photograph you’re able to have. Also, ask the photographer to show you a complete set of wedding pictures, since some might only let you see a selection of their very best shots from the wedding events they’ve worked at, and you want to make sure they are consistently good throughout the whole day.

Money – Budget can be a consideration, as decent wedding photographers are hardly ever cheap. This is a special day and while it’s rarely a good idea to select a photographer just on cost, you do need to make sure you are getting good value. Make sure you appreciate exactly what you will be receiving for your money and also that there isn’t going to be any costly extras. If you want to try and save a bit of money, June and the other months of summer are usually popular for wedding dates, so if you’re getting married in the winter, or perhaps on a week day, you could be in a position to negotiate the price.

Outline the photos you want – Plenty of photographers offer special deals which have an outline of the photographs they will take throughout the day. Do not be afraid to request some flexibility when you would prefer something different. Make sure your photographer understands exactly what photographs you would like taken at the different points during the day. This will help them to appreciate exactly what is expected of them and it can also help the formal photographs to run more smoothly.

Save the date

You may not think so but sending save the dates to your invitees is actually a relatively new and growing trend.  There are many reasons that a bride chooses to mail out save the date notifications.  Mainly because you want all your guests to attend your wedding and not someone else’s instead.  Spring and summer weddings are very popular so if you don’t send a save the date card you may find that someone else’s wedding falls on the same date and your friends have already committed to their wedding.  Another reason is by advising your friends and relatives about your wedding day six to twelve months ahead of your wedding reception date, enables them to make travel arrangements.  Save the date cards are very popular in weddings abroad.

Listed below, you will see answers to 7 of the most popular questions regarding wedding save the date etiquette.

Do we need to send save-the-dates? You don’t need to send cards, magnets or postcards, but if you would like as many of your invitees as possible to go to your wedding, then you certainly should inform them of the date as soon as you can.

Do we really need to send save-the-dates to all of our guests?
Okay, so you have chosen to send out STDs (and no, not that type). Here’s your (not so gold) star: * for keeping everybody in the know. Assuming you have an extremely restricted budget, then you could choose to skip those guests that you talk too often such as brothers, sisters and close friends. However, save the date cards are not too expensive so if you can spare the additional $40, then send them to all of your guests.
When do you send save the dates?
You can send them out once you know your date and location, but 6-12 months before your day is a good time-frame.
Note: it’s going to likely take a minimum of two weeks to have your cards or magnets printed and delivered. As a result, aim to order them no less than thirty days before you’d like to mail them to your guests.  It is possible to get these down quicker from some companies providing templates to use online.

Who do we address the save the dates to?
You should address the save-the-dates to the individuals whom you intend on inviting to your wedding. When you intend on just inviting your cousin and her spouse and not their 8 kids, then make sure to be obvious on the save-the-date and not include the names of the children or “and family”. If you have cousins that are in relationships with someone whom you don’t really know (and wouldn’t be invited on their own), then you should just address the save-the-date for your friend and you can add the name of the +1 to the actual invitation if they are still together.
Note: you can add invitees when you mail out your invitations however it will be difficult to remove invitees who you’ve sent a save the date to.
How do we address save the dates?
Save the dates ordinarily are not too formal, but if you’ve picked a more formal design and/or you will be throwing a very formal affair, then addressing them in a formal way is the way to go.
For your reference, formal would look something such as this: Mr. and Mrs. Michael Jones.
Informal addressing would read like this: Mike and Laura Jones.
Note: A few of your older guests may appreciate a more formal usage of their names than your friends, so you could want to address your grandparents cards different then how you address your best friends’.
What happens if we get a new wedding location or date?
This should not be a major issue as save-the-dates really should be mailed after you’ve booked (and likely put an initial deposit down) on a venue and date. Nevertheless, if it takes place, you can notify your guests of the change on the phone.

Does the bride to be or groom’s name go first on a save the date?
Generally wedding stationary has the bride’s name first, having said that they are in most cases informal which means you don’t have to be too fussy about it.

Tips on choosing the perfect wedding venue

A wedding will be the most important day of your life so you want it to be perfect.  That is why planning and finding the perfect wedding venue is a significant part of the wedding planning process.  You want to ensure you and your guests are going to enjoy it.  Choosing the perfect venue takes a bride a considerable amount of time and there are many things to consider when deciding on which location to choose.

Firstly you need to locate wedding venues in your local area, and check there is availability for your wedding date.  It is best to visit the venue before your wedding date and also prior to choosing a venue as you may narrow it down to a couple.  Visiting a venue gives you a feel of how the wedding will be and allows you to visualise.

Before choosing a venue the following should be considered:

1.) What kind of ceremony you will be having. You need to decide where you want to get married. If you are planning to have a church wedding you need to find a venue within a reasonable distance from the church where you plan to get married. If you are planning on having the ceremony at the venue where your reception will be then you will have to check with the management if they would allow this kind of set up. You also need to check if they are allowed under their licensing rules to have such ceremonies performed on their venue.
2.) The number of guests you plan on inviting. This is important because you need to choose a location that can comfortably hold all your guests. You need to check the venue’s maximum dining capacity. You want your guests to be able to enjoy themselves and sit comfortably during the ceremony and the reception.

3.) You need to consider the location. If it is an out of town wedding or in a remote location where your guests will be flying in from different parts of the country, you need to make certain arrangements to make sure they do not get lost.

4.) Check if the venue has an in-house planner. This can make your wedding planning easier. They may be able to recommend good suppliers and they are the ones who know what works best with the venue’s layout.

5.) You also need to check if the venue has an in-house caterer or if you need to hire caterers. You need to be able to find a caterer that is familiar with the site. You also need to check with the management if there are added to costs for the catering tents or equipment.

6.) Check the venues amenities like parking, toilets, access and even their staff. Check if there is parking at the location since you need to inform your guests if the parking happens to be restricted so they will know in advance if they need to book their own cab. If parking is restricted it is advisable that you should provide transport for your guests. You will also need to check if they have enough staff that can attend to your guests. There should be proper guests to waiter ratio and also check their toilets. Ask if the toilets are going to be serviced regularly during the time you are renting the venue.

7.) Lastly, make sure you ask what you can and cannot do at the wedding venue. There may be activities that they do not allow or that they charge extra for. You do not want to be stuck paying for a very expensive bill that you would have otherwise avoided had you asked the necessary questions.

The History of the White Wedding

White has long been accepted as the traditional colour of the wedding dress, but wedding gowns were not always white. The marriage of Queen Victoria to her cousin Albert of Saxe- Coburg in 1840 has had more influence on weddings than any other. Queen Victoria set the trend by marrying in wedding white. The Queen was the first royal bride to have bridesmaids to carry her train as well which also set a fashion trend.  Though brides continued to wed in gowns of different colours, white was now set as the colour of choice for weddings and has continued ever since. In Godey’s Lady’s Book, 1849, this statement was printed: “ Custom has decided, from the earliest ages, that white is the most fitting hue, whatever may be the material. It is an emblem of the purity and innocence of girlhood, and the unsullied heart she now yields to the chosen one.”

Machine made fabrics and inexpensive muslin imported from India, and styles inspired by the classical world were worn during this time. As usual with fashion, it began in London, spread to other cities and towns and eventually to country areas.  Materials that were used for wedding gowns also evolved.

In the nineteenth century, even a bride who wore white would expect to wear her dress again. For the season of her “bride visits” when she would do the rounds of family, friends and acquaintances as a newly married woman, she would wear her bridal gown, with the train and flowers removed. A higher-class bride would then adapt the bodice of the outfit (which was often made separately) and re-trim it for evening wear for another season. Perhaps this is where the changing of the wedding dress for the honeymoon derived.  Queen Victoria herself removed the lace over skirt from her dress and frequently used it again – she wore it over a black silk gown for her Diamond Jubilee celebrations over 50 years later.

In the 16th and 17th centuries there are pictures of brides wearing different shades of yellow, green, brown, blue, even black, according to their age, those colours would symbolise fertility or maturity. Some brides would just wear their best special occasion dress.

Brides from a wealthier background would certainly wear something more splendid. Brides would have encrusted jewels and furs to accentuate their white wedding dress.  Looking back over the years at the history of the wedding dress, we now seem to have returned to the original starting point of the pre-Victorian era when brides could let their imagination run free to chose the colour of their dress. Although entirely white or ivory dresses remain a popular choice, many brides choose gowns incorporating other colours either as part of the dress or completely for a more dramatic effect.

Now a days there are certainly no rules or etiquette on what to wear as you’re floating down the isle unless of course you are Kate Middleton.

Today’s bride wants to wear something that is comfortable, affordable and something that makes her look like a princess.  It is one special day that will remain memorable.  Pictures will be taken and put in photo albums and looked at for many years to come.  The wedding dress is something that not only needs to accentuate a woman’s best bits, but also be classic enough to be used perhaps again for her daughter.  A gown doesn’t always have to be versatile, but if we are to carry out the historical traditions of a wedding gown like Queen Victoria we would ensure that it would either be worn again or adapted into another shape to wear at another function.

Is a wedding abroad the perfect wedding for you?

Getting married abroad is growing more and more popular as more and more couples are jetting away abroad, to celebrate getting married in a unique and fabulous location.

I know from personal experience that making the decision to get married abroad is not an easy decision to make.  There are both advantages and disadvantages of getting married abroad.

Getting married abroad was the right decision for my fiancé and I because we wanted a small intimate wedding as neither of us have big families.  We had the vision of getting married in Sorrento because we are both fans of Italy and the Amalfi Coast is just out of this world.

So how do you know if getting married abroad is right for you?

The most important thing is the decision that you make is a personal one and is not something someone else can decide for you.  The pros and cons need to be weighed up to see whether the right decision for you.

The following list of advantages and disadvantages comes from the real life experiences of couples who have made the decision to have their wedding abroad.

The Advantages of Getting Married Abroad

Our choice of destinations and locations were endless.

We had our wedding in a unique and spectacular setting. The photos were amazing!

The cost of getting married abroad was significantly cheaper than if we’d of had our wedding at home.

The planning was easy and stress free because we hired the services of a wedding planner.

We didn’t get caught in the conveyer-belt of the traditional weddings, where couples often find themselves having the same format and style as every other wedding simply because there is no scope to do anything else.

Our families had a special week on holiday together, it made our wedding more than just a day, and it ensured that only our nearest and dearest attended, rather than the 150 guests at the evening reception made up of the obligatory people from work and our parents’ friends.

Our friends and family were really relaxed and they enjoyed it so much more as it was a holiday for them. The atmosphere was amazing and the weather was perfect.

The entire day & location reflected our personalities. It was also more intimate and a lot more relaxed than it would have been at home.

The Disadvantages of Getting Married Abroad

Some loved-ones simply couldn’t attend, and their absence was really felt.

It may cost your guests more to attend your wedding abroad and you do need to be mindful of this. Some guests may feel a little resentful about this fact.

You have to go with the flow a bit more when you get married abroad. If you are using a wedding planner or a tour operator, it is not always possible to be as hands on as you may like.

Logistically it can be quite hard. When I planned my table decorations and favours, for example, I forgot that I had to actually ship them all to the venue!

If you’re using foreign suppliers you may not get EXACTLY what you want. For example, my bouquet was slightly different to what I expected, but it was still beautiful.

You may be taking risks with suppliers. I booked our chapel, hair & makeup, photographer and restaurant all over the internet based on recommendations picked up in wedding forums! It was risky but it all came off perfectly. If you can handle the risk then go for it!

Lots of couples that have chosen a wedding abroad have achieved a wedding of their dreams.

 

Choosing a Wedding Planner

In the modern society we live in often means women are far too busy to be planning on their wedding.  There is not often the time in the day to work full time, run a home, socialise with friends and family and on top of that plan the most important day of your life.

There is so much to consider when planning a wedding including setting a budget, rings, guest list, wedding stationary, ceremony music, reception music, photography, honeymoon, wedding attire including choosing that perfect wedding dress and the list goes on and on.

Planning a wedding is regarded as one of the most stressful things to do in life along with buying a house and preparing for a family.  Weddings are now also becoming more extravagant so the need for wedding planners is on the increase.

In the olden days weddings used to be planned by the bride with help from her mother.  Our expectations have changed over the years as our expectations have become more extravagant.  Brides are turning to a wedding planner now to get that large extravagant wedding to outdo their friends and family.

Choosing the perfect wedding planner for your wedding can be a very difficult task.  The wedding planner needs to be someone that fully understands your requirements and the kind of wedding that you are looking for.  It needs to be someone that you feel comfortable talking to and get along with.  No point having a wedding planner if you don’t like the person as you will be spending a large amount of time sharing your ideas with this person.  You need to have complete trust in the wedding planner.  If you do not trust the wedding planner, then likely you will not open up to them and share your ideas which can lead to a wedding that you are not completely happy with.  You need to be able to speak up and express your feelings and opinions.

A lot of research is required to find that wedding planner, but you may be lucky and find a wedding planning through a friend where you have attended their wedding and fully enjoyed it.  Past performance is often the best indication of how well the wedding planner will perform.  Out of the weddings you went to last year, which one did you enjoy the most and stood out as being the wedding of the year for you.  Chances are it was planned by a wedding planner.  It’s good to talk to the other bride, because if she did use a wedding planner how did she feel it worked.  She may give the opinion of never using one again.  This helps you gauge the pros and cons of employing a wedding planner for your wedding.

Experience is most definitely important in the wedding planning business.  Someone who is new to wedding planner may do your wedding justice but it is not wise to take on a wedding planner that does not have proven experience and have the contacts in the business already to save time doing unneeded research.  An established wedding planner will already have established contacts with local DJ’s, cake makers, bands, reception locations etc. To help you get great deals and help keep the costs down on your wedding.

Another quality of a wedding planner is someone who wants to fulfil your dreams and make the wedding your perfect day.  They will do everything they can to make your dreams come true, and turn that fairytale into reality.  Some wedding planners have their own ideas on what will work in a wedding and will often not listen to your thoughts and ideas.  This is ok if you don’t have strong ideas that you want to work with, but if you have an idea the wedding planner needs to work with your ideas and not decline them without consideration.  At the end of the day it is your wedding!

When you find that wedding planner who is very happy to plan your wedding, spend those free hours looking for that wedding dress that will wow everyone.

Perfect Honeymoon Destinations

One of the most exciting parts of a wedding after choosing the perfect wedding dress is to choose your honeymoon.  It’s that one holiday when you can indulge and splash out on a holiday that is out of this world and one that you only dream about going on. 

With so many choices available to pick that perfect honeymoon, we look at the top 10 destinations to honeymoon this year.  From a beach filled relaxing honeymoon to a city honeymoon packed with lots of shopping and site seeing.  There is a range of destinations that every bride and groom will find one that is to their taste.

 

1. Dubai

Labelled the shopping capital of the world.  This city is filled with large shopping malls with designer clothes and accessories to help you spend that wedding gift money.  After a day of shopping, relax those tired feet with a cocktail by the poolside, or sit by the beach and watch the sun go down.

2. Barbados

A paradise, packed with golden sandy beaches lined with palm trees and clear, blue waters.  Barbados is a place loved by all and visited by millions of tourists.  With the sun shining almost all year you are guaranteed a sun filled honeymoon.

3. Mauritius

Loved by the rich and famous, feel like a celebrity for two weeks as you laze on the stunning beaches on offer and taste the local cuisine.  This place oozes with luxury and not surprising why it is loved so much by the rich and famous.

4. Maldives

The perfect honeymoon for those seeking a bathing holiday.  Known for its long stretches of golden sandy that glisten in the sun, a post card scene.  With stunning coral reefs and lagoon.  Perfect getaway for cocktails, swimming, bathing and is full to the beam of romance.

5. Malaysia

Lots of activities can be achieved in this country including surfing, shopping, swimming and bathing, or just enjoy the outstanding sceneries on offer.  First class service on offer, you will be completely looked after.

6. Seychelles

With luxurious hotels offering first class accommodation and honeymoon suites, you will be treated like King and Queen for your honeymoon.  The island provides lots of secluded beaches to enable you to spend time sun bathing on your own beach.  Away from the beach enjoy a spot of pampering with massages and treatments available at many of the hotels.

7. Hawaii

It is very obvious why this is a popular honeymoon destination.  With gorgeous beaches enjoy a dinner on the beach watching the sun go down or enjoy a romantic walk on one of the gorgeous beaches available in Hawaii.  Honeymooners are made very welcome and are looked after extremely well.

8. Jamaica

Fresh fruit on constant supply and friendly people to ensure you enjoy your honeymoon.  Relax listening to reggae music while sipping a cocktail around the pool.  Taste the local rum and enjoy the sandy beaches and amazing waterfalls.

9. Fiji

This is a paradise island.  A tropical island bursting with life.  Take time to look at the beautiful flowers.  If you are lucky enough see the orchids in bloom.  The beaches are out of this world and very popular for water sports in particular surfing.  The island has a buzzing nightlife and fantastic dining experience with fresh fish available.

10. New York

Such a fantastic city to visit whether you are on your honeymoon or just visiting the city as a tourist.  You will be spoilt for choice as to what to do.  Enjoy a spot of shopping, pampering, site seeing, day trips and watch a show.  The list is endless.

Choosing a wedding over Foreign Skies

A large UK wedding and the formalities involved is not the perfect wedding for some brides.  Many brides are choosing to say their vows over the foreign skies of a picturesque location abroad.  Planning a wedding abroad can be very fun as a lot of the stress can be taken out of your hands for you to concentrate on looking for that perfect wedding dress and planning a guest list.  A wedding planner is usually on hand to help you pick receptions or a simple meal in a local restaurant as well as organising all the legalities involved in a wedding abroad.

Wedding parties are spoilt for choice when it comes to choosing a destination abroad to spend that most important day of your life at.  Although there are many things that need to be considered when picking a destination:

Season

If you have always wanted to get married in December, there are a lot of countries that are similar to the UK and are not hot all year round.  Getting married in rainy season will not look good on the pictures.

Style

Many brides dream of getting married on a beach.  There are many destinations where this is possible, for example Mexico.  Where it may not be appropriate in some destinations such as Sorrento.  Sorrento is a gorgeous place to get married but there is no beach, just a pebbled harbour.

Size of party

Weddings abroad suit smaller parties as not every guest is going to be able to travel to that perfect wedding destination and be able to see you on your special day.  It may be difficult for elderly people to travel far or those with young children.  There are also the cost implications, the further around the globe you plan to wed the more expensive the travel costs to be for those planning on attending.

European wedding destinations are alot easier to get to, and a wedding party can get to the destination usually in four hours or less.  Making European destinations very popular amongst wedding parties.   Many of the budget airlines service the majority of European destinations making the wedding package cheaper for not only the bride and groom but also for those guests coming along.

European weddings allow the guests to come for a short period of time, for example the day before, the wedding date and leave the next date, keeping the costs down and also meaning that two weeks spent in the destination are not needed.  Getting home is very easy.

Brides and Grooms will be spoilt for choice on locations.  Cyprus has sun 330 days of the year and is home to some gorgeous beaches.  Perfect for those first wedding pictures.  The choices are endless on the type of wedding available, getting wed on the beach, hilltop, local church (some restrictions apply) or town hall.

Sorrento is becoming the number one choice, as Sorrento, Italy is becoming more and more popular for wedding parties.  It is easy to see why!

The Amalfi Coast is just out of this world, admired by everyone that visits.  The Amalfi Coast has a number of postcard pretty vertical villages that are lined with beautiful flowers, sandy coves. And an amazing coast.  The Amalfi Coast is home to Pompeii, Ravello, Positano and Sorrento.

Malta is another destination that is perfect for weddings.  It has the balance between being filled with history and a modern twist that is admired by lots.  Tie the knot under a gazebo surrounded by flowers in bloom and the clear blue sea in the background.  A very romantic and quiet wedding enjoyed by all.

Top 10 Wedding Dress Trends for Spring 2012

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Ball gowns are bigger than ever this season; ruffles are more popular and exquisite.  Satin and lace wedding dresses inspired by celebrities such as Kate Middleton and Katherine Heigel are on the runway.  Chose from Intuzuri’s Top 10 Wedding Dress Trends for spring.

1. Sexy Slits
With a classic heart-shaped neckline clinging at the waist this wedding gown is sure to turn heads.  This dress can be worn by any shape or size that is perfect and leaves much to the imagination with its leg-flaunting slit.

2.  Off-the-Shoulder Necklines
Pairing this shoulder-baring style with wispy tulle skirts instead of satin ones gives a traditionally old-fashioned neckline new life.  One of the sexiest part of a woman’s body are her shoulders.

3.  Beaded Bodices
Decked out décolletages mixed with flowing minimalist skirts are the hottest trend right now.  Heidi Montag (MTV’s The Hills) wore a similar style wedding dress when she married Spencer Pratt.

4.  Embellished Illusion Necklines
Sheer bateau necklines continue to be the rage on the bridal runways and this season, crystal and pearl appliqués give these see-through styles a more glamorous vibe.  This style is a classic as you can remember Halle Berry’s wearing her sheer bateau neckline to the Golden Globes in 2001.  When looking back from years to come you’ll still think this trend is hot!

5.  Frothy Ruffles
This trend is flattering and fun.  Flirty, swirled layers are certainly the way forward this spring.  Victoria’s Secret model, Lily Aldridge wore layers of chantilly and corded lace appliqué and raw edge swirling chiffon detail at the back when she tied the knot with Kings of Leon front man Caleb Followill.

6.  Cap Sleeves

Right now, we’re in love with dainty sleeves that make even the most glitzy, body-hugging gowns feel statuesque.  This detail makes a simple wedding dress more fun.  If you are looking for something to cover up your arms this dress might be the one for you to try.

7.  Voluminous Ball Gowns

This season, there was certainly no shortage of full, dramatic skirts. So many, in fact, that we’re guessing wider aisles might become a trend too.  Treat yourself to this lavish style- one that makes you look like a princess.

8.  Hi-Low Hemlines

These peek-a-boo hemlines are ultra-fashionable. Plus, they’re the chicest way to show off amazing wedding shoes.  This style of wedding dress is young, sexy and flirty.  However, it can be worn by any flirty fashionista.  Take your wedding dress style to another level. This dress is screaming “party” in the front and “business” in the back, high-low hemlines are flirtatious, yet sophisticated. They have the power to elongate your frame and highlight your best assets.

9.  Sheer Lace Capes

Designers keep coming up with new ways to cover up. Last season, it was all about long sleeves, but the latest craze is gracefully draped capes.  At almost every runway show, at least one gorgeous bridal gown topped off with a romantic sheer lace cape floated down the catwalk.  It’s the perfect wedding accessory for brides who love the Kate Middleton look but don’t want to wear a sleeved wedding dress. Capes and caplets achieve a similar look, and add a bit of vintage chic to your white aisle style.

10.  The Color Purple

After a year of reigning as the favourite hue for bridesmaid dresses, purple is taking centre stage — both head-to-toe and as an accent — as the hottest wedding gown shade to hit the bridal runways.  There are many shades to choose from lilac to a deep violet.  Take tips from Khloe Kardashian.  She wore a lilac sash around her waist when she tied the knot to the famous American basketballer Lamar Odom.  This is a simple and fresh way to add a hue of colour.  Who says everything always needs to be white?

 

 

 

 

 

Celebrity Weddings expected in 2012

 

Summer may be round the corner but more importantly it will soon be wedding season.  We all love a good wedding but we also love reading about the latest celebrity weddings and 2012 looks to be a year packed full of celebrity weddings.

We take time to look at a few of the glamorous weddings that are expected to hit the red carpet this year.  Time to get the confetti out!

Christine Bleakley & Frank Lampard

Things are on the ‘up’ for our favourite TV presenter, she may have been sacked from Daybreak in 2011 but as the new face of Dancing on Ice she is also set to marry the footballer of every girls dreams, Mr Frank Lampard.

The lovely couple got together in 2009 and soon got engaged last summer while holidaying in LA and Christine was quick to announce to her colleagues at Daybreak while still in LA.  They have yet to set a date but we are guessing it will have to be after Euro 2012 and around Frank’s football commitments.  How exciting!

Drew Barrymore & Will Kopelman

We once knew Drew as that young sweet girl in E.T but now she’s due to get married.  It is rumoured  Will proposed to Drew while holidaying in Sun Valley, Idaho in October last year, with a gorgeous ring to mark this occasion.  The actual date of the wedding has not been announced but is likely to be a late summer wedding.  Attended by many of tinsel town, it’s likely to be the wedding of the year.

Frankie Muniz & Elicia Turnbrow

Frankie got engaged to his publicist and are planning on a summer wedding.  They have been together for four years.  A long time to get engaged in the celebrity world.  The Malcolm in the Middle star has struck gold with Elicia, they may have had an unsteady relationship earlier on but they seem very happy now.

Jack Osbourne & Lisa Stelly

Jack may be a part of the well known Osbourne family with his father being the one and the only Ozzie Osbourne but he has got engaged to his model/actress girlfriend Lisa.  It is reported they got engaged last September after dating for only four months.  Not only is this couple planning their wedding but they also are awaiting the birth of their first child.  This may not be a 2012 wedding as they are likely to wait until the little one arrives but knowing Jack he may surprise us all.

Peaches Geldof & Thomas Cohen

Another celebrity expecting a baby in 2012.  Peaches has been dating her rocker boyfriend for only a year, but they announced last year they had been secretly engaged for some time, as much as six months.  Again this may not be a 2012 wedding and they may wait for the arrival of the little one first before getting hitched.

Aretha Franklin & William Wilkerson

Aretha is engaged to her friend William and are planning to get married on Miami Beach.  This is going to be a gorgeous wedding.  There are already talks about her dress, what designer is going to make this dress?  Is it going to be a lace dress?  Satin dress?  The queen of soul has found her prince!

Jessica Simpson & Eric Johnson

Jessica got engaged to Eric, and is planning a wedding for later in the year.  An Autumn or Winter wedding is expected.  She is busy wedding dress shopping despite having a bump.  This is Jessica’s second wedding, and we hope everything works out well and look forward to seeing the Yummy Mummy get hitched this year!

 

 

 

Chantilly lace

Many brides are fascinated with the lace our bridal gowns are made of. Let’s have a closer look at the Chantilly lace – considered to be the finest material of all textiles and the main feature of Intuzuri wedding dresses.

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Chantilly lace featured in Intuzuri collection.

The origins of Chantilly lace – the king of materials, date back to 17th century, when it was first manufactured by the Duchesse de Longueville at Chantilly, France. Chantilly lace is one of the main determinants of a haute couture style in terms of bridal gowns. It’s characterised by a luxuriant and intricate detail, a distinct pattern and a fine ground.

Intuzuri bridal gowns are made of the finest sort of Chantilly lace – entirely handmade, silky and with gorgeous floral patterns, as we cater for the highest expectations of every bride. Chantilly lace, which enchants brides so much, makes the wedding dress look rich but subtle and delicate at the same time.

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Chantilly lace featured in Intuzuri collection.

We are proud to deliver the product that brides are excited about and which makes them feel special and unique on their wedding day. Please take a look at our beautiful Chantilly laced gowns!

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Intuzuri dress Antonella adorned with Chantilly lace.

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Intuzuri wedding dress Adelphi adorned with Chantilly lace.

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Intuzuri wedding dress Aida adorned with Chantilly lace.

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Intuzuri at British Bridal Exhibition in Harrogate, 11-13 of March 2012

British Bridal Exhibition, which took place on 11-13 March in Harrogate, proved successful for Intuzuri, with a staggering 50 new accounts and expanding brand across the whole UK.

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Intuzuri stand at British Bridal Exhibition in Harrogate, 11-13 March, 2012

Intuzuri was exhibiting during the biggest bridal UK show for retailers the second time round. Following the debut in September 2011, the label opened a new season with a 50 square metre stand to fit in all of the guests. To our delight, an astonishing number of retailers turned up and the stand was continually busy.

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Andy Murray - Intuzuri sales manager, with models wearing Ayisha (on the left) and Arianna (on the right).

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Model wearing Abigail.

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The stand was busy all the time.

We would like to thank all of our guests for coming to see our collection of gowns. Thanks to you, our brand is growing strong and is expanding at a fast pace. We are going to work hard to make Intuzuri the most popular bridal company in the UK market and we are looking forward to a great cooperation with you, our retailers, which we guarantee will be very beneficial for you.

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Model wearing Ayisha.

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Welcome to Intuzuri

Welcome to the Intuzuri blog. We invite you to view our collection of beautiful dresses at www.intuzuri.com.

This blog will be a diary of useful information, from behind-the-scenes stories of our collection, inspirations, and lives to useful industry information and stories of happy brides.

If you have a particular topic you would like to discuss or something for us to research, please let us know and we will happily feature your stories on here.

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Intuzuri wedding dress Adelphi


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